

Although this is becoming less of an issue as a sistah ages (praise the Lord!), I know I can’t be the only one who feels like there is pretty much only one week out of every month when I’m home-free as far as menstrual cycles go. The rest of the time, if my body isn’t getting ready for my period to come on, it’s recovering from being on it.SMDH. Between bloating, restlessness, period pimples, random food cravings, and unpredictable moods, the last thing that anyone wants to experience is a damn yeast infection. Yuck upon yuck. Eww upon eww. Ick upon ick.
And really, just what is up with that, anyway? Why does it seem that if there is ever a time when we can predict that a yeast infection will arrive, it’s when Aunt Flo wants to spend a bit of quality time with us?
If that’s something you can relate to and it’s also something that you’ve low-key always wondered about, I’ve got the answer — along with some things that you can do to prevent yeast infections and menstrual cycles from colliding (at least as much) in the future.
Okay, So What’s Up with Yeast Infections Around Menstrual Cycles?
So, sincereportedly 3 out of 4 women will have at least one yeast infection in their lifetime, I’m thinking that most of y’all have “had the pleasure” — NOT — by now at some point. This means that you probably know what causes yeast infections to transpire in the first place: an overgrowth of bad bacteria in your vagina to the point where the good kind isn’t able to prevent it from becoming an infection.
Although things like pregnancy, weight gain, diabetes, certain medications, poor diets, sleep deprivation, and even stress can play a role in making you more susceptible to getting a yeast infection, one thing that can be the culprit behind all of these is a set of imbalanced hormones. And when do your hormones find themselves moving all over the place the most? In the days leading up to your period.
There was even a study that stated that for more than half of the women who had a significant imbalance between good and bad bacteria, it was right when they were about to start their cycle. So, when you take all of this into account, it makes a lot of sense when periods and yeast infections seem to like to hang out with each other a lot.
How to Treat a Yeast Infection During Your Period
So, what should you do if you happen to get a yeast infection during your menstrual cycle? To tell you the truth, for the most part, you should do what you’ve always done in the past when it comes to healing from one. If an over-the-counter product (like Monistat) has always worked for you, you can still use it (although you should go with pads instead of tampons until the treatment is completed). If you’ve always taken an oral med like Diflucan, you still can. The main thing that I wanted to bring up here is since bothyour estrogen and progesterone levels tend to be at their lowest when you are on your cycle and since some studies say that progesterone can help to keepcertain strains of candida under control, you might want to consume more cruciferous vegetables, kale, and nuts.
Why? Well, although there aren’t really any foods that contain progesterone, there are some that help tostimulate the production of it — and the ones that I just mentioned qualify. It’s also a good idea to keep in mind that it’s not uncommon for the changes that a period brings to actually make you think thatyour yeast infection went away during your cycle (it’s happened to me before); that usually isn’t the case, so keep treating it, as usual, whether you’re on your cycle or not.
6 Ways to Prevent a Yeast Infection Before Your Cycle Comes in the Future
You know the saying: an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. So, now that you know what causes a yeast infection around your cycle, here are six things that can help to prevent one around that time of the month.
1. Use organic products.
If you’re someone who uses tampons (especially), it’s important to go withan organic brand. The reason why is that they don’t contain the dyes, fragrances, and other chemicals that many popular commercial brands do. This is relevant because anything that is going to be inside your vagina for hours on end needs to have as few chemicals on it as possible. Otherwise, it could throw your pH balance off, and — voila! You’ve got a perfect breeding ground for a yeast infection. For leads on some of the best organic tampons that are currently on the market, check out Health’s “The 8 Best Organic Tampons, According to Experts.” For a referral for organic pads, check out Cosmo’s “11 Organic Pads Your Bathroom Cabinet Needs.”
2. Load up on probiotics.
All of us havelive bacteria and yeast in our system; probiotics are the good kind of bacteria that our body needs —including our vaginas. The short answer why (you can read a more detailed onehere) is when your vagina is full of probiotics, it helps to fight off the bad bacteria that can throw off your pH balance and lead to some type of infection, including a yeast infection. This is why it’s smart totake a probiotic supplement on a consistent basis and you consume foods that are high in probiotics likefermented ones, including yogurt, raw cheese, and sourdough bread.
3. Get plenty of rest.
Since your hormone levels are all over the place in the days leading up to your cycle, you might find it difficult to sleep soundly throughout the night. Still, it’s important to be as intentional as you can about keeping your anxiety levels low and getting as much rest as possible. The (main) reason why is research reveals that you’re more likely to get a yeast infection if your body is stressed out or sleep-deprived. So, if you’re craving processed sugar or caffeine, try and curb that with natural sugar like fruit and go with decaf while you’re PMS’ing in order to keep your anxiety levels low so that you can remain calm and relaxed. And if you need to take a (power) nap to get more sleep in, do that. A lot of women end up with yeast infections because they’re not getting enough rest — and they don’t even realize it.
4. Protect your labia with a mix of coconut and olive oil.
An itchy labia (the outer part of your vagina) can be a telling sign that a yeast infection is either present or on its way. If you’re looking for a natural way to bring some external relief and healing (whether you’re on your cycle or not), apply a combination of coconut and olive oil to it.Coconut oil contains powerful antifungal properties whileolive oil is actually an oil that candida can’t stand. (By the way, the purest form of olive oil isextra virgin if you want to get the best — and quickest — results.)
5. Shed a few pounds.
If you heard somewhere thatbeing overweight can trigger a yeast infection, that would be true.The backstory is having extra pounds on your body can alsoplay a role in your hormones not being as balanced as they need to be — and as you’ve already seen, hormones that are in influx can definitely cause a yeast infection. So, although it is importantto not stay in your workout clothes for too long (due to all of the moisture in them that yeast enjoys thriving in), do make sure that you exercise. Aside from burning calories, it’s also been proven thatexercise can keep your estrogen levels from getting out of wack — and as far as avoiding yeast infections is concerned, that is always a good thing.
6. Use condoms.
Especially if you’re about to have sex with a new partner, you need to use a condom. There are multiple reasons why; however, when it comes to this particular topic, although sperm/semen itselfdoesn’t exactly “cause” a yeast infection, what it can do is alter the pH level in your vagina to where it creates an environment for a yeast infection to occur. So, if you don’t want sexual activity to result in a yeast issue up the road — condoms, it is, sis. Condoms, it is.
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Is it guaranteed that doing all of this will prevent a yeast infection around your cycle? Bodies are a tricky thing, so I can’t make those types of failsafe assurances. What I will stand on is, now that you’re aware of what yeast infections and periods have in common, you can be intentional about taking preventive measures that will make getting an infection less of an issue — and hell, even one less yeast infection experience will make that all worthwhile, don’t you think? Hell, I do.
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From '106 & Park' To Prime Time, Rocsi Diaz Is Still That Girl
Rocsi Diaz is no stranger to the camera. From her iconic run on 106 & Park to interviewing Hollywood heavyweights on Entertainment Tonight, she’s been at the center of culture for years. Now, she’s back in the hosting chair alongside none other than Deion “Coach Prime” Sanders for We Got Time Today, a fresh talk show exclusive to Tubi.
The show is exactly what you’d expect when you put a media pro and a sports legend together—a mix of real talk, unfiltered moments, and guest interviews that feel like family kickbacks. As the duo wraps up their first season, Rocsi sat down with xoNecole to talk about teaming up with Deion, the wildest moments on set, and why streaming platforms like Tubi are shaking up the talk show world.
Scoring the Gig & Clicking Instantly with Deion
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Deion Sanders had been dreaming of hosting a talk show, and when Tubi came calling, it was only right he made it happen. But before he found the perfect co-host, he held auditions with different women for the spot.
Lucky for us, Rocsi threw her hat in the ring, and the connection was instant. “You just can’t buy chemistry like we have,” she tells us. “We are legit like big brother, little sister—fighting, cracking jokes, telling each other off. When you watch the show, it’s like watching family.”
Mixing News, Culture & Sports—Minus the Snooze
With We Got Time Today, Rocsi and Deion cover everything from the latest headlines to celebrity tea and, of course, sports. But instead of stiff, rehearsed segments, the show keeps it loose and unpredictable.
“We’re not breaking the mold—it’s not rocket science,” Rocsi jokes. “We just bring our own flair, our authenticity, and our personalities to it. Deion has firsthand experience in sports, so when we talk about athletes, he brings a different perspective.”
And the best part? Unlike traditional talk shows that rush through quick interviews, We Got Time Today actually takes its time. “A lot of shows might give you one or two segments with a guest,” Rocsi says. “With us, we actually sit down and have real-life conversations.”
Her Top Guests (So Far!)
From music icons to relationship experts, the show has already had some unforgettable guests—but a few stand out for Rocsi.
“Ice Cube was our first guest, and he’s just legendary,” she says. “Kirk Franklin had us cracking up when he broke into a full choir freestyle for our Christmas special. And anytime we get Dr. Bryant on to put Deion in the hot seat? That’s my favorite!”
And of course, there’s Nick Cannon. “Nick was amazing,” she adds. “You already know he’s going to bring the energy and say something wild.”
Tag-Team Hosting with Deion: The Inside Scoop
While Deion Sanders is best known for his football greatness, Rocsi says he’s also one of the funniest people she’s ever worked with.
“He’s goofy—like, really goofy,” she laughs. “A lot of people didn’t know that side of him, but now they do. He can crack a joke, and if you’re too sensitive, good luck, because he will go in. But the best part? I throw it right back at him! Sometimes we just look at each other like, ‘Okay, that was a good one.’”
But beyond the laughs, she admires his insane work ethic. “Watching him juggle everything he does is just super admirable,” she says.
How "We Got Time Today" Brings That "106 & Park" Energy
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For those wondering if We Got Time Today feels like 106 & Park 2.0, Rocsi says it’s a whole different vibe.
“The only comparison I’d make is that it’s a destination for the culture,” she explains. “It’s a platform where our people can come, feel safe, and have real conversations. But other than that, this is Deion’s world—we’re just having fun in it.”
The Talk Show Shake-Up: Why This Show Hits Different
Unlike traditional networks, We Got Time Today lives exclusively on Tubi, proving that streaming platforms are changing how we watch talk shows.
“Tubi is giving more people opportunities and making content more accessible,” Rocsi says. “Deion is a huge Tubi fan—he literally loves Black cinema—so it just made sense for him. And honestly? He’s got me watching it too!”
Real Ones Only: Women Holding Each Other Down
Rocsi credits her best friend, Chantelle, for always keeping her grounded. “She kept pouring into me, reminding me of who I am,” she shares. Even Deion Sanders makes sure to give her flowers, often calling her “the hostess with the most.”
In the industry, she’s built lasting bonds with women like Julissa Bermundez, Angie Martinez, and Angela Yee. “Julissa and I still kick it—her house is basically Sephora, so I just shop there,” she jokes. She also cherishes her friendships with Melyssa Ford and Robin Roberts, who have offered unwavering support. “Robin has always been there for me,” Rocsi says, reflecting on the wisdom she’s gained from the legendary journalist.
With the show’s first season wrapping up, Rocsi is grateful for the experience and excited for what’s next. “We’re having a good time, and the audience can feel that,” she says.
And if you haven’t tuned in yet? Well, Rocsi and Deion got time—so you might as well make some too.
Catch We Got Time Today now streaming on Tubi!
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Eva Marcille On Starring In 'Jason’s Lyric Live' & Being An Audacious Black Woman
Eva Marcille has taken her talents to the stage. The model-turned-actress is starring in her first play, Jason’s Lyric Live alongside Allen Payne, K. Michelle, Treach, and others.
The play, produced by Je’Caryous Johnson, is an adaptation of the film, which starred Allen Payne as Jason and Jada Pinkett Smith as Lyric. Allen reprised his role as Jason for the play and Eva plays Lyric.
While speaking to xoNecole, Eva shares that she’s a lot like the beloved 1994 character in many ways. “Lyric is so me. She's the odd flower. A flower nonetheless, but definitely not a peony,” she tells us.
“She's not the average flower you see presented, and so she reminds me of myself. I'm a sunflower, beautiful, but different. And what I loved about her character then, and even more so now, is that she was very sure of herself.
"Sure of what she wanted in life and okay to sacrifice her moments right now, to get what she knew she deserved later. And that is me. I'm not an instant gratification kind of a person. I am a long game. I'm not a sprinter, I'm a marathon.
America first fell in love with Eva when she graced our screens on cycle 3 of America’s Next Top Model in 2004, which she emerged as the winner. Since then, she's ventured into different avenues, from acting on various TV series like House of Payne to starring on Real Housewives of Atlanta.
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Eva praises her castmates and the play’s producer, Je’Caryous for her positive experience. “You know what? Je’Caryous fuels my audacity car daily, ‘cause I consider myself an extremely audacious woman, and I believe in what I know, even if no one else knows it, because God gave it to me. So I know what I know. That is who Je’Caryous is.”
But the mom of three isn’t the only one in the family who enjoys acting. Eva reveals her daughter Marley has also caught the acting bug.
“It is the most adorable thing you can ever see. She’s got a part in her school play. She's in her chorus, and she loves it,” she says. “I don't know if she loves it, because it's like, mommy does it, so maybe I should do it, but there is something about her.”
Overall, Eva hopes that her contribution to the role and the play as a whole serves as motivation for others to reach for the stars.
“I want them to walk out with hope. I want them to re-vision their dreams. Whatever they were. Whatever they are. To re-see them and then have that thing inside of them say, ‘You know what? I'm going to do that. Whatever dream you put on the back burner, go pick it up.
"Whatever dream you've accomplished, make a new dream, but continue to reach for the stars. Continue to reach for what is beyond what people say we can do, especially as [a] Black collective but especially as Black women. When it comes to us and who we are and what we accept and what we're worth, it's not about having seen it before. It's about knowing that I deserve it.”
This interview has been edited for length and clarity.
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