

I get it, sis. You just worked your tail off with a workout where you felt you could literally feel your calories burning off for good. But the work doesn't end there. While we're all trying to channel our inner Tracee Ellis Ross and Angela Bassett, a solid workout isn't enough. Even if you feel like you just did all the cardio in the world. What you eat after your workout can play a major part in your lifestyle choices.
And while it's tempting to treat yourself to Chick-Fil-A and Dairy Queen, there are better options that will fuel that intense workout.
Potatoes
While French fries are clearly not the best option to load up on after working out, that doesn't mean you can't eat regular potatoes (i.e. baked potatoes, sautéed potatoes, and such). When prepared the right way, they can actually serve as a good carb and restore your body with necessary glycogen, which helps keep your blood sugar levels on point. It goes without saying that fruits and vegetables are great for after a workout, but the key is balance. And that's where potatoes come in. Other good carbs include oatmeal, crackers, a granola bar (read the label), and dried fruit.
Protein
Your body will definitely need to refuel after you hit the gym (or your living room floor). While carbs are great to stock up on (the good kind of course), there's also a need to replenish your body with protein. Basically, carbs and protein are the yin and yang to the best foods for your workout. Since carbs have already been covered, great sources of protein include quinoa, cottage cheese, kefir, eggs, turkey breast, and nuts such as almonds. Of course, you can expand outside of that and go for tofu, fish, and beans too.
Balanced Meals
It might not be a good idea to eat too much after a workout (hey, cramps) but there's definitely room for a well-balanced meal; especially one to two hours after your workout session. Considering the idea of a well-balanced meal has been argued lately, it's safe to say it includes a healthy meat choice like grilled chicken or salmon, a good carb like rice or potatoes, and of course a fruit and/or vegetable. If you're vegan, you've already found a great protein substitute for chicken and fish. But in case you need a few more, there's always the likes of quinoa, tofu, and mushrooms.
Smoothie
Smoothies are always great after a workout because you can literally just throw in a bunch of nutrients and enjoy. It's quick, it's easy, and it's healthy. Another bonus is that it gets you full and causes you to steer away from feeding your hunger with unnecessary food that's not even healthy. Here's a quick tip for smoothies: the key is avocado. That's the ingredient that makes you fuller for a longer period of time, even more than fruit. Plus, it's full of healthy fats that can help your joints before you jump into your next workout.
Snack
If you're like me, you can find any excuse to indulge in a snack. Thankfully, an amazing workout is a great reason, as long as it's a healthy choice. Some of them include a cup of chocolate milk (yes, you can do it, sis), whole wheat toast with peanut butter and banana, hard-boiled eggs with whole wheat toast, a protein smoothie, a veggie omelet, and so on and so on. These snacks and other healthy options are great to eat while you prepare your well-balanced meal. Sidebar: almonds and oranges are also a great combination. Who else remembers when Destiny's Child singer Michelle Williams spilled that that was Beyonce's go-to when she was preparing for Coachella?
Fat
Not all fats are bad to eat after a workout. Like many other things on this list, it really just depends on the kind you select. For example, whole milk is better at boosting your muscle growth compared to skim milk, at least after a workout. While you should definitely put a ceiling on how much fat you eat after a workout, there's no need to ban it from your post-workout diet altogether. Some examples of good fats are dark chocolate, whole eggs, fatty fish like salmon, nuts, chia seeds, and avocados.
Bread or Yogurt
Just like fats, it depends on the kind. But when you spring for the right one, your body is definitely getting the fuel it needs after a good cardio session. For yogurt, I think we all know the best kind to eat is Greek. And feel free to add some fruit or granola into it for taste. For bread, the best kind is whole wheat. You can toast it and add peanut butter or almond butter or make a sandwich with turkey or chicken and soup on the side.
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Eva Marcille On Starring In 'Jason’s Lyric Live' & Being An Audacious Black Woman
Eva Marcille has taken her talents to the stage. The model-turned-actress is starring in her first play, Jason’s Lyric Live alongside Allen Payne, K. Michelle, Treach, and others.
The play, produced by Je’Caryous Johnson, is an adaptation of the film, which starred Allen Payne as Jason and Jada Pinkett Smith as Lyric. Allen reprised his role as Jason for the play and Eva plays Lyric.
While speaking to xoNecole, Eva shares that she’s a lot like the beloved 1994 character in many ways. “Lyric is so me. She's the odd flower. A flower nonetheless, but definitely not a peony,” she tells us.
“She's not the average flower you see presented, and so she reminds me of myself. I'm a sunflower, beautiful, but different. And what I loved about her character then, and even more so now, is that she was very sure of herself.
"Sure of what she wanted in life and okay to sacrifice her moments right now, to get what she knew she deserved later. And that is me. I'm not an instant gratification kind of a person. I am a long game. I'm not a sprinter, I'm a marathon.
America first fell in love with Eva when she graced our screens on cycle 3 of America’s Next Top Model in 2004, which she emerged as the winner. Since then, she's ventured into different avenues, from acting on various TV series like House of Payne to starring on Real Housewives of Atlanta.
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Eva praises her castmates and the play’s producer, Je’Caryous for her positive experience. “You know what? Je’Caryous fuels my audacity car daily, ‘cause I consider myself an extremely audacious woman, and I believe in what I know, even if no one else knows it, because God gave it to me. So I know what I know. That is who Je’Caryous is.”
But the mom of three isn’t the only one in the family who enjoys acting. Eva reveals her daughter Marley has also caught the acting bug.
“It is the most adorable thing you can ever see. She’s got a part in her school play. She's in her chorus, and she loves it,” she says. “I don't know if she loves it, because it's like, mommy does it, so maybe I should do it, but there is something about her.”
Overall, Eva hopes that her contribution to the role and the play as a whole serves as motivation for others to reach for the stars.
“I want them to walk out with hope. I want them to re-vision their dreams. Whatever they were. Whatever they are. To re-see them and then have that thing inside of them say, ‘You know what? I'm going to do that. Whatever dream you put on the back burner, go pick it up.
"Whatever dream you've accomplished, make a new dream, but continue to reach for the stars. Continue to reach for what is beyond what people say we can do, especially as [a] Black collective but especially as Black women. When it comes to us and who we are and what we accept and what we're worth, it's not about having seen it before. It's about knowing that I deserve it.”
This interview has been edited for length and clarity.
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Does hearing the phrase, “you’re such a good girl,” during sex turn you on? If so, you might have a “praise kink.” When I hear the term praise kink, the church girl in me wants to immediately play “The Lady, Her Lover and Lord” while riding reverse cowgirl. But that’s not what is meant by the term praise kink.
A “praise kink” is a sexual fetish that focuses on overt praise, exaggerated compliments, and an outpouring of verbal affection.
What Is a Praise Kink?
The concept of praise kinks isn't new, but thanks to TikTok, a lot of people are now realizing they might identify as praise kinksters. Currently, the hashtag #praisek1nk is trending with 568.9 million views, with tons of creators posting about their love for compliments and words of affirmation during sex. I, too, love a good compliment during sex. I once had a lover sing my praises about how good I was at a certain bedroom activity. His affirmations gave me WAP, but does that categorize me as having a praise kink?
How To Know if You Have a Praise Kink
Just because you love receiving praise doesn’t mean you have a praise kink. Someone with a praise kink experiences an intense level of sexual excitement from being praised or verbally affirmed by their partner during sex. You might have a praise kink if hearing your partner tell you how pretty you are makes you cum or if the thing that makes sex go from good to great is hearing your partner's thoughts about how good you are at giving head. And if, during solo play, the thing that gets you all hot and bothered is recalling the times your partner called you a good girl, it’s probably a praise kink.
Generally, a kink is a sexual activity that is needed for someone to enjoy sex. When it comes specifically to praise kinks, if you need reassurance from your partner that you're sexy, or good in bed in order to orgasm, you have a praise kink.
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Examples of Praise Kink Phrases To Try With Your Partner
If you’re new to the term and looking to explore, you probably have questions about what phrases to use. It may take a lot of communication and some trial and error to figure out what phrases work best for you and your partner. Ultimately, the best phrases to use vary from person to person and are based on what sex acts you and your partner enjoy, or what parts of their body they like complimented.
To get you started, here are some generic praise kink examples to try out with your partner:
Praise Kink Examples:
- You're such a good girl/boy.
- You're so good at [insert skill].
- You look so hot when you [insert activity].
- Your [insert body part] is irresistible.
- You taste so good. I can't get enough of you.
- You just have the perfect [body part].
- Just like that… you’re doing so good.
- Who taught you how to be so good at [something?]
While many examples of praise kink involve specific verbal affirmations, praise can also come in the form of brief words or phrases like “yes,” “keep going,” or simply a moan. No matter what type you prefer, praise kink is all about finding what feels good and exciting, and turns you and your partner on the most.
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Originally published on November 4, 2022