Tia Mowry Shares The Why Behind Her Decision To Leave 'The Game' When She Did
You know, there is something so refreshing about seeing this new, independent Tia Mowry. She is out here living her best, unapologetic, post-divorce, free, and fulfilled life. And honestly, we are here for it.
In fact, although her divorce was news to us, it absolutely was not the case for her, as the Sister, Sister alum recently shared with Today that she actually knew the exact moment she wanted to end her 14-year marriage with ex-husband Cory Hardrict.
“I knew when I really started to focus on my happiness. I feel like women, we tend to focus on everybody else’s happiness, making sure that everybody else is okay — meaning our children, our friends, our family — but at the end of the day, it’s about self-love.”
Now, you can find her serving as resident content queen across our timelines, from hilarious Reels on Instagram to dinner recipes on YouTube. She's also taking more chances at owning her happiness and allowing us a genuine glimpse into who she is as a woman -- not the mom, the wife, or the actress -- even opening up on subjects that she never discussed publicly in the past.
Recently, she visited The TERRELL Show on YouTube so the duo could indulge in a few libations and chat about life like old friends do (which, if you don't watch him regularly, definitely add his channel to your subscription list). They played games and discussed intriguing topics such as her divorce, how she's navigating the single life, The Game, and whether or not she's dating.
Highlights are below:
On acting not being her first passion:
As Terrell was giving Tia her flowers, coining her a triple threat, Tia revealed that she is actually a dancer at heart.
"I love to dance," she started. "And a lot of people don't know this, I actually was a dancer. The first jobs I got were being a dancer, so I danced with MC Hammer." She went on to reveal that she can in fact, "touch that" and that she didn't really have aspirations to be an actress at first.
"I would model, I would dance, there would be some singing. Honestly, my brother Taj was the bonafide actor."
On starring in 'Sister, Sister':
Mowry tells the story of how Sister, Sister came about after visiting the Full House set with Taj frequently at 14 years old. "Sister, Sister was actually created for us, so we didn't have to audition at all. My sister and I just kinda went into this room, and it was at Paramount Studios, and we just talked [about it]."
On Marques Houston being her actual real first kiss:
"You know I grew up on that show and you know I'm a teenager...my first real kiss was in the parking lot at Paramount Studio with Marques Houston. I wasn't allowed to date until I was 18, so this is probably the first time [my parents] are hearing this. Marques and I, we were really good friends, and we are still really good friends. So, hi, mom. Hi, dad. Sorry, Marques."
Terrell goes on to ask her how she and her twin sister, Tamera, didn't succumb to the horror stories of being child stars, to which she assuredly quipped, "because we had a mother that whooped our ass."
On the chokehold 'Seventeen Again' had on the culture:
"I feel like it still resonates. A lot of people really, really loved that movie, and it's a classic, especially around that time you didn't see a lot of representation playing in movies like that."
On why she accepted the role of Melanie in 'The Game':
"I graduated from college in 2003. I knew I wanted--because I graduated with a psych degree in growth and child development--I knew I didn't want to go in that direction, so I said you know what, I have my degree, but I still want to act, and I was like you know what, this character is so me. [Melanie] was a girlfriend that was there for her boyfriend at the time, supporting his career...that's kind of where I felt I was in my life."
On why she (really) left 'The Game':
By this time, the shots had settled in, and Tia opened up about some of the politics that go on behind-the-scenes that make actors choose their own happiness over beloved characters.
"' The Game' was canceled from the CW, so there was a timelapse. Pooch (Derwin) ended up booking a show, and he was a regular on the show, which made him reoccurring on 'The Game.' So they said, 'well, you could come back but only as recurring.' And I valued myself, you know, and I said I feel like I'm more than a recurring. I am a regular. And I said 'no.'"
We stan a Black woman who knows her worth. #deuces
The interview closes out with Tia revealing that she's deaf in one ear, her struggles with breaking out as a solo actress without Tamera, and our girl even confirms that she may have been outside to see what the dating pool is all about.
Watch the full interview below:
TIA MOWRY Gets Drunk, Sings Brandy, Spills Marques Houston Tea, and Talks Dating After Divorce
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The Mecca Of Fashion: The Top Street Style Moments At Howard Homecoming
Outfits were planned, bags were packed, and cameras were ready to capture Howard University's collegiate spirit during its centennial Homecoming celebration. Not only does it hold the number one ranking as the most elite Historically Black College and University or its top performing academics, diversity of students and alumni, but the HBCU also leaves a legacy of style and grace.
The essence of effortless poise and refinement shines bright through the iconic university colors of indigo blue, red, and white. Every October, Howard University students, alumni, staff, and friends gather on the prestigious campus in Washington, D.C. to take part in time-honored traditions and events, which is Homecoming. This year's theme, “The Meccaverse,” was a week-long celebration of Howard University’s heritage, including the Homecoming football game and Bison Pep Rally, the Fashion Show, Greek Life Step Show, Homecoming Day of Service, Lavender Reception, and the iconic Yard Fest Concert.
As 2024 marked the 100th anniversary of the Howard Bison trek back to The Mecca and after two years of virtual events due to the COVID-19 pandemic, this was to be a celebration of a lifetime. We enlisted HU alumnus Sharmaine Harris, a luxury retail buyer, as she revisited her alma mater as eyes on the yard for fashion-forward outfits mixed with personal style and campus pride for the weeklong celebration.
Before we get to the looks, discover how attending Howard University impacted her career in fashion and her day-to-day style:
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xoNecole: Describe your personal style. Did attending Howard have any impact on developing it?
Sharmaine: Howard taught me that there’s no such thing as being TOO dressed. There’s always a reason to “put it on” and look presentable, even if it’s just for a day of classes. Standing out was celebrated and encouraged with my peers embracing the opportunity, giving me the confidence to try new styles and trends.
xoNecole: How did Howard shape your career as a luxury buyer?
Sharmaine: I studied Fashion Merchandising, through which I was fortunate to have professors who were very connected to the industry and able to give first-hand accounts of opportunities and what to expect post-college. I was also able to build a network through my peers and other Howard Alum, which has opened doors to endless possibilities both within fashion as well as daily life.
The same confidence instilled in me through my style has also been rooted deeply within me as I step into any role or project I’m faced with throughout my career.
xoNecole: This year marked Howard’s 100th-anniversary Homecoming celebration. Can you describe what the weekend looked and felt like?
Sharmaine: I’ve gone to many Howard Homecomings since graduating, but this year’s 100th anniversary felt like a huge family reunion filled with nothing but love. It was beautiful to see so many Bison return home looking great and radiating joy. It was beautiful!
xoNecole: What makes Howard fashion different from other HBCUs?
Sharmaine: Being that Howard is The Mecca, we have such a diverse population with each individual having their own spin on fashion. Getting dressed is second nature for us, but the layered confidence is our secret ingredient to make any look come together. Through that comfortability to push barriers, we have a legacy of setting trends, as indicated by the many alumni we have in the fashion and entertainment industry.
Keep scrolling for the top street style moments from The Mecca's Homecoming weekend:
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Ciara Talks Motherhood & Future Kids With Russell Wilson — Meet Her Growing Family
Ciara has been popping out babies, it seems like every year, and we love that for her. According to her latest chat with PEOPLE, she ain’t done yet. In an exclusive interview at the 2024 Baby2Baby Gala held on Saturday, November 9, in Beverly Hills, the popular singer opened up about motherhood and the hectic schedule she maintains due to her four children.
She admits that the Wilson house is all the way turned up. “I have a kid on every corner. Oh my Lord, pray for me sometimes," Ciara shared. The "Goodies" singer and Russell Wilson, the Pittsburgh Steelers quarterback, are parents to three children: Sienna, 7; Win, 4; and Amora, 10 months. Additionally, Ciara has a 10-year-old son, Future, from her previous relationship with rapper Future.
In the midst of the prevailing chaos, the Grammy-winning singer surprisingly expressed her openness to having a fifth child, albeit not immediately. "Russ keeps walking around going like this, like, 'Cinco.' And I'm like, 'High five, I love you too.' I mean, listen, I think we'll make it to five, but this mom needs a little time. Just a little bit."
In July, the couple, who wed in 2016, commemorated their eighth wedding anniversary. To honor the occasion, Wilson compiled a sentimental video showcasing some of the couple's most romantic moments, which she subsequently shared on Instagram.
During an episode of the I Am Athlete podcast, Wilson talked about how he sees fatherhood as a direct reflection of what God has done for them. He said, “Unconditional love, to be able to love us in the midst of it all, to be able to be there for us, to be able to provide, to be able to care for us, to be able to show up for us every day. Not just physically but also mentally and spiritually.”
An insider described Ciara as a mother with remarkable energy during her pregnancies. They noted that Ciara refers to her life as "organized chaos," but she takes it to a higher level. The bright and shiny couple has always desired a large family, and being a mother is something she loves and has always wanted. You can feel the love this family has for one another. Let’s learn more about the beautiful bunch.
Meet Ciara and Russell Wilson's 4 Kids:
Future Zahir, 10
Ciara and her ex-fiancé Future welcomed their son Future Zahir in May 2014. On Mother's Day 2020, the rapper expressed gratitude to Ciara in a heartfelt message, writing, "Baby Future is Life, Preciate u." Young Future currently resides with his mother, stepfather Russell Wilson, and his three younger siblings.
In 2022, Ciara gushed over her “loving” son, telling PEOPLE, “Future is just like the kid with the wisdom who's probably the calmest but also is like, ‘Hey, I'm the biggest one, so keep that in perspective.’” In addition to showcasing his dance moves with his mother on the red carpet, Future Zahir has been receiving top-notch football guidance from his stepfather, who can be a demanding coach. Ciara remarked about Wilson in 2022, "He disciplines with love." Future Zahir has also inherited his parents' musical talent, having collaborated with his mother and sister on the song "Treat," a partnership with Kellogg's.
Future’s relationship with Russell is one of fairytales. The proud father reminisced about meeting his stepson for the first time as an infant on the I Am Athlete podcast. "He crawled into my lap, and I just knew, this is going to be my responsibility," he shared. "I remember leaving that night, and God spoke to me, saying, 'Raising this child is your calling.' I prayed, asking, 'Are you sure this is what you want me to do?' And He replied, 'Yes, this is meant for you.'"
For Wilson, becoming a stepdad was a special "opportunity," especially once he realized that Ciara was "the one" for him. He embraced the role wholeheartedly.
Sienna Princess, 7
On April 29, 2017, in Los Angeles, Ciara and Russell celebrated the birth of their first child together, a baby girl named Sienna Princess Wilson. The couple drew inspiration for their daughter's middle name from Ciara's own middle name, Princess. In a sweet post announcing her birth, the couple shared a photo of Ciara sitting on the beach, writing a note to their daughter that said, "No matter how big the wave, we will always be your calm in the storm."
As a toddler, Sienna, whom Ciara affectionately refers to as "SiSi," truly started to display her unique personality. Ciara shared on Instagram that beyond Sienna's adorable sassiness, they shared an unanticipated bond that has become undeniable, evident in their adorable matching photos.
Sienna quickly assumed the role of a devoted guardian to her younger brother, Win, once she was no longer the baby. "She thinks that he's her baby sometimes, especially when he was smaller, so that's really cute." The loving mother is eager to emphasize that her daughter, who resembles her in many ways, is not hesitant to express her fierce and independent nature as the only female among the children.
This year, when the mommy mogul asked SiSi who she wanted to be for Halloween, baby girl proudly said CiCi. "I can’t tell you how much this means. My baby girl went on tour with me and by the end she had every detail locked!" she continued in her caption. "Lil SiSi as Big CiCi. My sweet Sienna Princess Wilson 🥰🖤🎤"
Win Harrison, 4
Born on July 23, 2020, Ciara and Wilson welcomed their youngest son, Win Harrison Wilson, into the world. The name Win was Wilson's top choice, while the middle name served as a tribute to Wilson's father, Harrison. Shortly after Win's birth, a heartwarming video emerged of Ciara serenading her newborn with "Happy Birthday" in their hospital room.
Dr. Katz, Ciara's trusted doctor, who had delivered all her children, suggested that they sing "Happy Birthday" to the new baby. The act of singing brought great joy to Ciara, who mustered the energy to complete the song despite her postpartum state. Ciara recalled a similar experience with her daughter, Sienna, when she was born.
Win was warmly embraced by his older siblings, who eagerly showered him with love and attention. Thanks to their guidance, Win's development accelerated, and he soon reached a significant milestone by taking his first steps on the sidelines of Wilson's football practice.
According to Ciara, in an interview with PEOPLE, she attributes Win’s rapid development to his desire to keep up with his siblings, especially his older sister, from whom he has inherited a sense of fearlessness. Win also appears to have inherited his father's energetic nature, as previously shared by Ciara on Jimmy Fallon's show when he was only eight months old.
Win continues to impress with his sweet, energetic, and humorous personality. His presence brings joy to every room he enters, as described by Ciara in a heartfelt tribute on his second birthday.
Amora Princess, 10 months
The last Wilson baby is sweet Amora, who was born on December 11, 2023.
On Instagram, the couple expressed their immense love for their newborn in a post accompanied by an adorable photo of the little one. Ciara announced her fourth pregnancy in August 2023 through a heartwarming video shared on her Instagram. In the video, she is seen dancing by a pool, flaunting her baby bump. The caption read, "If you look at me like that again, we'll have another kid... You are my heart, and I am your rib."
According to a source who spoke to PEOPLE, Ciara remained active throughout her pregnancy with Amora, both working and traveling.
She even shot the music video for "How We Roll" while pregnant, showcasing her energy by dancing on set for an entire day. They also mentioned that she shot another music video when she was nine months pregnant with Win.
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