
This Is How Kamala Harris Got Joe Biden All The Way Together At The Democratic Debate

Unpopular opinion: Trump being elected may have been the best thing that could have happened to this country.
I developed this theory in 2016, only months after father-of-five Alton Sterling was murdered by a police officer in the parking lot of a convenience store when Donald J. Trump was elected into office. Our country erupted into riots and protests, and people were genuinely angry and afraid of what was to come, but in my opinion, maybe we needed to be that angry for things to change.
Judging by the nearly 30 Democratic candidates running for president right now, it's clear that the American people are taking matters into their own hands to create a new normal, one that may not have existed if we had elected Hilary. It's easy to stay complacent when things are "iight" but right now, the state of our America is far from that, and Kamala Harris is here to change that.
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This week, the Democratic debates took place in Miami, where not one but four minorities went on stage and dominated the conversation, leaving frontrunners like Joe Biden and Bernie Sanders in the wind. Among the stars at the first two of three debates this week, was our formerly piff-puffin' auntie from Oakland, Kamala Harris, who just officially kicked off our hot girl summer by totally owning the Democratic stage last night. In a brilliant moment that had Joe in shambles, Kamala proved that she may be the best person to kick 45's ass in the 2020 election.
If gathering old white men was a sport, Kamala Harris deserves a gold medal because honey, she got Joe all the way together. In an intense discussion about the former VP's support of racist politicians who prevented the integration of schools by opposing busing. Kamala said:
"I do not believe you are a racist and I agree with you when you commit yourself to the importance of finding common ground. But I also believe — and it's personal and it was hurtful to hear you talk about the reputations of two United States senators who built their reputations and career on the segregation of race in this country."
According to the 54-year-old former prosecutor, Joe's support of those politicians impacted her in a very personal way. Although Brown v. Board of Education abolished the segregation of schools in 1954, Kamala's district didn't see integration until nearly 20 years later.
"There was a little girl in California who was part of the second class to integrate her public schools, and she was bused to school every day. That little girl was me. So I will tell you that on this subject, it cannot be an intellectual debate among Democrats. We have to take it seriously. We have to act swiftly."
Although Joe did make the point that he became a public defender to help the people, while Kamala has a damning record as a prosecutor, Kamala put those courtroom skills into action. And at that moment, Joe knew he f*cked up and was unable to regain his ground in the conversation. Since the debate, voters have been giving the former VP a serious side-eye, and according to sources, Joe's camp has made remarks that Kamala hit him with a "low blow" by bringing up his busing record, and to that Kamala says: boy, bye. Today, on CBS This Morning, Kamala told Gayle King:
"If segregationists had their way, I would not be a member of the United States Senate today, I would not be a top contender to be president of the United States."
I have to admit, that a few months ago, I was extremely skeptical about supporting Kamala in this election due to some poor choices she's made in her prosecutorial career, but I also know that no politician has a perfect record. According to media sources, last night's debate has pushed Kamala to the front of the Democratic race and proved that you should always bet on the underdog.
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'He Said, She Said': Love Stories Put To The Test At A Weekend For Love
At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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Celebrate International Women's Day With Wellness, Empowerment & More
International Women’s Day, celebrated on Saturday, March 8th, presents an excellent opportunity to honor and celebrate women. As March marks Women’s History Month, there are numerous chances throughout the month to pay tribute to the remarkable contributions of women.
Both International Women's Day and Women's History Month serve as reminders of the progress made toward gender equality and the work still left to do.
They inspire ongoing advocacy for women's rights, fostering discussions on issues such as workplace discrimination, healthcare access, and representation in leadership. By celebrating women's contributions and amplifying their voices, these observances help pave the way for a more inclusive and equitable future.
Here are four ways to celebrate International Women's Day and Women's History Month.
Attend a Women History Month Event
This month, there are numerous events happening, particularly for International Women’s Day. One such event is organized by Media Girls Network, which will be held over a multi-day period starting on Thursday. The entire event is dedicated to celebrating women.
On Friday, the organization will honor prominent women in business and entertainment, including the OMG Girlz, celebrity restauranteur Gocha Hawkins, and more.
On Saturday, guests can indulge in a day of wellness and self-care, featuring a fitness class, massages, a journaling workshop, and other activities. For more information about these events, visit www.mediagirlsontour.com.
Support a Woman-Owned Business
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Reports indicate that women constitute 39.1% of business owners, and this percentage is steadily rising. In light of this, let’s celebrate and support women-owned businesses this month.
Here are a few ways to do so: shop at their establishments, leave positive reviews, follow and engage with them on social media, collaborate with them, or contribute to their crowdfunding efforts.
Support Women's Rights Groups
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Since President Trump took office, we’ve witnessed an unprecedented number of rights being reversed, including DEI programs. Women have been particularly concerned about his decision regarding abortion and reproductive rights. Recently, he dismissed the Idaho Emergency Abortion case, which was a legal battle to ensure Idahoans had access to emergency abortion care.
Writing in her Substack blog, Abortion, Everyday, journalist and abortion rights advocate, Jessica Valenti, said, “By dropping this case, the Trump administration is sending a clear message that anti-abortion states don’t have to adhere to [the Emergency Medical Treatment and Labor Act] by giving pregnant patients life-saving care.”
Instead of waiting on Trump's next move regarding women's rights, support women's rights organizations and charities like In Our Own Voice Action Fund and Planned Parenthood.
Empower Others
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Use your voice to raise awareness about the challenges women encounter. This can be achieved through social media platforms or by speaking at local rallies and events. By leading by example, you can inspire others to get involved and contribute to the support.
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