

This post is in partnership with European Wax Center®
I think we can all agree with the notion that ingrown hairs are the devil. They have this tendency to pop up at the most inconvenient times, like right before a vacation or the morning of a formal event. Whether you wax, shave, laser, or depilatory creams to remove body hair, most of us have encountered one of these stubborn, unsightly bumps a time or two. If you're not careful, trying to pluck them can cause even more damage. As fate would have it, people with curlier or coarser hair types are more prone to getting them.
While ingrown hairs aren't life-threatening, they sure as heck are painful! So painful, they can make sitting, walking or any other daily activity very uncomfortable. With regular waxing and at-home care, you can minimize and even prevent the presence of ingrown hairs. But first. let's recap what they are and how they even develop in the first place.
What are ingrown hairs?
Deidra Green, licensed esthetician and the Senior Field Training Manager for European Wax Center, says an ingrown hair is essentially just a strand of hair that has curled down back into the skin instead of growing straight out through the follicle. "Sometimes it can cause a raised bump," she says. "Sometimes it's right underneath the surface of the skin. Other times, it can become impacted or even infected if you have a really extreme case."
What causes ingrown hairs?
As with many other things, ingrown hairs can happen to anyone. However, they can also be caused by poor hair removal techniques. Lack of exfoliation can lead to a build-up of dead skin cells, which block hair follicles and cause a hair strand to grow sideways instead of straight up. People with curly or naturally coarse hair are more likely to run into this problem since their hair thickness and shape lend themselves to growing beneath the skin. Green says ingrown hairs can be caused by a number of things you might not suspect, like shaving with a dull razor or using the wrong products. "[With both of these things] the hair just has a hard time finding its way out of the follicle."
How do I treat ingrown hair?
When it comes to ingrown hairs, the best thing to do is handle them with care. The pain and inconvenience of an ingrown hair popping up unexpectedly might make you want to go at it with tweezers and get to the root of it. But err on the side of caution. Gently exfoliating the hair and applying a serum, like European Wax Center's award-winning ingrown hair serum with glycolic acid, will treat recent breakouts while preventing new ones from cropping up. If you've got a particularly pesky ingrown that needs special attention, get an esthetician or wax specialist on the job to safely get the trapped hair out.
What keeps ingrown hairs away...for good?
Sadly, there is no guarantee that you'll never get another ingrown hair in your life, but you can reduce them significantly by trading in shaving for waxing. This is especially true if you tend to get them along your bikini line and pubic area. As opposed to shaving or trimming which just removes the skin at surface level, waxing removes the hair from the root which helps it grow back unobstructed. Waxing also helps the hair become softer over time, and therefore, less likely to get caught beneath the surface of your skin. As mentioned above, frequently exfoliating between waxes also help keep your follicles clear of dead skin and easier for new hair to penetrate.
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'He Said, She Said': Love Stories Put To The Test At A Weekend For Love
At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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Gabrielle Union Dishes On Her Skincare Journey: 'It's Like Dating, You Just Keep Trying'
Gabrielle Union has always been known for her natural beauty. At 52 years old, she still holds the crown as one of Hollywood's most beautiful actresses and she's spilling her beauty secrets. During Vogue's Beauty Secrets series, the Riff Raff star shares her morning routine, which includes using multiple skincare devices for clear skin to lash serums.
Get all the deets below:
Cleanser
Gabrielle starts with a cleanser from U Beauty and follows that up with witch hazel (toner). "I was really lucky because I never really had crazy, problem skin," she said.
"Not until my hormones changed and it was like, 'is this acne? How do you get acne as a fully-grown ass woman?' But I found a way and I just had to start experimenting."
Exfoliator
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Next, she uses PCA Skin Pore Refining Treatment for exfoliation. "When I lived in Miami, I was like an oil slick, but in California where it's dry heat--I've also gotten a little dry in my older age," she said. "So I have to switch up my routine based on where I'm at."
The Being Mary Jane star also gave advice to those looking to improve their skincare routine. "If you see someone's skin that you like, 'what are you doing? What are the products? Tell me the routine,'" she shared. "I hope that it works for you, and if it doesn't, it's like dating. You just keep trying."
Retinol
"Some people have very strong opinions about retinol in the daytime, mainly because of the sun. For me it's kinda interchangeable, because I'm psycho about protection from the sun," she explained.
Facial Wands
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Gabrielle talked about her love for skincare devices. She uses Therabody Theraface Depuffing Wand to help push down the swelling and inflammation around her eyes. She then follows that up with Shani Darden Skin Care Facial Sculpting Wand.
Moisturizer
For moisturizer, she returns to U Beauty. "I started using U Beauty in September. I've never gotten more compliments on my face," she said.
Serum
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Next is PCA Vitamin B3 Brightening Serum and U Beauty The Return Eye Concentrate. "And with all the things I've used thus far, you have to commit to sunscreen because these products left without any protection from the sun will work against you," she said.
Lash Serums
"I don't know who else out there has a problem with TikTok Shop. I can't stop myself," she said. "The Babe Lash lash serum, the NuOrganic lash serum and I use one on one eye and the other on this one. And I just want to see which one is better."
Sunscreen
For sunscreen, she likes Allies of Skin The One SPF 50 Invisible Sunscreen Gel. "It just disappears right on my face," she said. Shen then ends her skincare routine with Winnie Harlow's Cay Skin Isle Lip Balm SPF 30.
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