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Its The You For Me Collection


Tis’ the season to shower the one you love with gifts that ring true to the heart, and that’s what this collection was curated around. The struggle to buy gifts for your boo thang may not be a new one, but it sure can be a frustrating one. You know that all-too-familiar feeling of late-night scrolling to ensure you don't get a lackluster reaction from bae.

But don't worry, we got you sis! Whether you've just started dating that someone special or looking to impress your long-term love, this collection of gifts will lead you to that something special. You'll find romantic and thoughtful gifts spanning from health, wellness, skincare, fashion, and much more. Not only will you be presenting them with something thoughtful, you’ll be directly empowering the Black women-owned businesses, including Jam + Rico from SheaMoisture's coveted Shea List. A win is a win!

La Isla Necklace

La Isla Necklace

2 " Medallion Coin Necklace with iconic Puerto Rican images, the national flower, the fort, the cuarto guitar, banana leaf and plantain.

Jam + Rico
$185

Beard Care Kit

Our Beard Care Kit is essential for a strong and healthy beard! It's formulated to cleanse, moisturize, and condition your beard as well as your face. These products are a simple way to keep your beard smelling good and looking fresh!

Eva Jenae Naturals
$35

Uncle Nearest 1865 Premium American Whiskey

Uncle Nearest is astonishingly smooth, and can be enjoyed neat, on the rocks, or in your favorite whiskey or bourbon cocktail.

Uncle Nearest
$60

Conversations and Chill Game

99 Controversial Conversation Cards

This is the best conversation starter game to ignite epic discussions! It’s the perfect card game for parties, game nights, pre-games, a casual chill night with friends, date nights for couples and more.

Conversations and Chill Game
$30

"Don't Be Good, Be Great" Long Sleeve T-Shirt

Make a grand statement with this unisex long sleeve tee.

Be Great Store
$16

"River" Herringbone Chain

River is the perfect herringbone chain and lays beautifully alone or layered with your other Filosopher favs. It's available in 3 widths, 4mm being our most popular width for this style.

Filosophy
$64

Men's Beanie

A warm and stylish beanie that looks good on everyone. The smooth satin-lining won't make your head itchy, will fight frizz, keep your hair moisturized, and preserve your hairstyle longer.

Grace Eleyae
$42

ITA Hat

Sunscreen’s good, but a hat’s even better. Embroidered and made of 100% cotton, it’s the go-to hat you’ve been looking for.

ITA
$40

Fragrance Duo

Irresistible fragrances crafted by Russell Wilson & Ciara, held within two entwined, magnetic bottles. RUSSELL for Him boasts notes of bergamot and black tea blend with ambrosian while lavender, juicy pear and waterlily wrapped with patchouli, musk and vetiver for a sensual finish. CIARA for Her evokes Red berries, freesia and pink peppercorn captivate with a bouquet of white flowers and peony at the heart. the finish is musk and sandalwood blended.

R&C
$90

"Clarity" Candle

The CLARITY candle has a warm, sweet, cozy aroma that reminds you of your grandmothers homestyle baking. This candle was created with taking you to a space of relaxation and comfort in mind. This unity of vanilla, sweet almond, cinnamon, ginger and hints of cherry is sure to make you fall in love.

ReBourné
$24

Kai Shoulder Bag 

The Kai Bag is a year-around off-duty must-have. The compact and practical design makes this chic piece the perfect on-the-go essential. The style is embellished with an alloy Milano Di Rouge logo plaque, a front-zipped compartment, and detachable card holder perfect for accessibility while traveling.

Milano Di Rouge
$280

Deluxe Beard Kit

The Koils by Nature Beard Kit is an all-natural and certified vegan line of skin and hair care products developed exclusively for men. Gentle enough to use every day, and infused with soft, fresh scents, the kit includes the dual-action beard and face cleanser and shaving foam, a moisturizer, beard butter, and oil.

Koils By Nature
$55

Christelle Sunglasses

This combination frame essentially encapsulates our brand identity. It brilliantly blends acetate with metal to accentuate minor details on the temples. The square design and clear water frame equally exude vitality at every angle.

Coco And Breezy
$285

BeSeduced Couple's Beloved Box

A seductive blend of floral and spicy notes is sure to stimulate your passionate side. Seduction. It's an art form. That every couple should explore. Fully. Choose This Fragrance Family If You Enjoy Fragrances That Are Clean, Sultry, and Mysterious.

Beloved Box
$89.99

Coptic Cross Cufflinks

Coptic Cufflinks

The Ethiopian Cross is one of the most detailed of all crosses. Its intricate lattice work represents eternal life. The three parts that terminate its points represent the holy trinity, a common element Coptic Style crosses.

Omi Woods
$108

African Net Sponge

This African Exfoliating Net, also know as a Sapo, or bathing sponge, is perfect for bathing and is used to gently exfoliate the skin by removing dead skin cells.

Cee Cee's Closet
$17

Journey Backpack

Journey Backpack

The calfskin leather for the bag was tanned in Morocco naturally; without the use of harsh chemicals. The bag is handmade with the utmost attention by trained master artisans. It is accented with brass buckles and closures.

Made Leather Company
$250

Golden Brownstone Set

Harlem Chocolate Factory
$60

Words by Courtney Simpson

Featured image designed by Qori B.

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10 Black Friday/ Cyber Monday Travel Deals In 'Safe' Locations For Black Travelers

If you're looking for 2025 travel deals that will give you unforgettable experiences at some of the most sought-after destinations, this article is for you. Not only are these destinations full of relaxation and adventure, but it is also known to be safe for Black and brown travelers. Below is a curated list of 10 safe travel spots that are having Black Friday/ Cyber Monday deals.


Puerto Rico

Hyatt Regency Grand Reserve Puerto Rico

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WHY TRAVEL HERE:

  • Ease of entry and accessibility - no passport required + more than 20 airports offering daily, nonstop flights from most major US airports
  • Diversity in people and landscapes - best explored through ‘both sides’ of the island… the city (San Juan) and then the forest (Rio Grande/El Yunque) for amazing natural adventures
  • Huge Black expat community
Caribe Hilton | San Juan, Puerto Rico

Conveniently located just minutes from Historic Old San Juan and a short 10-minute drive from the airport, Caribe Hilton offers a tropical escape at the heart of it all. Known for its rich history and celebrated as the birthplace of the piña colada, Caribe Hilton has been serving up hospitality excellence for 75 years. The oceanfront property’s world-class service is surpassed only by its incredible amenities, such as a secluded stretch of white sand beach, multiple pools and restaurants, a full-service spa, and an abundance of activities catering to families, friend groups, and wellness seekers alike.

The Deal: Kicking off on Cyber Monday, Caribe Hilton will be offering a Cyber Week promotion from Dec. 2-8, 2024. Travelers can save up to 25% on all room types for trips booked between January 2- June 30, 2025.

Hyatt Regency Grand Reserve Puerto Rico | Rio Grande, Puerto Rico Located on a protected natural peninsula at the foothills of the El Yunque rainforest, Hyatt Regency Grand Reserve Puerto Rico offers guests an authentic taste of Puerto Rico from the comfort of a sprawling luxurious resort secluded along miles of coral reef-protected beaches, through unique amenities and unforgettable experiences like its 100% Puerto Rican resort-branded craft beer, its complimentary Pan Sobao door-to-door breakfast, twinkle light rainforest picnics and PRadise pool-side popsicles. The property is also home to several oceanfront swimming pools (which include Puerto Rico’s largest lagoon-style pool), a full-service spa, a 27-hole championship golf course, over 17 food and beverage outlets ranging from a prime steakhouse to classic Puerto Rican cuisine, a Top Golf Swing Suite, and more.

The Deal: World of HyattMembers can save up to 25% on their stay at Hyatt Regency Grand Reserve Puerto Rico when they shop this Black Friday! The offer will be available from November 19-December 9 and is eligible on stays between November 19 and April 20, 2025.

Curaçao

BijBlauw Curaçao

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WHY TRAVEL HERE:

  • Local culture is super diverse - a melting pot with over 65 nationalities, most people speak four languages (English, Spanish, Dutch, Papiamento - the local language). Lots of influence from Colombia and South America, plus of course, the indigenous and Caribbean population. Roughly 85% of the population is of African descent.
  • LGBTQIA+ friendly

Curacao Marriott Beach Resort I Curaçao

Nestled among six acres of pristine beachfront near Willemstad, the island’s pastel-clad downtown, Curaçao Marriott Beach Resort offers warm, dedicated hospitality for which the Caribbean is known. The ideal backdrop for your dream vacation in Curaçao, the tropical hotel oasis is a cultured paradise that creates magical memories to last a lifetime.

The Deal: From November 26 to December 3, 2024, for stays between December 1, 2024, and January 20, 2025, travelers can expect discounts of up to 25% off. The promotion begins at 15% off, increases to 20% off for Bonvoy members, and up to 25% for Bonvoy members who book through the Bonvoy app.

BijBlauw I Curaçao

Perched just outside of Curaçao’s bustling Pietermaai district sits BijBlauw, a charming boutique hotel overlooking the glittering waters of the Caribbean Sea. After a day of adventure, relaxation, or fun in the sun on the island, BijBlauw offers travelers an elevated boho-chic haven.

The Deal: Potential bookers receive a 20% discount, with a booking window from Thanksgiving through Cyber Monday. The travel window extends from Thanksgiving until May 28, 2025. A few important details to note: the discount is non-refundable, cannot be combined with other offers or discounts (including Friends of BijBlauw), and the code to use is autumnatBijBlauw. No dates are excluded.

Costa Rica

Hotel Three Sixty

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WHY TRAVEL HERE:

  • Super safe and low crime rate, plus fast-growing Black expat community

Hotel Three Sixty | Ojochal, Costa Rica

A member of Small Luxury Hotels, Hotel Three Sixty promises an intimate, adults-only escape tucked away in the unspoiled treetops of Southern Costa Rica. The property is made up of 12 luxurious villas, complemented by an infinity pool overlooking the Pacific Ocean, the open-air Kua Kua restaurant with panoramic views, a Jungle Spa with locally inspired treatments, and a secluded rainforest yoga deck. Here, your only neighbors are the scarlet macaws, toucans, and monkeys swinging by to say hello.

The Deal: 25% off accommodations plus a $100 food and beverage credit to enjoy the new menu at Kua Kua restaurant. This deal is valid to book November 25, 2024, to December 3, 2024, for stays between November 25, 2024 - November 30, 2025; blackout dates are December 22, 2024-January 2, 2025. Discounts cannot be combined with any other offer. To book, visit https://www.hotelthreesixty.com/offers.

Mexico - (Cancun & Los Cabos)

Corazón Cabo Resort & Spa Los Cabos

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Cancun / JW Marriott Cancun Resort & Spa

WHY TRAVEL HERE:

  • Mexico is one of the travel ‘big dogs’ with millions of visitors each year. They are well developed and used to catering to travelers from all over the world with various backgrounds
  • Out of all of the places in Mexico - Cancun, Tulum, and the Riviera are some of the safest and the most diverse. You can stay safely in a resort, but take day trips to Tulum and the natural wonders.

JW Marriott Cancun Resort & Spa | Cancun, Mexico

Situated in the heart of Cancun’s vibrant hotel zone and just minutes from the area’s hottest attractions, the luxurious JW Marriott Cancun Resort & Spa offers a rejuvenating escape to any traveler. With oceanfront rooms, restorative Mayan-inspired spa treatments, luxurious dining options, and an extensive 150 margaritas menu, the resort is the perfect place to relax after an adventurous day exploring Cancun’s jungles or turquoise blue waters.

The Deal: Marriott Bonvoy Members get 25% off stays booked through their app, or 20% off stays booked directly. Non-members receive 15% off their stays. The booking window is November 26 - December 3, 2024, for stays December 1, 2024 - January 20, 2025.

Los Cabos / Corazón Cabo Resort & Spa

WHY TRAVEL HERE:

  • Also one of the safest zones in Mexico and super well developed in terms of accommodations, transportation, attractions, etc.
  • You can find real reviews from Black travelers here

Corazón Cabo Resort & Spa| Cabo San Lucas, Mexico

Nestled near Cabo’s famous Marina along the area’s best swimmable beach, the chic and luxuriousCorazón Cabo Resort & Spa treats travelers to an opulent beachfront getaway in the heart of Cabo San Lucas. From expansive bedrooms with balconies and private hot tubs to Cabo’s highest and most lavish rooftop bar with 360-degree views, a private beach club, and three infinity pools overlooking the famous Cabo Arch, Corazón Cabo is the picture of modern luxury. Corazón also boasts a world-class on-site spa, Sparitual, offering chakra balancing treatments and more, as well as fun activities like beachfront yoga classes and guided tequila/mezcal tastings.

The Deal: From November 18- December 3, guests can save up to 30% off room rates, enjoy a $50 daily food and beverage credit, and take 30% off select spa treatments at Sparitual for stays booked from November 18, 2024 - April 30, 2025. Additionally, guests can spread the gift card love with a special promotion where the resort is giving back 10% of the total gift card amount in a resort credit, valid from November 1, 2024 - January 10, 2025.

Iceland

Hotel Rangá Iceland

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WHY TRAVEL HERE:

  • One of the safest countries in the world with some of the most welcoming people (ranked as the safest, most peaceful country on the 2022 Global Peace Index). Even though it is a mainly white country, they are very tolerant and also have opened up all their borders to tourism. They understand the positive impact tourists have on their destination, and they embrace it.
  • This is a great article providing a direct perspective from Franny the Traveler:
  • Some great stats here.

Hotel Rangá | Hella, Iceland

Known as the land of fire and ice, Iceland is home to otherworldly landscapes, the Northern Lights, and adventure galore.Set in the secluded and spectacular countryside of the South Coast lies Hotel Rangá, a luxe little lodge with lots of personality. Situated under clear dark skies, Hotel Rangá is also the best place to see the famous Aurora Borealis (complete with wake-up calls) or enjoy a stellar star gazing session alongside a resident astronomer at the hotel's own hi-tech, roll-off roof observatory.

The Deal: From November 29-December 5, guests can save up to 30% off room rates on stays booked from December 1, 2024 - May 31, 2025 (excluding blackout dates between December 23, 2024 - January 3, 2025). Offer valid for a two-night minimum stay. To book, visit hotelranga.is.

Aruba

Aruba Marriott Resort and Stellaris Casino

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WHY TRAVEL HERE:

  • “One Happy Island” is their tagline, and this is reflected in their warm and welcoming locals - who are all super diverse as well as expats
  • There’s an area called San Nicolas that is known as ‘Black-owned’ Aruba

Aruba Marriott Resort and Stellaris Casino | Palm Beach, Aruba

Aruba Marriott Resort and Stellaris Casino is a luxurious getaway for travelers of varied interests and any occasion, from family trips to romantic escapes and even corporate retreats. The 414-room resort features ocean-facing guest rooms, all with their own 100-square-foot balconies, overlooking several different breathtaking views of the property and the Palm Beach oceanfront. Additional amenities include 10 dining venues, two pools from a vibrant family-friendly option to an adults-only H2Oasis pool, the largest spa and casino on the island, a two-story fitness center, non-motorized watersports, and more.

The Deal: Guests receive a $100 resort credit and a varying discount on accommodations, up to 25%, for stays four nights or longer from March 1 - July 31, 2025. Book using code E4000 (or code M96 for Bonvoy members) at www.arubamarriott.com from November 27 - December 6, 2024.

Napa Valley, CA

The Meritage Resort and Spa Napa Valley, CA

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WHY TRAVEL HERE:

  • Black travelers make up only 2.7% of annual visitors. However, Napa Valley is a great place for girls trips, romantic getaways and more
  • There are a lot of misconceptions about how expensive it is, but there are ways to visit wine country and not break the bank
  • There’s also a few Black-owned wineries and tasting rooms like Vin En Noir, and there is also a Napa Wine Train which is perfect for girl’s getaways

The Meritage Resort and Spa | Napa Valley, CA

Set on 36 golden acres with nine acres of active working vineyards, The Meritage Resort and Spa is your one-stop shop for the Napa Valley experience – now boasting a stunning $25 million new look that it just unveiled this summer. From its four onsite tasting rooms to acclaimed fine dining, vineyard-facing pools, its iconic Spa Terra ( a naturally formed Estate Cave located 40 ft under its working vines), and vintner hiking trails, The Meritage is a gateway to the best of California Wine Country. Even going above and beyond with additional amenities and experiences like an onsite six-lane bowling alley, a champagne tasting room, a summer concert series, vineyard picnics, a farm-to-table garden, a curated local artisan market, and more.

The Deal: Save 30% on your Napa Valley visit in addition to a $30 daily resort credit at the newly reimagined Meritage Resort and Spa when you stay two-plus nights, anytime between November 2024 and March 2025 (blackout dates apply). This offer is bookable from November 18-December 4, 2024. Any bookings made during the early access period will receive double perks for Meritage CollectionStay Golden rewards members, which will also include two complimentary welcome cocktails and two spa enhancements.

The Bahamas

British Colonial Nassau

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WHY TRAVEL HERE:

  • The Bahamas is listed as a top-rated destination for Black travelers. Travel technology company Expedia and Black travel review website Green Book Global are preparing to launch a Green Book Global Black Travel Review Month (BTRM) initiative that allows Black travelers to rate destinations that they enjoy, and the Bahamas is in the top five.

Resorts World Bimini | Bimini, The Bahamas

Island charm meets luxury at Resorts World Bimini—an expansive oceanfront complex just 50 miles off the coast of South Florida that encompasses a chic Hilton hotel, world-class casino, marina, and a private beach and lounge reminiscent of the beach clubs found in Tulum. Guests will be surrounded by unparalleled views of the bright blue Caribbean Sea, which are best enjoyed with a cocktail in hand around one of two hotel pools: the ground-floor lagoon pool or the rooftop infinity pool, both of which serve up local bites and specialty cocktails at their poolside bars. And for an elevated afternoon, lounge at Resorts World Bimini Beach—a 4.5-acre private beach and lounge features two stunning lagoon pools, day beds shaded by palapas, private oceanfront cabanas, bohemian-inspired decor, local bites, all-day live entertainment, and picturesque views.

The Deal: Answer the call of paradise when you book the exclusive “BOGO in Paradise” package for your next trip to Bimini, where buying one night gets you a second free, or buying two gets a third. Starting at $249 per person, the package includes round-trip ferry transportation on Baleari Caribbean from Fort Lauderdale, FL, a stay at the Hilton at Resorts World Bimini, access to Bimini Beach, and live entertainment. Visit https://rwbimini.com/event/bogo-in-paradise/ to book; offer valid for stay dates through May 22, 2025.

British Colonial Nassau | Nassau, Bahamas

British Colonial Nassau is a Bahamian gem that recently underwent a massive $50 million transformation. Visitors can immerse themselves in downtown Nassau and enjoy hotel amenities like the 300 ft private white-sand beach, seven dining outlets from a signature martini bar with live jazz on the weekends to a beach bar + grill, two oceanfront pools, and non-motorized water sports. British Colonial Nassau is a seamless option for those seeking an upscale, sophisticated ambiance infused with key aspects of Bahamian culture.

The Deal: This year, the hotel is launching its ‘30/30/30’ offer. Beginning on November 15, book and receive 30% off the best available rates, a daily $30 food and beverage credit per room, 30% off movie and bowling passes at the Icons Entertainment Complex, and two welcome drink vouchers! Offer valid for a two-night minimum stay between December 1, 2024 - December 21, 2025. *Booking window November 15, 2024- December 6, 2024. Blackout dates: December 22, 2024 - January 2, 2025, and April 18-26, 2025. Food and beverage credit is per room, per day. (Value of saving $150 / Starting rates $179) Booking Link here

Galapagos, Ecuador

Ecoventura Ecuador

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WHY TRAVEL HERE:

  • The Galápagos Islands is generally considered a low crime region, being safer than the Ecuadorian mainland. This means that race relations are good, and Black travelers will be perfectly able to explore this tropical paradise without a problem. The local community values and safeguards visitors, and there are rarely, if any, attacks on tourist boats or cruises.

Ecoventura | Galapagos, Ecuador

Named after Charles Darwin’s Theory of Evolution and Origin of the Species, Ecoventura’s 20-passenger, 10-cabin mega-yachts Origin, Theory & Evolve are the chicest and most exclusive way to experience one of humanity’s final frontiers. The only Relais & Chateaux-ranked ships to sail in the destination, Ecoventura offers guests a week of once-in-a-lifetime experiences in the height of luxury – think swimming with sea turtles, sunbathing with baby sea lions, coming face-to-face with the famous blue-footed boobies and strolling alongside Giant Galapagos Tortoises… all aboard what is more like a floating boutique hotel than a cruise!

The Deal: Ecoventura’s sails are so limited and exclusive that they rarely ever go on sale. However, they are offering 20% off select 2025 cruise departures for Black Friday/Cyber Monday shoppers when you book between November 29-December 6, 2024. That is a$2100 per person savings off the published rate of $10,500 per person for double occupancy rooms. Or if 2025 is the year you take on the solo adventure of a lifetime, Ecoventura is also offering an extra special solo offering of only $12,950 per cabin for single travelers (that is $6,050 in savings).

Key West, Florida

Southernmost Beach Resort

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WHY TRAVEL HERE:

  • One of the most iconic LGBTQIA+ travel destinations, super tolerant and welcoming
  • Super safe for nightlife and solo travelers
  • It is one of the most welcoming multicultural towns in the entire country
  • There’s a lot of hidden Black history here

Southernmost Beach Resort | Key West, FL

Situated on the quieter southern limit of the famed Duval Street, Southernmost Beach Resort features a modern, sleek design with classic coastal charm. Following a comprehensive transformation to an elevated destination experience in the heart of historic Key West, Florida, the resort features 296 guest rooms, including the newly renovated Guesthouses - four meticulously restored 19th-century Victorian homes for adult-only accommodations and shared community spaces like a cozy parlor bar and beachfront deck. Guests enjoy full access to Southernmost Beach Resort’s extensive luxury amenities, including three pools, bars, a spa, retail spaces, a private beach, and the renowned Southernmost Beach Cafe.

The Deal: 35% off all room types + $50 resort credit (for direct bookings only). Book dates are from November 19 - December 4, 2024, for stays between November 21 - December 31, 2025.

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