
xoNecole's Table of 50 Found(H)er’s Brunch Was Everything We Didn't Know We Needed

What happens when 50 black women found(h)ers come together for brunch the day after the ultimate festival of curls?
Magic doesn't even describe it.
On Sunday, September 22, xoNecole partnered with Aunt Jackie's to celebrate the founders Of CurlFest who just brought their festival to Atlanta for the very first time and introduce them to the love and support of 50 other women found(h)ers in Atlanta.
Nicole Walters, Shanicia Boswell, Melissa Mitchell, Simone Mair, Gia Lowe, Charisse Higgins, Jardan Doneghy, Necole Kane, Dana Blair and Kayla Madonna
Shanicia Boswell (Black Moms Blog) & Christina Rice (Founder, Omnoire)
Hosted by xoNecole founder Necole Kane, the powerhouse women in attendance included Christina Rice (Omnoire), Brandi Harvey (Beyond Her), Koereyelle, Dayna Bolden, Kayla Madonna, Nicole Walters, Yandy Smith, Nikki Gilbert, Dr. Key Hallmon (Village Market), Dr. Joy (Therapy for Black Girls), Erica Pope, Dwan White (Founder, Aunt Jackie's) and many more.
The Founders of Curly Girl Collective & Curlfest attend xoNecole's Table of 50 Brunch
Brandi Harvey shows love to Arkeedah McCormick at xoNecole's Table of 50 Brunch honoring the Founders of Curlfest
Dr. Key Hallmon of The Village Market spotted giving the warmest of welcomes to The Founders of Curlfest
Melissa Mitchell, Yandy Smith and Yandy's mother Laura Smith were all smiles and love
Between dynamic conversations around business goals and genuine compliments on hairstyles and stylish ensembles, the room was full of Energy. With a capital E.
The brunch guests were greeted with the xoNecole infamous 'What I need' and 'What I offer' cards to kickstart their authentic networking conversations by filling in the blanks of their business needs and offerings. As the women headed to their seats at the table, each found(h)er was gifted with products from Aunt Jackie's new grapeseed collection and Melissa Mitchell (Abeille Creations) custom designs.
Melissa Mitchell gifted each guest with wearable art from her A Beille Creations collection
Guests were gifted with Aunt Jackie's new grapeseed collection
What's a boss babe brunch without a top-level meal to match? The ladies dined on Carolina Shrimp and grits, corn fritters, delicious French toast, and tasty mimosas while connecting with their fellow womenpreneurs. By the end of the afternoon, multiple women confessed to getting exactly what they needed just by being in the room, unplugged from their daily routines and surrounded by like-minded ambitious women.
The Founders of Curly Girl Collective thanked fellow founders for the warm welcome to Atlanta
Before heading out, the Curlfest Founders shared a heartfelt message of appreciation with the women in the room mentioning how important community is and how grateful they were for a warm Atlanta welcome. The Atlanta festival attracted over 10,000 attendees, just a month after their flagship New York festival had over 35,000 attendees.
xoNecole founder Necole Kane shared how inspired she's been by watching the growth and success of the brand seeing Curlfest grow from 1000 attendees during its first year into the mega-success it has become today.
Nicole Garner and Eugenia of Garner Circle PR posed with the xoNecole team at xoNecole's Table of 50 brunch honoring the Founders of Curlfest
Alicia Scott of Range Beauty attends xoNecole's Table of 50 Found(h)ers Brunch honoring The Founders of Curlfest
Kayla Madonna and Tamisha Harris (HLN/CNN) attends xoNecole's Table of 50 Found(h)ers Brunch
The afternoon was inspiring to say the least and the women in the room left with more intimate connections and motivation to keep grinding through the rest of the year. Let this serve as a reminder to you to take a moment and let your fellow female hustlers know that you see them, support them and celebrate them too!
Want more Curlfest x xoNecole action? Check out the video of the day's event below.
xoNecole's Table of 50 Brunch Honoring The Founders Of CurlFestyoutu.be
All photography by Carol Lee Rose
'He Said, She Said': Love Stories Put To The Test At A Weekend For Love
At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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Are You & Your Partner Financially Compatible? Here’s How To Tell.
With nearly half of all marriages that end in divorce citing finances as the nail in the coffin to deading their relationship, financial compatibility is one aspect of long-term compatibility that doesn't get talked about enough. Beyond the circular 50/50 discourse and whatever hot-button issues regarding providers and the like, at its core, financial compatibility is about how well your financial behaviors, values, and long-term goals align with those of your partner.
More than it is about how much money a person makes or doesn't make, financial compatibility focuses on how you think about money, how you spend your money, and most importantly, how you plan for the future with your money. Think, questions about money mindsets, spending habits, debt, budget, etc. Are you a saver and he's a spender? Do you see money as a tool for freedom? Does he see it as something to hold on tightly to as a means of survival? Can you talk about your financial goals and plans openly?
Knowing if you and your partner are financially compatible can save a lot of heartache, a lot of headaches, and a lot of money in the end. Keep reading for a few key indicators to pay attention to and learn whether or not you and your partner are truly aligned financially.
Signs You’re Financially Compatible
1. You can talk about money without judgment.
Conversations about money aren't something you dread. You're able to talk to your partner freely and openly about money matters, like debts, bills, the budget, etc., even when it is uncomfortable. There is an understanding that talking about money doesn't have to be something you're on the defense about, instead it's an opportunity for transparency, clarity, and solutions.
2. You respect each other's money personalities.
What is a money personality? According to Ken Honda, author of Happy Money, a money personality is our "approach and emotional responses to money" and there are seven money personalities we can fall under. These personalities can help us understand our own relationship with money, as well as our partner's. For example, maybe you're someone who likes to treat yourself to a fancy dinner once a month and your partner is someone who believes ordering takeout and not cooking meals at home is a cardinal sin.
When you can respect each other's money personalities, neither approach is subjected to judgment and shifts can be made in each other's spending habits as needed and from a place of love versus guilt or shame.
3. You agree on what it means to have "financial security."
Whether it’s building a stacked emergency fund, paying off debt before putting a downpayment on a home or being able to splurge on a baecation without checking your account balance before the bill arrives, your definitions of what it means to be financially secure are in sync, or at least compatible enough to reach a compromise.
4. You are not each other's "financial parent."
You’re not constantly teaching, fixing, or stressing out over what the other person is doing with their money. Although I fast-forwarded through a lot of the most recent season of Love Is Blind, I did pay attention to Virginia and Devin and money seemed to be a recurring theme in their conversations. It was clear Virginia had her ish together when it came to money and her financial plans for the future and Devin was not quite on her level.
Though she said no at the altar for additional reasons, I could also see how sis could eventually get very tired of being her partner's second mama, so to speak. And that's the thing about being your partner's "financial parent," eventually, you could end up feeling like you are one-half of a "parenting" or "teaching" dynamic with your partner instead of feeling like you're equals in a partnership.
5. You make financial decisions with each other in mind, not for each other.
Whether it’s booking a trip, deciding which debt to tackle first, saving up for a big purchase, or planning out your next move, there’s a mutual respect for each other’s input. Those shared goals might look like wealth, freedom, stability, or just a debt-free life that feels soft and secure.
You don’t have to be chasing the same bag in the same exact way, but you do need to be aligned on the vision. What you're building should feel like a joint venture with shared effort and purpose, not one of y’all making major money moves like you're still single. Making financial decisions is not just about where the money goes, it's about where you’re going together.
6. You're aligned when it comes to the big stuff.
Financial compatibility extends to the long-term of money management. The legacy, structure, and shared responsibility that comes with decisions like shared accounts, estate planning, having babies, or even blending families. Will you split bills or combine income? Who’s taking time off if you have a child? How do y’all feel about generational wealth or investing for your family’s future? You and your partner have had the real conversations.
These conversations can’t wait until after the wedding or until after a baby’s here. They’re the foundation for how you function as a unit, and if you're not aligned, or at least willing to get on the same page, that incompatibility can cause friction in the end that love alone can't fix.
Love is cute and all, but building an empire together? That’s the real flex. Tap into our new series Making Cents to see what financial compatibility really looks like when love and legacy go hand in hand.
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