I spend at least 8 hours a day at my desk, usually more. I'll get sucked into my daily tasks and projects, and next thing I know I've been working for 4 hours straight without any movement.
Within a year of my first office job, the consequences of such little movement started to appear. I began suffering from lower back pain, my body always felt stiff, and my sleep began to suffer as well.
Once I began my fitness journey, I realized that what I did in the gym wasn't enough. I had to stay mindful of my body and my wellness at all times, especially while at work.
If you work in an office environment, chances are you may be suffering from the same side effects caused by sitting for extended periods. If this story resonates with you, here are some stretches you can incorporate into your day-to-day desk warrior lifestyle in order to minimize pain and maximize energy.
Lunge
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The lunge targets your hip flexors. Tight or weak hip flexors can lead to poor posture and lower back pain, so it's important to give your hips the TLC it deserves so you can slay the day.
How To: Widen your stance in a lunge formation and keep your feet shoulder-width apart. Place your hands on your hips and inhale as you pull your belly button. As you exhale, squeeze your glutes, and push your hips forward. Do this for 10-15 seconds on each leg.
Cross Body Stretch
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Staring at a screen all day will tighten the muscles around your shoulder and neck, building up tension and potentially causing headaches. Do the cross body stretch to alleviate this tension.
How To: Bring your arm across your chest and use your other arm to stretch it across your body. Keep your elbow below shoulder height. Hold for 30 seconds and repeat with your other arm.
Plank
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The plank strengthens the core muscles that support you and control your spine and pelvis. While this move is usually nobody's favorite stretch, the plank is an essential tool to strengthen your foundation.
How To: Place your forearms on the ground, keeping your elbows directly beneath shoulders. Your arms should be parallel to your body and shoulder width apart. Keeping your back straight, tighten your core, and hold for 30 seconds.
Incorporate these three simple stretches into your daily routine, and you'll be able to kill it at your job without killing your body in the process!
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Step 1: Schedule Your Reset Meeting
The first step to hitting the reset button is a State of the Union meeting with your partner. This is your chance to take a pulse on the relationship, discuss what's working, and identify areas that need attention. It’s all about creating space to reflect, without distractions.
Grab a pen and paper (or open a shared note on your phone) and come prepared to share your top 2-3 desires for your relationship.
What do you both want to feel more of in 2025? Maybe it’s feeling more appreciated, or perhaps you want to reignite the passion you had when you first started dating. Whatever it is, get clear about it, and make sure both of you are on the same page.
This isn’t just about listing your own wants, it’s also about discussing ways to nurture each other’s needs. Relationship goals should be focused on fostering deeper intimacy, trust, and mutual respect. Use this time to check in, not only with each other but with your individual feelings and expectations. Set the foundation for a fulfilling year ahead.
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Having the meeting is only the first step. Now, it’s time to take action. One of the simplest ways to breathe new life into a relationship is by reintroducing consistent, intentional time spent together. For many couples, life gets busy, and date nights fall by the wayside. But dating doesn’t stop when you say "I do"—in fact, it’s even more essential.
During your reset meeting, lock in a regular date night that works for both of your schedules. This could be a weekly dinner date or an every-other-week adventure—whatever keeps things fresh. The goal is consistency. It’s easy to push date nights aside when life gets hectic, but if you set a specific date each week or month, you’re making your relationship a priority.
If you’re unsure what to do for your date nights, don’t worry! The key is creating new experiences together. This is what sparks excitement and brings you closer as a couple. Whether it’s cooking a new recipe together, trying a dance class, or exploring a nearby town, it’s about creating shared memories that build your connection.
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Just like you might have a personal trainer to help you crush your fitness goals, an accountability partner for your relationship can do wonders for keeping both of you on track. Consider hiring a marriage coach or therapist—someone who can meet you where you are and guide you in strengthening your relationship.
When selecting a professional, it’s important to choose someone who truly wants the best for your marriage and can provide actionable advice.
Don’t be afraid to set high standards for your relationship, and seek guidance on how to keep it thriving for the long haul. In your reset meeting, discuss your commitment to growth, and be honest about areas where you may need support.
Marriage isn’t a set-it-and-forget-it endeavor—it’s an ongoing process. Regular check-ins with a professional can help keep your relationship in tip-top shape and “divorce-proof” by addressing issues before they become insurmountable.
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Stale routines can easily make a relationship feel monotonous. Spice things up by trying something new! Couples that explore new activities and create new memories together have stronger, more fulfilling bonds.
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Your Relationship Should Be A Priority
As you start the year with personal goals in mind, don’t forget the importance of nurturing your relationship. It’s easy to get caught up in work, fitness, and family obligations, but your bond with your partner deserves to be at the top of your list. Resetting your relationship offers an opportunity to reignite that spark and remind each other why you fell in love in the first place.
In 2025, make a commitment to prioritize your partnership, to nurture it daily, and to invest in its growth. Take time to celebrate each other’s victories, support one another’s dreams, and build a foundation of love and respect. When you start the year with a clear focus on your relationship, you’re setting it up for success.
So, before you start mapping out your new workout plan or work goals, do yourself a favor: put your relationship at the top of that list. Your love story deserves a fresh start, too.
Happy New Year, and here’s to a love-filled 2025!
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