

Your career is arguably one of the biggest aspects of your life. And the long and the short of it is, you can't achieve your dreams when you don't show up for yourself. That includes the way you look.
No matter where you work, there's a rise in casual work environments these days.
It's long been proven that your wardrobe influences your attitude. This is why your everyday work style has a bigger impact on your career than you think. Even if you don't work in the corporate world, the past few years introduced a bevy of networking workshops, seminars, and conferences for almost every industry. It's no surprise that the wardrobe for these events mirrors that of the working world.
I would love to spend my mornings sipping coffee and catching up on the latest news instead of scrambling around my house picking the perfect yet effortless work look. Turns out, you don't need an endless closet to be stylish at work, especially in the world of smart casual.
Look 1: Denim + Blazer
Smart casual is an elevation of your everyday style and, for many, that includes denim. This is not only a fundamental piece of clothing when building a smart-casual wardrobe, but it's also extremely affordable. The versatile nature of denim makes it simple to mix it up by alternating combinations to create fresh looks effortlessly. This look offers the most comfort, flexibility, and sustainability. You can update this look over the seasons by adding or subtracting layers, playing with heavier or lighter fabrics, and adding the right seasonal footwear.
While style experts will tell you to stick to dark, non-distressed denim, personally I believe you can have a bit more fun. It has to be styled a bit differently (adding a more modest top to spice up the professionalism, for instance), a rule to keep in mind is less is more. You don't want to teeter the line too much.
Look 2: Midi Skirt + Loose-Fitting Top
The comeback of tea-length skirts and sneakers allow for an extra look in the smart causal box. This is a more polished look than the first one but it still allows for the same ease and comfort. You can reserve this look for a client meeting or out of office lunch; pair it with your favorite flats for that annual review you're prepping for. An essential aspect of pulling off this look is to dress it down. A chunky sweater, long-line cardigan, or loose-fitting tee is what categorizes this as smart casual. Don't overdo it and risk losing the "casual" part.
Look 3: Cigarette Pants + Loose-Fitting Tee
The most polished of the looks, this is a fan favorite for the constant meeting-goer. In reality, this would be completely "business" if not for the loose and relaxed fit of the cigarette pants. Since it means an athletic silhouette, there's a sense of ease and comfort that accompanies the style. Like the prior look, you can dress this down to make it even chicer. Instead of flats, opt for white sneakers or loafers. This adds fun and a bit of mystery, having your coworkers asking, "Who is that impeccably styled woman?"
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Courtney is a contributing writer, based in Puerto Rico by way of Tennessee. Interested in the intersection of fashion and culture, she has an affinity for fashion, empowerment, and really good tacos. Keep up with her on Instagram (@hautecourtxo).
'He Said, She Said': Love Stories Put To The Test At A Weekend For Love
At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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Swipe Right For Sisterhood: Reginae Carter Talks Teaming Up With BLK To Make Friendships Front & Center
You know the vibes: dating apps aren’t just for finding romance anymore—at least not for Gen Z! As young people continue to redefine connection, BLK, the leading dating app for Black singles, is shaking things up with the launch of Social Mode. The new feature allows users to toggle between dating and platonic connections. Yep, you read that right—friendship is now just as easy to find as love.
To kick off this game-changing launch, BLK teamed up with TV personality and socialite Reginae Carter for the ultimate Girls’ Night In, proving that sisterhood is just as important as romance. The exclusive event was a celebration of the new feature and the power of Black women coming together to uplift one another.
“Your circle is everything,” Reginae shares with a smile, and she’s not wrong. She’s all about creating spaces where we can come together, let our hair down, and vibe with like-minded women. “We deserve spaces to meet, uplift, and vibe with each other. BLK is making that happen,” she adds.
A New Era for Friendships—Social Mode Is Here!
Gen Z is all about building meaningful connections, whether it’s with a date or a new brunch buddy. That’s why Social Mode is such a big deal. Research shows that 65% of Gen Z values friendships just as much as romantic relationships. With BLK’s new feature, users can easily toggle between “Dating” and “Social,” opening up a world of platonic connections—no swiping right required.
Bahja Rodriguez, Reginae Carter, Breaunna Womack, Lourdes Rodriguez and Zonnique Pullins attend OMG Girlz "Make A Scene" Single Release & Video Viewing Party at Trap City Cafe on March 27, 2025 in Atlanta, Georgia
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Reginae Carter Hosts the Ultimate Girls’ Night In—Powered by BLK Social Mode
What better way to show Social Mode in action than with an exclusive Girls’ Night In, hosted by Reginae? The event brought together top influencers, tastemakers, and press for a night of luxury, self-care, and real talk about love, sex, and relationships. From tarot readings to perfume-making and signature cocktails, the evening embodied the “soft life” vibe that many Black women are embracing in 2025—peaceful, intentional, and full of joy.
Guests mingled, laughed, and bonded over the importance of finding a tribe that supports you. It wasn’t just about fun (although there was plenty of that!)—it was about creating a circle of inspiring, strong women. “We need to stick together. We need to be each other’s village,” Reginae says, emphasizing the power of community over competition.
Sisterhood: The Real MVP
For Reginae, it’s all about friendship—and not just the surface-level kind. “We need friends who keep it real with us. The ones who can tell us when we’re right, when we’re wrong, and when we need to calm down,” she says. As someone who navigates the spotlight, she’s got the best of both worlds: friends who understand the grind and those who can give her an honest, grounded perspective.
Her advice for building strong, intentional friendships? “Be confident in yourself and know your worth,” she explains. “Also, hurt people hurt people, so make sure you’re coming from a good place when you’re building relationships. It’s not always about being nice—sometimes it’s about being real.”
Reginae couldn’t have summed it up better: “When you have the right circle, the right tribe, everything just feels easier. And that’s exactly what BLK is giving us—space to connect, laugh, and grow with each other.”
To learn more about BLK’s Social Mode, download or update the BLK app in the App Store or Google Play Store today. Who knows? You might just find your new bestie or your next brunch crew.
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