“A woman who doesn’t wear perfume has no future.” – Coco Chanel
I knew Chanel No. 5 before its connection to my namesake. It was one of the few essentials lining my mother’s vanity, that and endless tubes of lipsticks that were variations of her favorite shades: purples, plums, mauves, and wines. Chanel had a writing of its own in the contributions to my mother’s signature. The glass bottle with its contents of liquid gold evolved to become synonymous with my mother and the scent of a woman. After she twisted the tube of lipstick until its royal velvet met the air and painted her lips, she’d take the perfume and spray it on the pulses at her inner wrists, along the length of her neck, and briefly in the space most immediate to her body. Chanel.
I think it was why my father insisted on that as my middle name because Chanel was very much my mother. It was through her I first learned the significance of the scent of a woman and the magnetism of a signature fragrance. Fragrances are a really personal detail for any woman and can take months or even years to find the right one. Even then, your tastes may change and you might decide on a new aroma that better suits you and your essence as a woman. Signature fragrances can be a plethora of scents ranging from a sweet floral to spicy musk with other notes in between.
The 7 scents below are staples to the women who chose them as signature scents they are currently coveting. Read on, get inspired, fall in love, and maybe find a new signature to call your own.
Estée Lauder's Bronze Goddess
“I love this fragrance because it is the perfect scent for summer. It contains two of my favorite scents – vanilla and coconut – and I’m always in love with a fragrance that can do that well. It’s not too sweet and not too fruity and has mostly a floral smell to it, but every time I spray it on myself, I feel like I’m back on the islands, sipping a piña colada.” – Elise, 32
Described as, “A sensuous, sun-drenched blend of Bergamot, warm Amber, Tiare Flower and Vanilla combined with creamy Coconut.”
Estée Lauder's Bronze Goddess, $65
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Chanel's Coco Mademoiselle
“I like perfume that makes me feel more womanly, more feminine, and more elegant and Coco Mademoiselle does that, inside and out. I’ve worn it every day since I first purchased it about a year ago and it has this floral, jasmine, rose scent to it. I always think happy, light thoughts whenever I breathe it on or catch a whiff of it during my day. It’s how I feel sensual. It’s what makes me feel like a woman.” – Monet, 26
Described as, “Sexy, fresh Oriental fragrance recalls the irrepressible spirit of the young Coco Chanel. An elegant, luxurious spray closest in strength and character to the parfum form.”
Chanel’s Coco Mademoiselle, $124
Dolce & Gabbana's 3 l'imperatrice
“I’m not big on perfume, but to me, the absolute best fragrance is L’IMPERATRICE. It smells really sweet and delicious. I think it’s like me in a way, unique, youthful, hard to really pin down, but definitely something that sticks with you.” – Alex, 20
Described as, “Succulent exotic fruits and bright pink florals give way to a musky, appetite-arousing base.”
Dolce & Gabbana’s 3 L’IMPERATRICE, $74
Sinne Firenze's Balance Me
“I’m all about putting things in and on my body that are as natural as possible so I use essential oils. I’ve really been loving Balance Me by Sinne Firenze. They are a cruelty-free, vegan, pure, fair-trade, organic – all words that I love and live by – company (laughs). The scent is very woodsy but with a hint of lavender to it that acts incredibly soothing. I feel like I’m enjoying a beautiful summer day or a great book while I’m overlooking the forest. I apply it daily and two to three times throughout the day.” – Evangeline, 35
Described as, “Emotionally balancing and soothing to body and mind. Deep woods with oriental extravaganza embraced by lavender.”
Sinne Firenze’s Balance Me, $19.99 (USD); sinne.it
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Christian Dior's Miss Dior Blooming Bouquet
“I use Miss Dior throughout the year and Miss Dior Blooming Bouquet during the spring and summer seasons because to me it’s the perfect summer scent. I like it because it is a sweeter, more floral version of Miss Dior. It’s really light too. I love what the scent does to my body, I feel instantly pretty.” – Kelsey, 25
Described as, “Its heart holds a tender accord of Peony and Damascus Rose refreshed by a radiant Calabrian Bergamot. The poetic trail is enveloped in soft notes of White Musk.”
Christian Dior’s Miss Dior Blooming Bouquet, $65
Marc Jacob's Daisy Dream
“I discovered this perfume after it won that Consumer Choice Award last year and got head over heels for its bottle design. I like fresh, fruity scents, especially during the summer, which is why Daisy Dream is my go-to signature scent. It’s the perfect way to dab on some sweet-smelling fragrance that is there but not overbearing and is light enough to get me through the long, hot day. It’s summer in a bottle.” – India, 31
Described as, “The fruity-floral fragrance has a light and airy touch, bursting with top notes of blackberry, grapefruit, and pear. The heart notes are introduced with a bouquet of jasmine, lychee, and blue wisteria, and a medley of white woods, musks, and coconut water reveal the base notes.”
Malin+Goetz's Bergamot
“My boyfriend and I love this scent! It smells like bergamot and has a lot of citrusy tones to it with a hint of spice. There isn’t a floral scent in sight which I can appreciate and I’m sure my boyfriend can appreciate too (laughs). I wanted a perfume that made me smell clean, not necessarily sweet, but clean. Bergamot fits that. I had their entire body care product line so now that there is a scent, my life’s complete. It’s kind of mysterious, kind of warm, kind of elegant. I can talk about it all day.” – Samantha, 43
Described as, “Hints of fresh green mint and glistening spices add intoxicating energy, while a dry down of woods and musk imparts an elegant, understated sensuality on the skin.“
What is your go-to signature scent and why?
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The pair often says they’re two sides of the same coin. Skylar is an Aquarius. She attended art school, paints, and loves poetry. She’s more than happy to let the couple’s management firm and agency, Kensington Grey, handle their admin work. And, she loves to sleep in. Temi, on the other hand, wakes up early. He’s a Virgo. He loves a to-do list and regularly checks in on the couple’s brand partnerships spreadsheet to make sure everything is on track.
Because his storytelling was steeped in his love of technology, he didn’t always think of himself as a creative person. “Where I [am] the dreamer who wants to pluck things out of the sky and spend all day with my head in the clouds, Temi [is] so good at grounding me and helping me figure out how to make things make sense on paper. We just work together in such a complimentary way,” Skylar says.
It’s been more than six years since Brooklyn-based couple Temi and Skylar started dating, and nearly four since they cemented their working relationship. On TikTok and Instagram, the couple’s travel, fashion, and home content regularly rack up hundreds of thousands of views. They’ve worked with brands such as Coach, Aesop, Away, and Liquid IV, bringing their vibrant perspectives to every campaign they execute. Still, nearly two years since both Temi and Skylar committed to full-time content creation and creative directing, the couple says their romantic connection remains their priority.
“We told each other we would much rather go back to full-time jobs and preserve our relationship than to be full-time freelancers, barely getting a night's rest [and] barely kissing each other because we're so busy shooting,” Skylar says.
Working from home can make it hard to separate work from personal life for any entrepreneur. It can be even more challenging when your business partner is also your lover. Temi and Skylar had already used couples therapy as a tool to help them effectively communicate with one another. When they ran into challenges while working together, their therapist helped them set physical boundaries to help combat the issues.
"We told each other we would much rather go back to full-time jobs and preserve our relationship than to be full-time freelancers, barely getting a night's rest [and] barely kissing each other because we're so busy shooting."
“It actually took us doing very specific physical things to create boundaries between work and play in our relationship,” Skylar says. “So, for instance, we will only have conversations about work when we're out of bed or we're at the table or in the office. Initially, when we started, we had to light a candle to say that, 'Okay, this is a space where we're connecting, we’re not talking about work.' We needed really hard boundaries at the top. And then it became a little bit more organic.”
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Growing up, Temi says he watched his parents support each other and be the true definition of partners. He knew he wanted the same for his own relationship. But, the couple also wanted to make sure they were being financially responsible. The pair didn’t quit their traditional jobs until they’d saved up two years' worth of their cost of living. And, Temi received his Master of Business Administration from New York University with the knowledge that it could either help him advance in his corporate career or be applicable to his business with Skylar.
Temi and SkylarCj Hart @hartbreakToday, they say their working relationship is more of a “quiet dance.” They still implement some of the boundaries they learned in therapy, but they also lean into their natural strengths and deep love for one another. When we speak, Temi has planned a date for the couple to see Princess Mononoke in 4K IMAX and added it to their Notion so they can factor it into their busy schedules. “I fully plan to date for the rest of my life,” he says.
Skylar says the couple doesn’t just wait for date nights to check in with one another, though. This often happens in the mornings, after Temi has made her peppermint tea and poured himself a cup of coffee. When they ask each other how they slept, she says, it’s not just a “nicety.” It’s a genuine question meant to foster connection.
“A lot of it happens during the day in the midst of work. We'll stop and we'll hug. Or we’ll slow dance in the kitchen,” she says. “Sometimes it's hard to set a whole date night when you have 7,000 things going on. So, we must grasp these moments and check in when we can. And I think it's become so organic to us that I actually didn't even realize how often we do it. But all day long, we're like, 'Are you good? I felt like your energy shifted,' because we're best friends, we just know. We just feel it happen.”
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“Your circle is everything,” Reginae shares with a smile, and she’s not wrong. She’s all about creating spaces where we can come together, let our hair down, and vibe with like-minded women. “We deserve spaces to meet, uplift, and vibe with each other. BLK is making that happen,” she adds.
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Reginae couldn’t have summed it up better: “When you have the right circle, the right tribe, everything just feels easier. And that’s exactly what BLK is giving us—space to connect, laugh, and grow with each other.”
To learn more about BLK’s Social Mode, download or update the BLK app in the App Store or Google Play Store today. Who knows? You might just find your new bestie or your next brunch crew.
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