Rechelle Dennis Talks Working With Family, Burnout & Girls United Disruptor Summit
When a Black woman dreams, she dreams big, and Rechelle Dennis is no exception. As the co-creator of Essence Girls United, a Gen-Z platform, it’s clear she’s focused not just on sustaining the platform’s success but also on taking it to new heights through partnerships, innovative programs, or fresh ways to engage and uplift the community.
Her vision is all about creating more impactful opportunities for young Black women to thrive, which is also a vision she shares with her sister and co-worker, Sophia.
Sister, Sister
We love a good sister duo, and Rechelle’s working relationship with Sophia is the perfect example of how to keep family first while building something amazing. I couldn’t help but ask her what it’s like to work so closely with her sister—because, let’s face it, business and family can get tricky. Rechelle gives xoNecole the tea on how they make it work, keep things fun, and maintain that special bond.
“Sophia and I are very different but very similar at the same time. We're both very strong-headed. Sophia is definitely the more creative and outgoing one, while I am very much of a workaholic," Rechelle tells us. "I'm very reserved when you meet me, but once you get to know me and the layers come off, you're gonna think I'm insane in a good way."
She continues, "It's like any relationship. You understand what their strengths and weaknesses are, and then you just lean into that. You just meet people where they're at and find a way to work with each other and to where everybody is or feels like they're bringing the best to whatever it is you're building or doing. We’re also able to challenge each other and come knowing that we're both trying to get to the best possible outcome."
Staying Grounded and Self-Care Vibes
We know that life can get real busy, and as a self-proclaimed workaholic, Rechelle juggles a lot. Balancing work, family, and personal time is a challenge many of us face, as burnout can happen. Rechelle shares some of her go-to practices for avoiding burnout and making sure she stays centered in her hectic schedule.
“How do I avoid burnout? I've been asking myself a lot lately. Burnout is something that happens to everybody, and I feel like I've never really addressed it. I think that's also something that I'm still learning myself because that's how I'm wired, is to always be on," she explains.
"What I've realized and what I've done more is having more of that internal dialogue with myself and putting the phone down. TikTok is gonna wait. Instagram is gonna wait. You just gotta soak in your bath and maybe text your friend. It sounds kind of toxic, but not talking to anybody."
She continues, "I'm very clear when I know my social battery is exhausted. I know when it's time for me to leave a party or an event. I also know when to make space when I have to go to an event. I'm going to just sit in my room quietly and then prepare for this. I think it's also just about knowing yourself and knowing when to Irish exit. It's really important to know yourself or just spend time getting to know yourself.”
Gearing Up for What’s Next
With Saturday’s Girls United Disruptor Summit around the corner, the excitement is real. “I think the goal is, as always, continuing to strengthen and pour into our community and provide as much value as possible," she says.
The summit also provides mentorship opportunities for young Black women and professionals in various industries. "It's giving people those opportunities, the ability to live their wildest dreams, and step into that next era," she says.
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There’s just something about HBCU Homecoming that just hits different. Whether it’s your first time stepping onto the yard since graduation or you’re a regular at every Homecoming tailgate, HBCU pride is undeniable. It’s a vibrant celebration that unites the legacy of excellence and tradition with the energy and resilience of Black culture.
The experience goes beyond a typical college reunion; HBCU Homecoming is a family reunion, a fashion show, a cultural festival, and a week-long turn-up that embodies what it means to be unapologetically Black and educated. For HBCU alumni, the journey back to the yard each year is rooted in a love and pride that’s hard to put into words but impossible to deny.
From statement pieces to tech must-haves, every item represents the intersection of Black pride and HBCU love, ensuring that you show up to the yard in style and with intention. So whether you’re repping your alma mater for the first time since graduation or looking for fresh pieces to express your HBCU pride, these essentials will have you standing out, because, at HBCU Homecoming, it’s not just about showing up—it’s about showing out.
Thread Goals
diarrablu Jant Pants in Alia Noir
High-waisted, wide-legged, and ready to shut down the yard, the Jant Pants by diarrablu bring a whole new meaning to campus chic. Handcrafted in Dakar, Senegal, these free-flowing jacquard pants are perfect for stepping onto the yard with style and ease—making them a must-have for any HBCU alum’s closet.
Silver & Riley Convertible Executive Leather Bag Classic Size in Olive
This all-in-one luxury bag isn’t a bestseller for nothing. The Silver & Riley essential is made of Italian calfskin leather and thoughtfully designed, as it can be worn in four different ways: a shoulder bag, crossbody, a top handle, and a backpack. Chic and elegant, the Convertible Executive Leather bag is “the bag that every woman needs in her collection.”
Renowned Women's Intuition Cotton Graphic T-Shirt
Renowned
Renowned’s Women’s Intuition Cotton Graphic T-shirt features a bold graphic print inspired by the power and essence of women’s intuition. With its striking design, this all-cotton tee is a vibrant thing, making it a statement piece that celebrates feminine energy.
Mifland Million M Mesh Crop Shirt
Talk about bold, the Million M Mesh Crop Shirt combines edgy style with comfort, featuring Mifland’s signature print on a semi-see-through mesh fabric. Show up and show out in sophisticated flair.
HBCU Love FUBU
Melanin Is Life Melanated & Educated - I Love My HBCU Hoodie
Show off your HBCU love with this piece that represents everything you gained from your alma mater: a top-tier education, a community that lifts you up, and a deep sense of esteem for yourself and your culture. Wear it loud and proud, because being melanated and educated isn’t just a flex—it’s a legacy.
HBCU Culture Spelmanite Sweatshirt in Navy
Spelmanites, rep your Spelman pride with this unisex crewneck sweatshirt, designed for ultimate comfort and a relaxed fit. Made from a cozy cotton/polyester blend, this classic sweatshirt is as durable as it is stylish—making it an ideal piece for any Spelmanite showing love for their alma mater.
HBCU Culture Howard Is The Culture T-Shirt
Rock the ultimate flex by showcasing your Howard U love with HBCU Culture’s Howard Is The Culture t-shirt. This unisex tee offers a comfortable, relaxed fit that’s perfect for celebrating your HBCU spirit without sacrificing style or comfort.
DungeonForward FAMU - Strike Bucket - Reversible
DungeonForward’s Strike Bucket Hat brings versatility and style to the FAMU Crown collection with its reversible design, giving you two looks in one. Featuring a sleek black snakeskin-embossed brim lining and a bold outline Rattler emblem, this hat is all about repping your Rattler pride in style.
DungeonForward Savannah State University - HBCU Hat - TheYard
The Savannah State University HBCU Hat by DungeonForward is more than just a hat—it’s a symbol of Tiger pride and a nod to the culture. Perfect for gamedays, tailgates, or just showing off your HBCU love, this hat lets you carry a piece of the yard wherever you go.
Tech the Halls
Anker iPhone 16 Portable Charger, Nano Power Bank
Stay charged up with the Anker Nano Power Bank, which features dual USB-C ports, a foldable connector, and a compact design, making it perfect for those HBCU tailgates and late-night parties you pull up to.
Drip Check
Wisdom Frame 14 Square Sunglasses
Elevate your look with these angular square-frame sunglasses by Wisdom, bringing an ultramodern edge to any outfit. The sleek design makes them perfect for blocking out the haters while you stunt on the yard.
Coco and Breezy Eyewear Fortune in Gray Turquoise
The Fortune Glasses in Grey Turquoise is a bold statement piece to any Homecoming weekend ‘fit that “embody our fearless and outspoken DNA.” With their color and edgy design, these frames by Coco and Breezy are perfect for anyone looking to stand out and express their unapologetic confidence.
Howard U Lapel Pin
Rep your Bison pride wherever you go with this Howard U Lapel Pin from Pretty AmbVision. Whether adding it to your jacket, shirt, or bag, this pin is the perfect way to showcase your love for your alma mater while rocking your HBCU love with honor and distinction.
Mifland Standard Rucksack Mini
The Standard Rucksack is designed to evolve like that HBCU pride—getting richer, bolder, and better with time. Durable, stylish, and built to last, this Rucksack by Mifland is a timeless piece equipped with versatile carrying options and fully adjustable back straps for ultimate comfort.
Stay Fresh, Stay Blessed
Slip Pure Silk Sleep Mask in Pink
Keeping it cute starts with beauty sleep. This luxurious silk mask is an essential for a reason. If protecting your skin and waking up refreshed is your priority, look no further than this Homecoming essential.
Liquid I.V.® Hydration Multiplier Lemon Lime - Hydration Powder Packets
Stay hydrated and energized throughout Homecoming weekend with this Liquid I.V.® Hydration Multiplier in Lemon Lime. Just add a packet to your water bottle, and bless your body with 2-3 times more hydration than water with every packet. Because staying hydrated is the key to popping up and showing out all weekend long!
Loop Experience Plus Earplugs High Fidelity Hearing Protection
Designed for your hearing protection, these sleek earplugs reduce noise without compromising sound quality—perfect for enjoying the band’s halftime show, late-night parties, and DJ sets. Whether you’re front row at the step show or hitting the yard, your ears deserve to be protected in style!
Black Girl Magic Glass Cup
Sip in style and celebrate your melanin with the Black Girl Magic Glass Cup. Perfect for morning coffee, your favorite iced drink, or showing off your HBCU pride on the yard—this cup is all about keeping it cute while radiating your endless supply of Black Girl Magic.
Glow Up & Show Out
Black Girl Sunscreen SPF 30
What Homecoming weekend can be complete without an assist from this beauty find? Formulated to blend seamlessly into melanin-rich skin (no white-cast), protect your glow while you turn up with the Black Girl Sunscreen SPF 30.
Sienna Naturals Issa Rae's Wash Day Ritual Set
Issa Rae’s Wash Day Ritual Set from Sienna Naturals includes the H.A.PI. Shampoo, the Plant Power Repair Mask, Dew Magic, and Lock and Seal to get your crown right. Whether you’re repping your coils or rocking a new color on the yard, these products restore and nourish your strands, keeping your hair healthy, strong, and Homecoming-ready!
54 Thrones Ivorian Cocoa + Ghanaian Coconut Beauty Butter
Stay glowing from the tailgate to the after-party with the 54 Thrones Ivorian Cocoa + Ghanaian Coconut Beauty Butter. Infused with African-sourced ingredients, this rich, multi-purpose butter is the answer to keeping your skin soft and radiant through all the festivities all Homecoming long.
Saie Glossybounce Hydrating Lip Oil
Keep your lips looking luscious and nourished with the Saie Glossybounce Hydrating Lip Oil. Perfect for adding an extra pop to your pout before hitting the yard or freshening up between events, this lip oil is a beauty essential for staying camera-ready all weekend.
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What’s Next For Your Zodiac Sign? How Fall 2024’s Eclipse Season & Retrograde Will Shake Things Up
Another summer has come and gone, and now we enter the season of letting go. Fall 2024 is amid Eclipse Season and Retrograde Season, and there is a lot to process, heal from, and renew over the next few months. Fall is also when the veil between this world and the next is the thinnest, and when a lot of spiritual insight, intuitive connection, and magic are born as well.
This fall, we are being asked to slow down and focus on what we are creating in our reality at every moment. This time is all about remaining present, grateful, and in tune with your soul’s desires.
Fall 2024 Cosmic Forecast: An Overview
Fall began on the first day of the Libra Season, Sep. 22, and this air sign energy is exactly what a lot of fall is about. We are processing, loving, and also learning how to go with the flow a little bit more after a more detail-oriented Virgo Season. One of the most significant transits happening this fall is the New Moon Solar Eclipse in Libra occurred on Oct. 2, facilitating changes, new beginnings, and breakthroughs in love.
This New Moon Eclipse is important because it is the last Libra Eclipse on the Libra/Aries axis, which began in early 2023 and will end in March 2025 with an Aries Eclipse. So think back to what you intended for and were trying to create in your life spring of 2023 to see what is culminating for you now. This is a beautiful eclipse of surprise opportunities in love and is all about finding your balance.
Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter, Mercury, Mars, Neptune, and Uranus are all Retrograde at one point this fall. Thankfully, Pluto goes direct in Capricorn at the beginning of fall on Oct. 11, and Mercury will only be Retrograde for a few weeks in Sagittarius from Nov. 25 until Dec. 15, however, with all of these retrogrades happening, there is a slowing down needed this fall.
Mars only goes retrograde only every two years so the fact that we are ending the year in a Mars retrograde is very telling. Mars will be in Leo from Nov. 3, 2024, until Jan. 17, 2024, and will be retrograde from in both Leo and Cancer from Dec. 6 until Feb 23. Mars is all about direction, passion, and energy, and you could be feeling a lack of all the above during this time. This retrograde overall is an opportunity to redirect your energy, refocus your goals, and take more time with the things that need to develop.
Before fall comes to a close, we have a Full Moon in Gemini and Mercury goes direct after being retrograde from Nov. 25 until Dec. 15. With this energy, there is more opportunity for nurture, understanding, and enjoyment as we end the season. Overall, fall is teaching us the importance of setting your intentions and being able to let go of them so that they can come true for you.
This is the time when your inspirations and passions are being highlighted, but also when the nuances of them are as well. You can find your abundance in the here and now, and it’s all about remembering your power in life and in love.
Read for your sun and rising sign below to see how Fall 2024 will be for you.
Your Fall 2024 Horoscopes For Every Zodiac Sign
ARIES
Blessings are coming to fruition for you this fall, and you are experiencing some extra good luck and fortune during this time, Aries. Intentions are culminating, and you get to enjoy your manifestations with the people who love and support you 100% right now. Over the next few months, this is a good time to be with family, grow in abundance, allow people to support you, and plant your roots.
We have a Supermoon in Aries at the start of fall on Oct. 17, and a lot of eyes are on you right now. Life is coming full circle in a way to where you are feeling appreciative of everything that has happened until now and where other people want to come in and further support you as well.
TAURUS
This fall is about your healing journey, Taurus. There is a lot to process right now, and you are learning to protect your energy more. With an Eclipse happening in your opposite sign as the season begins, you are being redirected almost immediately and are being given space to change course. Relationships are a highlight for you this fall, and you will be learning through what is reflected to you in love.
The Supermoon in your sign on Nov. 15 is a good time for you to let go of a lot of the emotional heaviness you have been feeling in your life and to give yourself a fresh start. Use this fall as an opportunity to grow closer to your heart and to understand the different patterns in love that have been playing out for you this year.
GEMINI
This fall is a time of partnership for you, Gemini. You are aligned with love and are experiencing the benefits of a good connection. You have focused a lot on self-love this year, with Jupiter entering your sign, and Jupiter will be going retrograde in Gemini from Oct. 9 until Feb. 4, 2025, helping you further strengthen this energy in your life.
This Jupiter retrograde for you is sure to bring changes in your personal life, and you are refocusing your goals and intentions towards a broader, more expansive perspective.
Before fall ends, we have a Full Moon in Gemini, and Gemini Full Moons are always the wildcards of the year, and you are feeling excited about what’s leaving your life and what’s coming in. You are embracing change this fall, and it’s serving you and your love life well.
CANCER
Fall 2024 is a time when you are owning your abundance, Cancer. The next few months will be more career-focused and goal-oriented for you due to Mars in your sign for the first few months. With Mars, the planet of passion and action, in Cancer, you are getting a lot done this fall, and this energy is helping you financially. You are feeling good in health and spirit, and your power of attraction is especially prominent now.
This is the time of the year to invest in yourself and your goals and when you should be focused on moving forward first and foremost. The first half of the fall for you is about taking action, and then once Mars goes retrograde in your financial zone from Nov. 3 until Jan. 6, you will want to slow down on spending, strengthen your talents, and focus on financial stability.
LEO
This fall is an opportunity for you, Leo. You are being approached with many new doors opening, but you may also feel tested to perform, have all the right answers, or trust your intuition more right now as well. The most significant transit for you this fall is Mars entering your sign from Nov. 3 until Jan. 6 and being retrograde here from Dec. 6 until Jan. 6.
When Mars is direct in your sign for those two months, this is a very positive, abundant, and successful time for you and space when you are experiencing some happy and fortunate outcomes in your life. You have renewed spice for life and are meeting things head-on. Once Mars goes retrograde as we end fall, you move into a season of understanding yourself, goals, and intentions better and making sure your actions reflect who you are or who you want to be.
VIRGO
Fall is a time of learning more about yourself and the people in your environment, Virgo. You are focused on overcoming miscommunications and aligning more with how you see yourself or how you want to show up in the world. You are being asked to trust yourself and your intentions more and focus on forgiving those who you feel are committed to misunderstanding you.
With Mars in your 12th house of closure for most of this fall, you are moving through a lot of culminations at this time and are putting some old energy and experiences to rest. The focus right now should be on healing, being creative, not letting anyone disrupt your peace, and choosing to be around more supportive and compassionate people and energy.
LIBRA
You are the star of the show this fall, Libra. With Libra Season being the beginning of fall, this is your time of the year to showcase who you are, shine, and go after your dreams. There are a lot of new opportunities falling into your lap during this time.
With a New Moon Solar Eclipse in Libra on Oct. 2, you are seeing some significant manifestations come to fruition for you at the beginning of fall and over the next few months.
Your focus right now should be on new beginnings, new energy, and the new doors opening for you. If you could envision everything you are currently hoping for come true for you, what would that feel and look like? This fall for you is all about believing in miracles, Libra.
SCORPIO
You have a good balance and inner harmony with you this fall, Scorpio. With Scorpio Season in the middle of beautiful fall, you flow well with the energy of this time, and there is synergy in what you are letting go of and moving into right now. This is a time of emotional freedom, comfort, and feeling heard, supported, and cherished in your relationships.
With a New Moon Eclipse happening in your 12th house as fall begins, you are entering this time experiencing the blessings that come from letting go of what is no longer serving you. With a New Moon also happening in your sign on Nov. 1, mid-fall is a great time for you to manifest, focus on your personal goals, and make space for your dreams to come true.
SAGITTARIUS
This fall is a new beginning in love for you, Sagittarius. There are opportunities coming in for you to make a fresh start of the heart, and you are feeling optimistic about where life is taking for you right now. However, at the end of the fall, there is a need to readdress some personal issues or challenges you may have been facing when it comes to expressing yourself and getting your message across, with Mercury going retrograde in your sign from Nov. 25 until Dec. 15.
You are going to be moving through a lot of changes in communication and who you are connecting with, but with a New Moon in your sign before fall ends on Dec. 1, you are feeling more than capable to address challenges head-on and create positive change in your life.
CAPRICORN
Fall is about giving yourself a break from trying to force outcomes and noticing how many good things fall into your lap when you just allow them to. Many dreams and opportunities are coming to fruition for you over the next few months, and this is an emotionally fulfilling season of the year for you.
With Pluto going direct in your sign on Oct. 11 after being in retrograde since early May, you get to enter the season with a huge weight off your shoulders and your heart. You are feeling empowered by the changes you have been through over the past six months and are feeling a liberation to create, be, and experience all this life has to offer you. Some pleasant surprises are in store for you this fall, Capricorn.
AQUARIUS
This fall is about opening your heart, Aquarius. Opportunities for new developments and strengthening bonds in love are possible for you now, and you are being admired for who you are and how you love. Pluto goes direct at the beginning of fall and enters your sign on Nov. 19 until 2043.
This is a very significant transition to have in your lifetime, and you are moving into a journey of redefining yourself, your goals, your image, and your personality.
You are shining in what is authentic for you, and you have a lot of opportunities to attract success to you with this energy. Before fall ends, Venus enters your sign from Dec. 7 until Jan. 2, and you are ending the year with love blessing you in a new way.
PISCES
Opportunities, success, and romance are flowing through your world this fall, Pisces. This fall is a full-circle experience for you, and many things you were hoping for in love are coming true for you during this time. With Saturn going direct in Pisces on Nov. 15 after being Retrograde here since late June, you finally get a chance to use what you have learned about yourself and your relationships these past few months.
You are giving and receiving love freely, and this is an emotionally successful time for you. Neptune will also go direct in Pisces on Dec. 7 after being Retrograde here since early July, and there is overall less pressure in your life and more love this fall.
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