

Whether or not you're strategic about it, you have a personal brand. It's how you make a living or pursue your passion, your social media posts, the way people describe you, and even the vibe you give off when you walk into a room. Your entire being makes up your personal brand.
Personal branding has been a buzzword over the last few years, and there are many articles about why you need to define yours and use it to your advantage. But it isn't clear HOW to build an authentic personal brand that resonates on and offline.
There's so many gems that we can learn from rapper Cardi B about personal branding. Since her rise to fame, she's shown the world her authentic personality. If I had to guess, I'd say that Cardi B is an ESFP (Extravert, Sensing, Feeling, Perceiving), according to the 16 Personalities Test and the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator.
She's someone who treats the entire world like a stage. She describes herself as a comedian at heart -- it's clear that's true every time she's in public or on social media. Cardi's strengths includes being bold, original, and artistic.
Her authenticity is electric because she unapologetically lets her personality shine.
Like Cardi, you can build a personal brand based on your personality. Although I'm sure you already have a grasp of who you are, you can learn a lot about yourself by taking a personality test.
Take THIS free test and then answer the seven questions below to build a genuine personal brand like Cardi B.
What are five strengths and values from your personality test results?
This describes who you are at your core and what's most important to you. Those strengths and values should be shown through everything you do and say in person or online.
ESFPs have excellent people skills. Cardi effectively communicates in her unique and comedic way that makes her hard to dislike as a person, even if you aren't a fan of her music. In her interviews and social media posts, it's clear that she values honesty, her loved ones, and her desire to create music that makes her feel good.
What do you want to be known for?
Your legacy isn't something you should think about when you get old - it should continuously be built on. The results from your personality test, particularly in the career section, can help reveal the answer to this question. Write a few sentences describing how you want to be perceived and the impression that you'd like to leave on people.
According to the 16 Personalities Test, ESFP's have "plenty of creative energy, and many build fulfilling careers in music, fashion, photography, and interior design.... They need freedom, novelty, and above all, human contact. "
That's Cardi for you. Her witty one-liners in songs, affordable mixed with high-end fashion statements, and creative catchphrases shows that she wants to be known as a unique artist who keeps it real at all times.
What's your content focus?
You don't have to be a lifestyle blogger or business coach to build your brand. Just by posting on social media, you, too, are a content creator. Use the first two questions, along with where you are in your life, to help guide your content and create a few subject pillars that you're going to focus on.
On Cardi's Instagram, you'll see posts about her music, Fashion Nova endorsement, engagement, unfiltered sexuality, and her glamorous yet ratchet lifestyle.
What platforms will you focus on?
While you may be active on multiple platforms, think about where you can make the most impact and be consistent and relevant. LinkedIn, Instagram, and Twitter are some of the best brand-building channels because you can showcase your work, personality, and creativity.
With more than 20MM followers, Instagram is Cardi's primary channel. She's on Facebook and Twitter as well, but she focused on IG to build her fanbase even before she was on Love & Hip Hop.
Who's your target audience?
You can't be everything to everyone. Don't change who you are to reach people.
Use your personality type to draw them in.
As a potential ESFP, Cardi's personality is entertaining. She's goofy, loud, in your face and honest. She didn't need to be everyone's cup of tea for her debut album "Invasion of Privacy" to break records. Cardi knows who she's creating music for, and if you don't like her songs then you aren't her target audience.
What's your writing style and tone of voice?
This is how you can really let your personality shine through your personal brand. Fun, relatable, professional, serious, witty and inspirational are just a few ways you can communicate online. Look at your personality test results to find keywords that can describe your tone of voice.
Cardi takes a funny and casual approach in her writing - she uses a lot of emojis and all caps showing that she's just as social and loud AF online as she is in person.
What's your personal brand statement?
Last but not least, bundle your personal brand into a memorable, punchy 2-3 sentence statement about who you are, what you do, and the unique value that you add to your target audience.
Cardi B is an animated and unapologetic global superstar on the rise. From her music to her partnerships, she's making major money moves and giving fans permission to let their true personality shine.
How are you building an authentic personal brand? Let us know in the comments below!
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Teyonna Lanez is a brand strategist and producer with a love for doing the inner and outer work -- mindset shifting and marketing. The Atlanta native is passionate about social media storytelling and sharing positive affirmations to help people maintain inner peace despite external chaos. Connect with on Instagram @TeyonnaLanez or on her site TeyonnaLanez.com.
'He Said, She Said': Love Stories Put To The Test At A Weekend For Love
At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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There’s caviar, and then there’s Black-owned caviar. With the recent explosion of #CaviarTikTok, this luxury delicacy seems to be everywhere these days. I can’t scroll through my feed without seeing our favorite celebs and influencers diving headfirst into extravagant caviar spreads.
From Rihanna pairing her caviar with chicken nuggets (I wonder if our Fenty queen shares with RZA and Riot Rose or if this is just for mama) to Bethenny Frankel educating us on caviar with her series "Caviar University," there’s just no escaping it.
And let’s not forget the elite king himself, DeAndre Brown, indulging in fried chicken and caviar! From videos with caviar-topped burgers, potato latkes, deviled eggs, and pasta dishes—folks are topping everything with caviar. Yet, I had not come across any Black-owned caviar brands until I discovered Caviar Dream.
My Introduction Into Caviar
I started off eating caviar in undergrad on top of sushi, exploring with a variety of roe and tobiko but as an adult, I knew I was ready to try something a little more refined. The first time I fell in love with caviar was in grad school at a southern Italian restaurant in Flatiron.
I tried an appetizer that featured caviar on bruschetta, served with thick garlic bread and burrata cheese, and from that moment, I was hooked. That has become my favorite way to enjoy caviar next to this filet mignon crostini appetizer that I served recently at a dinner party.
Everything You Need To Know About Caviar Dream
Caviar Dream is the first nationally distributed Black and woman-owned caviar business, redefining how people experience caviar. Founded by Kendra Anderson, a Chicago based chef and sommelier, the company’s mission is to make caviar more accessible and inclusive, breaking down barriers and demystifying this delicacy.
@caviardreamkendra so you’ve got your Caviar Dream…now what to eat it with? i’ve probably had cavi with just about anything you can imagine at this point {topped some fried cheese curds with my California White a few months ago and it was 💥} but i gotta say that i have some on my scrambled eggs every week 😌 no need to get fancy — just scramble your eggs however you usually do and scoop that cavi right on top 🤤 you can upgrade from there in a few ways: ✨ add a dollop of crème frâiche {see my previous video for a 30 second make-at-home recipe} ✨ sprinkle some chopped chives or green onions on top ✨ put the whole caviar / scrambled egg situation on a toasted + buttered bagel, croissant or onion bun! p.s.: i love our Smoked Trout Roe with scrambled eggs too 💖 if you try any of these combos, let me know what you think! 🩵💭✨👩🏽🍳 #CaviarDream #caviarforthepeople #putsomecaviaronit #caviar #caviartok #fyp #caviarparty #caviarnight #affordableluxury #chicagotiktok #homecooking #galentines #valentinesday #tiktokuniversity #cooking #easyrecipe #caviar101
What Caviar I Tried
Caviar Dream Kaluga Hybrid ($105-$420 depending on the ounce)
How I Experienced The Caviar:
For this review, I opted for a more traditional approach by pairing Caviar Dream's Kaluga Hybrid with crème fraîche, blinis, and my favorite Black-owned champagne, Le KOOL Champagne by Robert Kool Bell.
My Honest Review:
I do not say this lightly - this was by far the best caviar I’ve ever had in my life. It was buttery, had no aftertaste, and truly felt as luxurious as it looked.
Prior to this, my favorite caviar was Imperial Caviar. I’ve tried many brands, from well-known to affordable, while recreating my favorite decadent appetizers at home or enjoying caviar bumps at parties with my friends and they were my favorite until now.
Caviar Dream boasts that chefs are obsessed with this versatile hybrid, which tastes more expensive than it actually is—and they were right. This buttery caviar would pair well with any recipe, especially if you’re looking to impress someone or even treat yourself.
As a Black woman, a business owner, and someone who understands that an extension of financial wellness is circulating our dollars, I recognize the importance of incorporating Black-owned businesses throughout every aspect of my life. From my skincare to my favorite sustainable wine, my bank, and even indulgent experiences like caviar, it matters.
As we celebrate culinary innovation and expand our palates, let’s also take the extra step to support Black-owned businesses while doing it. So the next time you’re tempted by the allure of caviar, order from Caviar Dream—it just might become your new favorite.
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