The next time you are planning a date night or giving your partner hints as to what you want, consider your sun, moon, and Venus sign, and what your heart would prefer. When it comes to the perfect date night for your zodiac sign, you have to get to the basics of what values the signs have, how they receive others, and what makes them feel safe to open up to love. Fire signs love having fun and prefer something passionate. They would feel loved when their partner suggests doing something adventurous- and feels confident doing so. An earth sign prefers gestures of love in a sweet and settled way and wants a date night where they feel safe, comfortable, and like they can just be themselves.
Overall, when it comes to love and figuring out what you need or what your partner does, you want to look at your sun sign as the basis, as well as your moon sign, which is what you emotionally crave, and Venus sign, which is how you love. When reading below, consider your sun, moon, and Venus signs.
ARIES
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Game Night
Aries, being a fire sign, like excitement in their life and that is no different when it comes to a date night. Being a competitive sign, the perfect date night for an Aries is a game night. Do something that gets them thinking and that makes them feel like you are on their level of excitement and fun in life. A game night can consist of a traditional board game or Pictionary type of situation, but this can also entail going to a professional game like an NFL or an NBA game. Aries’ have a youthful spirit and want this type of fun when it comes to love.
TAURUS
Staycation
Taurus is a homebody but they also happen to be romantics at heart. A staycation is a perfect date for a Taurus because they don’t have to venture too far out of their comfort zone, but to be treated to something special like a vacation or an over-nighter will make them feel special. A staycation is where you book a house, Airbnb, hotel, or whatever in a unique place and enjoy the comfort of your city, but in a new home. Adorn the house with red roses, candles, and their favorite foods- and you are set.
GEMINI
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Couples Massage
Geminis are all about partnership, and in a relationship, they are the definition of two becoming one. A couples massage is something you both can do together, and also a way to ease Gemini’s overactive mind, and get them to be in the moment. Geminis are very active and like to be everywhere at once so getting an opportunity to settle down, especially with their partner, helps them focus on what’s important and feel more at ease to open their hearts and be in that space of romance and love as well.
CANCER
Home-Cooked Meal + Movie
Cancer, like Taurus, are home-body souls. They want to be in their safe spaces and only come out of their crab shell for special occasions. A perfect date night for a Cancer is one where they can experience all of the pleasures of a date night- but in the comfort of their own home. Cook a Cancer a special meal, plan a movie where you can cuddle, and take things easy. Cancer prefers slow and steady in love, and acts of service such as cooking a meal for them truly do wonders. Tell them how much they mean to you, and you will receive Cancer at their best.
LEO
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Go Dancing
Leo prefers a night out on the town. A Leo loves to dance, be the center of attention, and be adored by their partner. The perfect date night for a Leo is to have some fun and make them feel special. Go out to a club, take dancing classes, or just explore the town together to provide the perfect date night for a Leo. Dressing up and having fun is everything to a Leo and this is truly where they shine and where they love. If you give Leo all of the attention and love they deserve, that goes a long way for them.
VIRGO
Romantic Picnic With a View
Virgo is a romantic with the right partner. They are often the givers in love, so to go out of your way to do something special for them would mean a lot to Virgo. Being an earth sign, nature is especially therapeutic for Virgo, and setting up a nice, romantic, picnic with good scenery is a recipe for success. The perfect date night for Virgo is where you take care of everything without letting them lift a finger and set up a vibe where they feel relaxed and loved. They even have services now where you can hire someone to professionally set up a cute picnic for you and your partner, as we all know Virgo does love perfection.
LIBRA
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Shopping
Shopping? Yes, shopping. When it comes to Libra, there are many things they love in life, and shopping is at the top of that list. A Libra wants to feel luxurious, beautiful, and like a work of art. They bring this energy into their relationships and they expect this type of love and affection from others as well. Treating your Libra date to a shopping spree would be perfect for this air sign and something they will definitely brag about to their friends later. Take a Libra to their favorite store and mall for a date night- and you are in.
SCORPIO
Art Museum
When it comes to Scorpio, they love time away with their lover. They love to be places where others typically aren’t, and the perfect date night for a Scorpio is one where it's quieter and more intimate. Scorpios have a deep appreciation for art and for things that make you feel something. Bringing Scorpio to an art museum will not only make them see you as unique, but it’s also the perfect vibe for them to feel more comfortable and less pressured. If you can go at a time when there are fewer people around and only you two- the better.
SAGITTARIUS
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Helicopter Ride
Sagittarius is all about going big or going home. They do so many adventures and out-of-the-ordinary stuff for their own selves that you really have to step up to the plate and meet them where they are. A romantic helicopter ride overlooking the city is as spectacular as Sagittarius’ expectations and would make them feel like they won big time. Sagittarius most of all needs adventure and they look for a partner that has this same type of confidence and open mind when it comes to love, life, and experiences with another.
CAPRICORN
Dinner at a 5-Star Restaurant
A Capricorn is the perfect balance between chill and bougie. They aren’t one to judge someone and the place they are in life, but they do prefer the best of the best for themselves. You might get away with a dinner at a regular restaurant once or twice, but they want a partner that is able to add something to their lives overall. Dinner at a 5-star restaurant is simple enough to where this earth sign doesn’t feel too out of their comfort zone, but also nice enough to where they feel valued and like you value the relationship as well.
AQUARIUS
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See Their Favorite Artist in Concert
Aquarius either wants to have fun or be alone. When they are in that space of being out and about, however, they are some of the most outgoing and fun signs of the zodiac. The perfect date night for an Aquarius would be to take them to see their favorite artist in concert. Surprise them with tickets to see someone they love, and they also wouldn’t mind a double-date type of situation as well or inviting some friends with you guys. Keeping things light-hearted is the perfect way to connect with an Aquarius and allow them to open up to you.
PISCES
Star Gazing at the Beach
As a water sign, being near any body of ocean is the best place for Pisces to be. Taking them to the beach at night is romantic for Pisces, and if you aren’t near a beach, going outside and being around nature works as well. You can have a romantic date night by laying out a blanket on the sand, or by sitting on top of your car like all the rom-coms have shown us how, and gazing at the stars while talking and opening up. Pisces isn’t high-maintenance so just taking the time to do something special for them would make their heart happy.
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Mercury enters Sagittarius on November 2, will be retrograde from Nov. 25 until Dec. 15, and will be in this sign until Jan. 8, 2025. Mercury in Sagittarius is bold and outspoken but, in retrograde, can come across as impulsive and brash. Thinking before speaking is important right now, and so is considering your values and interests before committing to something new. Since Sagittarius rules long-distance travel, this isn’t the best time to plan a new trip or to rush the ones already in place.
Consider where you want to be, and take your time getting there.
What to Expect from Mercury Retrograde in Sagittarius
A little more than a week after Mercury goes retrograde in Sagittarius, Mars goes retrograde in Leo. With these important transits happening in fire signs, energy can be misdirected right now. It’s about looking at the full picture and not overwhelming yourself with too many options or interests. Take your passions and align them with your heart and willpower, without confusing inspiration with ego. Emotions are running high, yet this activation is creating a breakthrough in personal development before the year ends.
Read below to see how this Mercury retrograde transit will be for you. Read for your sun sign and rising sign.
ARIES
Mercury goes retrograde in Sagittarius, and you are focused on the bigger picture right now, Aries. With Mercury retrograde in your 9th house of adventure over the next few weeks, this is the time to expect the unexpected and to go at your own pace. Don’t rush the clarity that is meant to bloom for you right now, and take things one day at a time.
Even if you don’t have all the answers you need right now, there are still some important truths and insights to gain. You are in the process of reinventing yourself and your life, and the universe is helping you get the space in order to do so. If you are traveling over the next few weeks, remember to be flexible and to go over plans thoroughly.
TAURUS
Mercury goes retrograde, and you enter a time of change and rebirth, Taurus. This transit, for you, is an opportunity to gain balance, perspective, and empowerment. Your commitments and close partnerships are being addressed right now, and you are seeing where your needs are being met and where they aren’t. You are on a journey of letting go and allowing more, and this is the time to focus on being more flexible rather than controlling outcomes.
This retrograde could also be affecting your shared finances and earnings, and this is a good time to take another look at the money coming in and the money going out and make sure things are in order here. Trust your intuition right now, Taurus.
GEMINI
Mercury goes retrograde in your sister sign, Sagittarius, and you are ready for a fresh perspective in love. This retrograde will highlight your 7th house of partnership, connection, romance, and inner harmony, and your heart is figuring things out right now. Confusion or disagreements are more likely within your relationship dynamics, and this is the time to address what your partnerships need.
If you have been feeling out of balance when it comes to love, then this is the time to get things back on track.
This Mercury retrograde is helping you gain a new perspective and reminds you that you deserve the love you are looking for. Use this time to forgive, grow, and use better judgment regarding matters of the heart and the relationships you are building in your life right now.
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CANCER
This Mercury retrograde transit for you is a chance to gain some renewed clarity regarding your health, well-being, and work life. You could be feeling more pressure to perform and have it all together on the job, and there is a need to delegate, let go, and take care of your health more right now, Cancer.
This transit will highlight where some cracks are seeping, where you may need to build stronger foundations and healthier daily routines, and also how you can manage a better work/life balance. Your daily lifestyle may feel a little more difficult to find consistency in right now, and this is because new avenues and perspectives are waiting for you to grab ahold of. Overall, use this time to listen to your inner voice and do more of what feels right for you and your body.
LEO
Mercury goes retrograde in Sagittarius, and this transit highlights your 5th house of romance, creativity, passion, and happiness, Leo. This retrograde is an opportunity for you to address what and who makes you happy and how you can show up more for these fortunate experiences in your life. You are looking at if you’ve been making your happiness as much of a priority as it should be this year and also taking a look at what sources help you align with that energy altogether.
This time is about being a little bit more flexible, doing things differently, and being open to a new perspective. Relationship developments are also providing your heart more clarity right now, and you are balancing your needs with the needs of your partnerships and creative ventures.
VIRGO
Your ruling planet Mercury goes retrograde before the year ends, and this is helping you rebuild your foundations, Virgo. Mercury will be retrograde in an area of your life that has to do with your home, history, family, and emotional stability- and you are getting a new grasp on things here.
Where you have been planting your seeds and building for your future are coming up for review during this time, and you are gaining clarity on which of these foundations is stable enough to continue to build upon. You could be feeling less secure than you would like to right now, and this change of pace is helping you reassess your goals and figure out what is worth it for you and the legacy you want to live.
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LIBRA
Mercury goes retrograde in Sagittarius, and the focus turns towards your communication channels, Libra. Mercury retro is already a more chaotic time when it comes to communication, and with this retrograde also happening in your 3rd house of insight and communication, you may feel this heaviness a little more right now.
This transit, for you, is about taking your time getting your message across, being patient while traveling and running errands, and giving yourself space to gain some new clarity.
Meditation, journaling, and talking to someone who can support you are therapeutic, and know that your voice deserves to be heard. You are looking at ways you can take up more space and show up in the world without letting your insecurities keep you away from true connection, vulnerability, and understanding.
SCORPIO
This Mercury retrograde is happening in your 2nd house of income, values, assets, and self-confidence, and you are taking a step back to assess your current reality, especially financially, Scorpio. This is a good time to go over your spending habits and earnings, to find greater balance here, and to think about some of your financial goals moving forward.
Look at your resources, skills, and talents, and make sure what you are receiving is equal to or greater than what you have been giving. Less is more right now, and this isn’t the best time to overspend or overindulge, as you need more time to grasp your current stance on things, and how to increase your overall wealth and abundance.
SAGITTARIUS
With this Mercury retrograde happening in your sign, it’s hitting a little closer to home for you, Sagittarius. This is a good time to refine your goals and direction in life and how you want to show up right now. You deserve to be able to change your mind when you need to, and you are thinking about some of the things you have done and what you want to do moving forward.
Miscommunications are more likely while Mercury is in retrograde, but you can use this as a source of empowerment, knowing that you are living in your truth and allowing yourself room to grow in the process. Remember to be a little kinder to yourself during this transit and to give yourself the grace you need right now.
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CAPRICORN
This Mercury retrograde for you, Capricorn, is about rest and taking care of your emotional world. You are being given the opportunity to spend more time alone, to gather your strength, and to heal before you enter the new year. A lot has happened, and there have been many changes in your world this year. This Mercury retrograde is here to help you find acceptance and closure.
You are in a preparation stage right now, and things can feel a little more lonesome in this energy, but with a different perspective, you can see just how much of this space your heart truly needs right now. The past is coming up for you to see things in a new light, and you are ready to gain some renewed insight, closure, and healing.
AQUARIUS
This Mercury retrograde highlights your friendships, community, and your hopes and dreams, Aquarius. You are being reminded of the importance of connection, but more significantly, of good connections. You are looking at who and what surrounds you right now and gaining clarity on whether this energy matches who you are and the things that you stand for.
Your social circle and the people around you are shifting as the power dynamics do, and you are finding your place and purpose amidst this change. It’s about identifying who and what makes you feel good and aligning things in your life to bring in more of that energy. Don’t be discouraged right now; find your people and ask for support.
PISCES
Your career and ambitions are the focus during this Mercury retrograde, Pisces. You have a lot to address here, and you are gathering your skills and talents and reminding yourself that you are worthy of your dreams. Miscommunications and setbacks are more likely within your professional world, but they are here to ask you if what you are striving for, is really what you need right now.
You are thinking a lot about how you show up in the world, what you want to be known for, and what successes you still want to obtain. This isn’t the time to let anyone’s idea or vision of you define who you are; rather, define that for yourself. Show up as you want to be seen, and don’t count yourself out right now, Pisces.
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