Looking for ways to self-reflect? Oracle decks are a magical practice to add to your inward ritual. Upon digging deeper into self-work, we had to bring in an expert on oracle decks. Allow us to introduce you to Iya Osundara aka Bruja Banton. The Baltimore, MD resident is not only a Osun Priestess in the African Traditional Religion of Ifa/Isese but she's also a tarot and oracle reader, shadow worker, and spiritual bath maker.
"I got into oracle decks by way of tarot cards. I started teaching myself tarot in 2014/2015, and it goes with most things that I find an interest in, I stumbled down a YouTube rabbit hole. That's when I discovered another method of divination in the form of oracle cards," Iya explained.
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Without a shadow of a doubt, mama knows her stuff! xoNecole had the pleasure of chatting with this queen to talk oracle decks, why they are important, and insights on the rest of the year.
What do you love most about oracle cards?
"Oracle cards are free-spirited and can be about anything. You like affirmations? You can find an affirmation oracle deck. You into plants? There's an oracle deck for that. Crystals? A deck for that. Oracle decks also are a great example of the variety of ways Spirit communicates with us. Sky's the limit, they each have their own structure and feel and there's a freedom in that to me."
How do oracle decks differ from tarot cards?
" Tarot decks, while the artwork may vary, generally follow a structured system. There's always going to be a major and minor arcana of more or less 78 cards. Tarot is also good for getting down to the nitty-gritty of a topic; you can really get in-depth with them. As I mentioned earlier, contrastingly each individual oracle deck has its own structure and feel; this is great for folks who feel like tarot is too rigid or structured.
"Oracle decks are good for insight on a macro level, not too in-depth but just enough to get you started with broad concepts."
Why are oracle decks important?
"Using oracle decks is a form of divination, even on a basic level. To me this question is really asking, why is divination important? Using oracle decks as a tool to divine helps us to strengthen our connection to Spirit, whether that be God/Universe, benevolent ancestors, etc. These are tools that can provide us with insight and/or encouragement in our lives. Clients often ask me how they can strengthen their intuitive gifts, and using oracle decks, pulling cards for yourself is one way to do so."
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Can you give us a breakdown of some of your favorite cards?
"This varies as I work with a lot of decks and rotate through them a lot. Currently, my favorite card is "No Short Cuts" from the Chalks of Kikongo deck. It's a reminder that we can't shortcut our way to our goals. The only way is through even if it takes longer than you'd like. Another is Abe Dua from the Adinkra Ancestral Guidance Cards. Abe Dua is an Adinkra symbol that represents the Palm Tree. My government name in Hebrew means Palm Tree, so this card is special for me for that reason, and also because it symbolizes the resourcefulness and resilience that is inherent to the palm tree and also me. It's a reminder that I can create the opportunities I need without waiting on others to bring them to me."
Share any insights you have from your decks that may shine a light on the remainder of the year.
"If you're trying to become more in tune with your intuition, you can no longer ignore or turn away from what is being revealed to you. You have a choice to make a conscious decision on how to proceed.
"Take time to reflect on your choices and don't be afraid to make the choice you intuitively know is right. It may not be comfortable, it may shake the table, but the choices that are best for us cause us to feel this way. Lean into it."
What are your favorite decks?
"I own an obscene amount of decks and my favorites vary depending on the season or how I'm feeling. But some of my go-to oracle decks are: Adinkra Ancestral Guidance Cards, Work Your Light Oracle by Rebecca Campbell and Danielle Danielle Noel, Starseed Oracle by Rebecca Campbell and Danielle Noel, Okana Oracle deck by Akamarot Tarot, and the Chalks of Kikongo Deck by Sharifa of Ageno's Sweet Things."
For more of Iya Osundara, follow her on Instagram @_brujabanton.
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Joce Blake is a womanist who loves fashion, Beyonce and Hot Cheetos. The sophistiratchet enthusiast is based in Brooklyn, NY but has southern belle roots as she was born and raised in Memphis, TN. Keep up with her on Instagram @joce_blake and on Twitter @SaraJessicaBee.
Exclusive: Melanie Fiona On Making High-Vibrational Music & Saying Yes To Partnership
Melanie Fiona is back! After taking a little more than a decade-long hiatus, she has officially made her return to music and blessed us with two singles, “Say Yes” and “I Choose You.” While both singles are very different from each other, they both reflect who she is today and the type of music she wants to make. In our conversation, the mom of two expressed what she learned during her time away.
“It's interesting, even when I said it is like coming back, I don't ever feel like I really left because I was always still performing. I've still been public. It's not like I went into being this recluse person or version of myself, but the thing that I really learned in this process is that I think things take time,” Melanie says in a xoNecole exclusive.
“I think often we're so caught up in it, being on the timing of demand or popularity, or, like, striking while the iron is hot and the thing that I've learned is that everything is on God's time. That's it. Every time I thought I would have been ready, or, like, things were taking too long, I had to reship some things, personally, professionally, in my life. I also gave myself permission to make a living, not just make a living, but make a life for myself.”
Making a life for herself included getting married to Grammy-nominated songwriter Jared Cotter, starting a family, and embracing new landscapes, such as podcasting as a co-host of The Mama’s Den podcast. She also began doing more spiritual work and self-care practices like meditation, sound healing, Reiki, acupuncture, and boundary setting, which allowed her to get in touch with her inner voice.
“I wasn't putting out music, and I wasn't experiencing a number one record, but I was being a number one mom,” she says.
“I was experiencing things that were allowing me to heal and get in touch with myself so that I could make new music from a space of joy and freedom, and excitement again because I definitely feel like I did lose some excitement because of just politics and industry and what it can do to your mental health and even your physical health. So giving myself the space to really just say, ‘Hey, it's okay. Everything's right on time.’”
The joy and excitement are felt in one of two new singles, “I Choose You,” which is more of a lovers rock vibe, a tribute to Melanie’s Caribbean roots. While the Grammy award-winner is known for ballads like “It Kills Me” and “Fool For You,” she is becoming more intentional about the music she makes, calling it high-vibrational music. She says her music is a “reflection of my life,” as it captures every facet, from hanging out with friends to riding around in her car.
“Say Yes” has the classic R&B vibe Melanie is known for. However, both songs are inspired by her relationship. Melanie and Jared got married in December 2020, and the Toronto-bred artist dished on their relationship. Fun fact: he is featured in the “Say Yes” music video.
“When we first started dating, I had come into that relationship post a lot of self-work. I had gotten out of a long-term relationship, I had a year and a half to date and be by myself and do a lot of work on myself alone. And when we met, I remember feeling like this has to be my person because I feel it,” she says.
“And so when we went into that relationship, and we started dating, I was very clear. I was like, I know what I want. I'm very clear on what I need, and I'm not going to withhold my truth about myself in this process because of pride or fear of rejection. I know you love me, but I'm coming with my heart in my hand to let you know that if we're gonna get there, we have to put fear aside and say yes. So that was kind of like my open letter to him, which is why the video is us having a conversation.”
Melanie also shares that saying yes to her partner has empowered her in many ways, including motherhood and showing up for herself. Her new EP, also titled Say Yes, will be available at the top of 2025.
Check out the full interview below.
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There's something about snuggling up in your favorite blanket and watching a comfort show or movie on Netflix, and what better time to do just that than in December? As the weather outside gets cooler, staying in becomes more of the norm. Thus, Netflix and Chill is a go-to. Luckily, Netflix has released new Black films and series on their popular streaming platform.
From Tyler Perry's historical drama The Six Triple Eight, starring Kerry Washington, to the Will Packer-produced comedy starring Marsai Martin, Regina Hall, and Issa Rae, Little, this season is looking up.
See the full list below.
Little (12/1)
Regina Hall's character is a bossy tech mogul who has everyone scared of her, including her assistant, played by Issa Rae. However, when she transforms into her younger self (Marsai Martin), she learns how to be more kind to others.
Daddy Day Care (12/1)
Eddie Murphy stars in this film as a father who decides to open a daycare after losing his job.
30 For 30 Collection (12/2)
30 For 30 is an ESPN docu-series highlighting some of sports' legendary figures and moments. Some of the episodes include Winning Time: Reggie Miller Vs. The New York Knicks and Celtics/ Lakers: The Best of Enemies.
Jamie Foxx: What Had Happened Was (12/10)
In this special, the multi-talented Jamie Foxx returns to stand-up to give an unforgettable performance.
Blood, Sweat & Heels S2 (12/13)
The short-lived Bravo reality TV series documented the lives of a group of girlfriends making it in NYC. The show starred model-turned-podcaster Melyssa Ford, author Demetria Lucas, and the late TV host Daisy Lewellyn.
The Equalizer S1-3 (12/16)
The hit CBS show starring Queen Latifah is now available on Netflix. Watch the beloved actress kick ass and take names in this popular drama.
The Six Triple Eight (12/20)
The new Tyler Perry film starring Kerry Washington is a true story about the first and only Women’s Army Corps unit of color during World War II.
Christmas Game Day Ravens Vs. Texans (12/25)
While many will tune in to watch the Baltimore Ravens vs. Houston Texans game, others will tune in to watch Beyoncé perform during halftime.
Michelle Buteau: A Buteau-ful Mind At Radio City Music Hall (12/31)
Comedian Michelle Buteau's comedy special will focus on her life with twins, going viral, and much more.
Evil S3 (12/31)
While Evil was unfortunately canceled by CBS, viewers can rewatch the series on Netflix, with season three premiering December 31st.
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