

Spring and summer is on the horizon, and you'll want to impress all your girls with some handcrafted Black and Brown Girl Magic Cocktails, created by yours truly!
After 10 years of working in bars and restaurants, I love a drink with personality! In 2016, after struggling to find a bar gig in my rapidly gentrifying neighborhood, I opened my own donation-based Speakeasy in Bedstuy, Brooklyn called "Snugstation."
Instead of following the crowd, I created my own Mixology Menu of Melanin-Inspired Drinks! Check out 5 of my favorite Signature Handcrafted Cocktails that'll have you feeling tipsy and emanating black girl magic.
BEYCHELLA LEMONADE™️
Mixology by @famoustaine
Beyonce created shockwaves through the internet with her history-making Coachella performance this past weekend, and she took it back to the Black sorority college campus - looking cool as a cucumber! In honor of her, I've conjured up this rosemary cucumber gin Lemonade, aka the Beychella Lemonade.
Recipe
Ingredients:
2 oz Gin
1 oz Fresh Lemon Juice
¾ oz Triple Sec
1 oz Rosemary Simple
Rosemary Garnish
Cucumber Garnish
Honey
Directions:
First, we have to make your Rosemary simple syrup. Take 1 cup of sugar, a handful of Rosemary Sprigs, 2 cups of water, and boil everything down to a syrup in a small pot. Remove the syrup off the heat for a cool down.
Grab your shaker, combine your citrus, spirits, and cooled simple syrup in the tin. Then add ice cubes and shake that thing like Beyonce!
Strain over ice in a Tom Collins Glass, garnish, and drizzle a little honey for the BeyHive!
SUBWAY CAR™️
Mixology by @famoustaine
Growing up in Bedstuy, two things you grow accustomed to are running in-between train cars, and that good ole' EJ Brandy that no one from BK is too proud to sip! Try this sweet and spicy spin on a Sidecar that's Brooklyn AF!
Recipe
Ingredients:
2 oz EJ Brandy or Hennessy
1 oz Fresh Lemon Juice
1 oz Triple Sec
1 oz Honey-Ginger Syrup
Tabasco Sauce
Smoked Paprika
Granulated Sugar
Lemon Peel
Directions:
Make your Honey-Ginger simple syrup. Take ½ cup of sugar, 1 cup of wild honey, a finely diced chunk of fresh ginger, 2 cups of water, and boil everything down to a syrup in a small pot. Take the syrup off the heat for a cool down. Feel free to adjust amount of sweeteners to your personal preference.
First, prep your cocktail garnish. Pour the smoked paprika and sugar on a flat plate. Grab a lemon wedge that is cut down the middle, and wet the rim of a chilled glass. Dab the rim in the paprika and sugar blend, generously coating it.
In your shaker, combine your citrus, spirits, and simple syrup in the tin. Drop in a couple splashes of Tabasco Sauce. Add ice cubes and shake it!
Strain the chilled cocktail into a martini glass. Lastly, grab a lemon peel, give it a little char under a flame, and float it in the drink.
LA NEGRA KIWI MARGARITA™️
Mixology by @famoustaine
This delicious brown sugar kiwi margarita cocktail is inspired by Amara La Negra, a beautiful Afro-Latina artist shining light on, and breaking through the chains of colorism.
Recipe
Ingredients:
2 oz of Tequila
1 ½ of Brown Sugar-Kiwi Base
1 oz of Fresh Lime Juice
¾ oz of Triple Sec
½ oz OJ
Directions:
Make your brown sugar-kiwi base by taking 1 cup of raw brown sugar, 2 to 3 chopped fresh kiwis, a couple dollops of agave, 2 cups of water, and boil everything down to a syrup in a small pot. Take the base off the heat for a cool down. It should be of a thick juice consistency. Feel free to adjust amount of sweeteners and water based on your preferences.
Prep your rocks glass by rimming your glass with sugar.
Grab your shaker. Combine your citrus, juice, spirits, and base in the tin. Add ice cubes and shake it!
Strain the cocktail over ice into a rocks glass. Lastly, garnish with a lime wedge and sugar cane.
GODDESS GLOW CUP™️
Mixology by @famoustaine
This coconut pomegranate daiquiri cocktail is inspired by the favorite fruits of African Orishas like Oya, Oshun, and Ogun. It is packed with all the Goddess goodness, an elixir of the divine feminine.
Recipe
Ingredients:
2 ½ oz Coconut Rum
½ oz Maraschino Liqueur
¼ oz Pomegranate Liqueur
1 oz Fresh Lime Juice
¾ oz Pineapple Juice
Angostura or Orange Bitters
Directions:
Grab your shaker. Combine your citrus, juice, and spirits in the tin. Add ice cubes and shake it! You want to give it a nice shake so that the pineapple juice forms a fluffy head.
Strain the chilled cocktail into a chilled coupe glass. Lastly, drip a couple drops of bitters and then swirl it into the cocktail.
MELANADE PUNCH™️
Mixology by @famoustaine
I saved the best for last, plus you can make large batches for a popping summer party! This punch is addictive, and the unofficial BLM Cocktail!
Recipe
Ingredients:
1 ½ oz Black Spiced Bacardi
1 oz Silver Rum
3 oz Melanade Mix
2 Blackberries
1 Pineapple Chunk
Mint Sprig
Directions:
Make your punch base. Grab a pack of fresh blackberries, black cherries, a bottle of pomegranate juice, dark plum juice, OJ and Pineapple juice.
Make a blackberry and black cherry reduction by adding brown sugar and a dollop of honey to a large saucepan or pot. Combine your juices and let it simmer for 5 mins. Set aside, then pour into plastic containers when cooled. Taste for sweetness.
You can build this cocktail in a punch glass over ice and adding your spirits. Garnish your glass, using a skewer for the blackberries, pineapple and mint sprig.
Show Us Your Mixology Chops! Make sure to repost or tag @xoNecole and @famoustaine with photos of you enjoying your melanin-inspired drinks or creating your own with the pretty gang!
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Fontaine Felisha Foxworth is a writer and creative entrepreneur from Brooklyn New York. She is currently on the West Coast working on creating a TV Pilot called "Finding Fontaine", that details the nomadic journey of her life so far. Keep up with her shenanigans @famoustaine on IG.
'He Said, She Said': Love Stories Put To The Test At A Weekend For Love
At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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Celebrate International Women's Day With Wellness, Empowerment & More
International Women’s Day, celebrated on Saturday, March 8th, presents an excellent opportunity to honor and celebrate women. As March marks Women’s History Month, there are numerous chances throughout the month to pay tribute to the remarkable contributions of women.
Both International Women's Day and Women's History Month serve as reminders of the progress made toward gender equality and the work still left to do.
They inspire ongoing advocacy for women's rights, fostering discussions on issues such as workplace discrimination, healthcare access, and representation in leadership. By celebrating women's contributions and amplifying their voices, these observances help pave the way for a more inclusive and equitable future.
Here are four ways to celebrate International Women's Day and Women's History Month.
Attend a Women History Month Event
This month, there are numerous events happening, particularly for International Women’s Day. One such event is organized by Media Girls Network, which will be held over a multi-day period starting on Thursday. The entire event is dedicated to celebrating women.
On Friday, the organization will honor prominent women in business and entertainment, including the OMG Girlz, celebrity restauranteur Gocha Hawkins, and more.
On Saturday, guests can indulge in a day of wellness and self-care, featuring a fitness class, massages, a journaling workshop, and other activities. For more information about these events, visit www.mediagirlsontour.com.
Support a Woman-Owned Business
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Reports indicate that women constitute 39.1% of business owners, and this percentage is steadily rising. In light of this, let’s celebrate and support women-owned businesses this month.
Here are a few ways to do so: shop at their establishments, leave positive reviews, follow and engage with them on social media, collaborate with them, or contribute to their crowdfunding efforts.
Support Women's Rights Groups
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Since President Trump took office, we’ve witnessed an unprecedented number of rights being reversed, including DEI programs. Women have been particularly concerned about his decision regarding abortion and reproductive rights. Recently, he dismissed the Idaho Emergency Abortion case, which was a legal battle to ensure Idahoans had access to emergency abortion care.
Writing in her Substack blog, Abortion, Everyday, journalist and abortion rights advocate, Jessica Valenti, said, “By dropping this case, the Trump administration is sending a clear message that anti-abortion states don’t have to adhere to [the Emergency Medical Treatment and Labor Act] by giving pregnant patients life-saving care.”
Instead of waiting on Trump's next move regarding women's rights, support women's rights organizations and charities like In Our Own Voice Action Fund and Planned Parenthood.
Empower Others
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Use your voice to raise awareness about the challenges women encounter. This can be achieved through social media platforms or by speaking at local rallies and events. By leading by example, you can inspire others to get involved and contribute to the support.
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