
Megan Thee Stallion Entering Her Big Hair Season Is A Win For Normalizing Black Hair In White Spaces

Gather ‘round all! The one and only Megan THEE Stallion is back, ladies, she’s back! After dealing with a hectic few months, our girl decided to channel the negative energy into a statement new look, just in time for last week’s Vanity Fair’s Oscars Party in Beverly Hills.
The annual event is considered a rite of passage in Hollywood, serving as a key celebration for the who’s who of the industry – actors, directors, casts, crews, managers, agents, artists, and so on, all of which trade one red carpet for another and pull off a wardrobe change before showing out on the dance floor.
This year’s guest list consisted of Donald Glover, Till’s Danielle Deadwyler, Tracee Ellis Ross, Gabrielle Union, Queen Latifah, and so much more.
Draped in a custom Houston couturier Bach Mai gown, Thee Stallion worked the room and cameras, reminding us all that resurfacing happy, healthy, and healed is our favorite outfit for Black women. Additionally, it was confidence that was the period on the sentence for me because not only was she basking in the galaxy of BGM, but she also came with Big Hair Energy.
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It was all in her walk, in her poses, the photos that she posted to IG, and even in the brief red carpet interview where she was asked if she is working on new music, to which she dropped the most Meg response possible.
And listen, Big Hair Energy is never about hair, after all. As Zendaya once said, “It’s never ‘just’ hair.” Black women have an unspoken but known code that comes with wearing our natural hair in predominantly white spaces. Taking this another step by wearing our natural hair as an afro, can be even more of a “Black-girl-glance” moment.
Zendaya
As previously mentioned, Zendaya, who is known for taking risks with her hair, never shies away from her Big Hair Energy. She looked like pure royalty when she stepped straight out of an Afrosheen commercial and headed to the 2017 Instyle Awards with the most perfect hair.
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In a post shared to her Instagram, she credited her 'stunning aunties (who were members of the Black Panther Party) for inspiring her to wear the iconic look, saying, “Last night’s inspo...my stunning aunties and a hint of Angela Davis.” Zendaya has spoken in the past about the importance of representation in pop culture, and she also wore a blown-out style to the 2017 Met Gala.
Viola Davis
In 2012, Viola Davis pulled up to the 84th Academy Awards with her 4B and 4C curl pattern on display, and she has done so frequently on numerous red carpets. Whether in Cannes or Brooklyn, auntie has zero regrets for unapologetically being who she is.
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Lupita Nyong'o
Lupita Nyong'o spared no glances at the 2019 Met Gala, with her 'fro updo with the culture on full display as she wore multiple gold-hued Afro picks. Of the style, her hairstylist, Vernon François, captioned on IG, “Our goal is to continue to demonstrate the power of our hair texture that it is the most moldable and luxurious hair texture there is.” Nyong’o frequently pushes the boundaries of beauty through style and hair, making her a favorite to see before any award show.
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Solange
Solange, who may single-handedly be the face of Big Hair Energy, is frequently in her big hair season, enough for her to popularize the phrase, “Don’t touch my hair” and put it on wax. The 2013 Met Gala was no different, where she showed up to do the tireless work of redefining the standards of unconventional beauty. From her ever-changing hairstyles of long braids to natural curls to bold pixies, Knowles proves she is never afraid to play up her tresses.
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Other celebs such as Jill Scott, Erykah Badu, and others have proudly rocked their large tresses on the red carpet, with hopefully more up-and-coming artists falling in line.
Which celeb would you say have Big Hair Energy?
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Charmin Michelle is a southern native and creative spirit who works as a content marketer and events manager in Chicago. She enjoys traveling, #SummertimeChi, and the journey of mastering womanhood. Connect with her on Instagram @charminmichelle.
'He Said, She Said': Love Stories Put To The Test At A Weekend For Love
At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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Swipe Right For Sisterhood: Reginae Carter Talks Teaming Up With BLK To Make Friendships Front & Center
You know the vibes: dating apps aren’t just for finding romance anymore—at least not for Gen Z! As young people continue to redefine connection, BLK, the leading dating app for Black singles, is shaking things up with the launch of Social Mode. The new feature allows users to toggle between dating and platonic connections. Yep, you read that right—friendship is now just as easy to find as love.
To kick off this game-changing launch, BLK teamed up with TV personality and socialite Reginae Carter for the ultimate Girls’ Night In, proving that sisterhood is just as important as romance. The exclusive event was a celebration of the new feature and the power of Black women coming together to uplift one another.
“Your circle is everything,” Reginae shares with a smile, and she’s not wrong. She’s all about creating spaces where we can come together, let our hair down, and vibe with like-minded women. “We deserve spaces to meet, uplift, and vibe with each other. BLK is making that happen,” she adds.
A New Era for Friendships—Social Mode Is Here!
Gen Z is all about building meaningful connections, whether it’s with a date or a new brunch buddy. That’s why Social Mode is such a big deal. Research shows that 65% of Gen Z values friendships just as much as romantic relationships. With BLK’s new feature, users can easily toggle between “Dating” and “Social,” opening up a world of platonic connections—no swiping right required.
Bahja Rodriguez, Reginae Carter, Breaunna Womack, Lourdes Rodriguez and Zonnique Pullins attend OMG Girlz "Make A Scene" Single Release & Video Viewing Party at Trap City Cafe on March 27, 2025 in Atlanta, Georgia
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Reginae Carter Hosts the Ultimate Girls’ Night In—Powered by BLK Social Mode
What better way to show Social Mode in action than with an exclusive Girls’ Night In, hosted by Reginae? The event brought together top influencers, tastemakers, and press for a night of luxury, self-care, and real talk about love, sex, and relationships. From tarot readings to perfume-making and signature cocktails, the evening embodied the “soft life” vibe that many Black women are embracing in 2025—peaceful, intentional, and full of joy.
Guests mingled, laughed, and bonded over the importance of finding a tribe that supports you. It wasn’t just about fun (although there was plenty of that!)—it was about creating a circle of inspiring, strong women. “We need to stick together. We need to be each other’s village,” Reginae says, emphasizing the power of community over competition.
Sisterhood: The Real MVP
For Reginae, it’s all about friendship—and not just the surface-level kind. “We need friends who keep it real with us. The ones who can tell us when we’re right, when we’re wrong, and when we need to calm down,” she says. As someone who navigates the spotlight, she’s got the best of both worlds: friends who understand the grind and those who can give her an honest, grounded perspective.
Her advice for building strong, intentional friendships? “Be confident in yourself and know your worth,” she explains. “Also, hurt people hurt people, so make sure you’re coming from a good place when you’re building relationships. It’s not always about being nice—sometimes it’s about being real.”
Reginae couldn’t have summed it up better: “When you have the right circle, the right tribe, everything just feels easier. And that’s exactly what BLK is giving us—space to connect, laugh, and grow with each other.”
To learn more about BLK’s Social Mode, download or update the BLK app in the App Store or Google Play Store today. Who knows? You might just find your new bestie or your next brunch crew.
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