Imagine living in a place where you can't conveniently buy fruits, vegetables, and your favorite gluten-free goodies. You don't have easy access to get the ingredients you need for your favorite homemade Greek salad, spaghetti and meatballs, or something as simple as avocado toast. You are limited to buying canned or processed foods from convenience stores or bodegas.
Many in urban areas---especially the poor and minorities---face this reality, living in what are called "food deserts". According to the U.S. Department of Agriculture, 37 million Americans live in such locales, where they are forced to travel more than a mile to buy affordable, healthy food.
For Megan Bell and her neighbors, surviving a food desert is a norm. The founder of non-profit, Virtuous Women Empowerment Inc., saw a need in her western Louisville, Kentucky community that she could not ignore.
"I come from a neighborhood that has had gang and gun violence. A lot of that stuff as a kid I did not pay much attention to, but now that I'm older and more involved in the community---connecting with community leaders, activists, non-profit founders, and local government---I started to see that there was a gap in our community. That's what really motivated me to start the non-profit and then start the grocery store," Bell told xoNecole in an interview.
The 30-year-old wife and mother of three decided to do something to provide a central location where shoppers can get fresh produce and other grocery items, and the Next Door Market Grocery Store was birthed. She has found a location, a vacant building in Louisville's West End, and she plans to open summer 2021.
"Food is coming from [retail], liquor, or corner stores or gas stations. It's very important that communities have natural, healthier food stores in a community. When we have chronic diseases, high blood pressure and diabetes, it's important to transition how we eat and get the food sources needed to eat healthy."
The statistics reflect that Bell is on to something. A recent Urban League report indicated that 35% of blacks in the Louisville Metro are living at or below the poverty line, while only 15 percent of whites face the same reality. Life expectancy in western Louisville, known as predominantly black, is about 67 years old, compared with 82 years old for those who live in the eastern communities. Alcohol and drug-related deaths are "eight times higher, diabetes six times higher, and stroke three times higher" in the West End compared with the East End.
Through the Next Door Market Grocery Store, Bell also wants to take things a step further by educating community members on using healthy ingredients, storing produce, and cooking. "People respect what you're trying to do in the community when they feel like they're part of something and there's something you give to them," Bell said. "They appreciate it. We have to have food education... giving them a little more encouragement and showing them how is more important than just putting produce in a store."
Megan Bell stands at the site of the Next Door Market Grocery Store.Photo by Laqudia Smith
Trained as a certified nursing assistant, Bell has always had a passion for helping people. And the need and will to educate and innovate through non-profits and entrepreneurship is something Bell got from her family. "My aunt has her own school, and many of the women in my family have non-profits, too. I believe in empowering women and sisterhood is my number 1 thing."
Through her own organization, she helps women by providing services and hosting events that promote self-accountability, self-esteem, career growth, goal-setting, and healthy lifestyles. She has also volunteered at women's shelters, helping to connect families with resources to combat homelessness. Through this work, she has seen the impact that having easy access to food and produce would have on families, especially women and children. By launching the grocery store, she wants to be an example of service and empowerment even for her own children.
"I want to leave a legacy for my kids to know that even if they don't take the route of having their own business, that they can do something to give back. I want that to be ingrained in them. Maybe they will venture off and do something even bigger and give their generation the ambition to do something great as well."
For more of Megan and her mission, follow her on Instagram.
Featured image courtesy of Megan Bell
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“She's not the average flower you see presented, and so she reminds me of myself. I'm a sunflower, beautiful, but different. And what I loved about her character then, and even more so now, is that she was very sure of herself.
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America first fell in love with Eva when she graced our screens on cycle 3 of America’s Next Top Model in 2004, which she emerged as the winner. Since then, she's ventured into different avenues, from acting on various TV series like House of Payne to starring on Real Housewives of Atlanta.
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“I want them to walk out with hope. I want them to re-vision their dreams. Whatever they were. Whatever they are. To re-see them and then have that thing inside of them say, ‘You know what? I'm going to do that. Whatever dream you put on the back burner, go pick it up.
"Whatever dream you've accomplished, make a new dream, but continue to reach for the stars. Continue to reach for what is beyond what people say we can do, especially as [a] Black collective but especially as Black women. When it comes to us and who we are and what we accept and what we're worth, it's not about having seen it before. It's about knowing that I deserve it.”
This interview has been edited for length and clarity.
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Eldest Daughter Syndrome had its viral moment online last year, and for good reason. The term gave language to the silent pressures so many eldest daughters tend to carry as a result of their birth order. Beyond that very needed conversation, birth order as a whole can offer insight into not only our traits and tendencies, but also how we show up in life, love, and even our work.
Below, we’re breaking down the traits most commonly associated with each birth order. Keep reading to learn what your birth order might say about you.
If you are the oldest...
Let's be real, being the firstborn often comes with a lot of responsibility. And it's usually not by choice. From early on, they’re the ones who set the tone, carry the weight, and take on the title of "the responsible one." Because of that, they often grow into reliable, high-achieving adults. But the pressure of being "the blueprint" and the one to "lead by example" can also be a heavy burden to bear.
Oldest child traits may look like:
- Natural leaders that take charge even when they didn’t mean to (read: she's bossy, but keeping it cute)
- High standards (for yourself and everyone else)
- Motivated, goal-oriented, and always chasing that next accomplishment
- Reliable and conscientious
- Perfectionist tendencies that can lead to burnout
- Struggles with being controlling or micromanaging
- Often cautious, craving stability over spontaneity
- Finds it hard to rest or ask for help
If you are the middle child...
Season 2 Netflix GIF by Gilmore Girls GiphyIn the grand scheme of the birth order lineup, the middle child can be the quiet MVPs. As the child who falls in the order "in-between," they’re used to being the one who keeps the peace while also fighting to stand out. But being the “in-between” can also mean feeling overlooked or forgotten. In some families, especially ones with toxic dynamics, the middle child may even take on the role of the "black sheep," while their siblings are seen as the golden children. Still, despite (or maybe because of) that, middle children tend to thrive socially and can read a room like the back of their hand.
Middle child traits may include:
- Top-tier peacemakers who can smooth over almost any situation
- Adaptable and easygoing (even when they’re lowkey screaming inside)
- Often feel overlooked or like they have to do the most to be seen
- People-pleasers who put everyone else first
- Social butterflies and community-minded, with strong friendships outside the family
- Can be rebellious when they feel boxed in
- Thrive when they’re allowed to define success on their own terms
- The ultimate go-between, translating vibes between generations, personalities, and moods
If you are the youngest...
Season 1 Ff GIF by FreeformGiphyThe baby of the family walks through life knowing how to charm, persuade, and perform. They often grow up with more freedom and fewer expectations, which fuels their adventurous and carefree side. But that same freedom can sometimes lead to entitlement, or a tendency to seek validation by being the "fun one."
Youngest child traits might include:
- Social butterflies who light up a room and don’t mind the spotlight
- Natural charmers, funny, flirtatious, and usually down for anything
- Can be a little self-centered or attention-seeking (but you still love them for it)
- Tend to keep things uncomplicated… unless they’re not getting their way
- Known to be manipulative when trying to get what they want
- Free-spirited and bold in their choices
- Often underestimated, but capable of big things when they focus
- Thrive in spaces that let them express, explore, and be a little extra
If you are the only child...
High School Drama GIF by HBO MaxGiphyOnly children can be the ultimate "one woman show" as they are often a mix of all the birth orders rolled into one. Without siblings, they learn to entertain themselves, advocate for their needs, and navigate adult conversations early. That independence can make them magnetic, mature, and deeply introspective, but it also comes with a deep craving for validation and control.
Only child traits can include:
- Mature and wise beyond their years, often viewed as old souls
- Conscientious and responsible, usually the go-to person in their circle
- Seek approval and validation more than they let on
- Natural leaders with big ideas and even bigger plans
- Can be sensitive and deeply affected by criticism
- Prefer structure, routines, and control (sometimes to a fault)
- Like things done their way (and don’t love compromising)
- Thrive in solitude but still want to feel seen and celebrated
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