Cancer and Leo are the Moon and the Sun of Astrology. They are two different beings, needing and experiencing life within opposite lenses, but there is something to say about how they come together. The Cancer woman is a water sign to her core and lives within the depths of her emotions. The Leo man is the confident fire sign and lives within the flames of his pride. They both have heart but they need different sustenance to fill it.
Leo Man Cancer Woman Love Compatibility
If they can see the gifts of this type of opposition and balance the ebb and flow of their different needs at play, they can discover a relationship of support and purpose.
What attracts a Leo man to a Cancer woman?
The Cancer woman and Leo man are attracted to each other’s personalities right away. They find each other different from who they are or what they are used to but are also drawn by the sense of confidence and self-assurance they both exude. The Cancer woman is expressive with her emotions, and the Leo man adores a woman who doesn’t hold back.
He finds her demeanor hilarious, and her emotions aren’t too much to someone even more emotionally self-expressive than she is. The Cancer woman is attracted to the sense of regalness the Leo man gives off and she sees him as someone who would be a good person to be in a partnership with.
Meeting each other may be a different story, however, as they typically run in different crowds and would be out doing different things. The Leo man prefers social events, the Cancer woman prefers to be a homebody. The way these two are most likely to meet each other is either through mutual friends, online, or a chance encounter. The Cancer woman’s sweet demeanor is instantly intriguing to the Leo man, and he is typically the first one to make a move here.
What is the relationship like between a Cancer woman and a Leo man?
The relationship between the Cancer woman and Leo man is loving, supportive, and fulfilling, but it can also be very hot and cold for these individuals. This is a relationship of extremes, and things are usually either going really well or really not. When they are at their best, this is a relationship that has a good balance of spending one-on-one quality time together, and really building a life and a family or support system together. While also having a relationship where they go out, go on dates, have fun, and maintain their social contacts as well. They both will often want to do different things but will find a compromise and be able to have the best of both worlds if they are working together well.
On the other hand, this relationship can feel like a roller coaster because they are both more highly reactive and emotionally impulsive than most. The Cancer woman is sensitive to her emotions and shelters her heart in a safe place. She trusts the Leo man because he seems to always present himself as he is, but later finds out there is more to the surface of him than all fun and sunshine. The Cancer woman doesn’t mind emotional depth, but one mixed with pride leaves a bad taste in her mouth.
The Leo man loves the nurturing nature of the Cancer woman but can also start to feel a little stuffy if he is at home for too long. A fire can only burn for so long in water, and compatibility in this relationship takes work.
What is the sex like between a Leo man and a Cancer woman?
The sex life between the Cancer woman and Leo man is either there or it’s not. Sometimes, this can turn out to be one of the most sexually compatible and magical partnerships, but other times it can be hard to get on the same page in bed. They will need to be expressive and communicative on what they want and need rather than just basing everything solely on emotions and assumptions here. They will have a good balance between being submissive or dominant, however, and have fun here.
The biggest issue that will arise with the sex life of the Cancer woman and Leo man is timing. They aren’t typically on the same emotional time frame and will want to do and be intimate at different times.
Typically, the Leo man is a morning person, and the Cancer woman prefers night. How well the communication is in the relationship will be a big determining factor on how well the sex life is with these two. There is a lot of potential here, but it is important for these two to get to know each other first.
What makes a relationship between a Cancer woman and a Leo man work?
This relationship works because they both serve a purpose in the relationship. Their natural gifts and skills within partnership and love complement each other well, and there is a good give and take in the relationship. The Cancer woman is the nurturer, the giver, and the dreamer. The Leo man is the fire, the power, and the charisma. They are like the missing pieces to each other’s puzzle and take off where each other leaves off. They both bring something different to the table so there is no stepping on each other's toes here.
The Sun and the Moon are in perfect sync for a reason, and this is representative of the relationship these two can have.
Another thing that makes a relationship between a Cancer woman and Leo man work so well, is that they are both very protective of the people they love. They are probably the most protective out of the zodiac signs, and this energy is very much put into their relationship. Once these two form a commitment to each other it’s something they will both fight for and will not easily give up on. Cancer naturally provides a sense of security in the relationship and Leo provides a sense of joy and lightness. They work so well because they both have a purpose that fulfills the whole of the relationship together.
What may cause a Leo man and a Cancer woman to break up?
As good as this relationship can be and for the evolved Cancer and Leo, will be, this relationship can also be a rollercoaster. There is so much emotional activity within the lives of the Cancer woman and Leo man, that things can get unnecessarily hectic here. The Cancer woman may begin to realize in the relationship that some of her needs that aren’t so straightforward aren’t being met. She needs an emotional connection and receptivity that the Leo man may be too much in his ego or pride to give.
Whereas the Leo man may want to experience life with a little more independence, something that makes the Cancer woman question why isn’t what they are building together enough. They both see love and relationships differently, and neither of them is wrong at the end of the day.
This relationship is an example of opposites attracting, but we all know that doesn’t always play out the way we want it to. They can become quite controlling and possessive of one another, and the relationship can turn toxic if they are not checking themselves and each other before reacting. This relationship longevity will depend on the individuals at hand, and how willing they are to meet in the middle and let go a little.
Summary: Is a Cancer woman and Leo man compatible?
This relationship is one of loyalty, passion, support, and a little chaos. They will either end up at the altar or choose to remain friends, and there is no in-between here. The potential of this relationship is one where there are a lot of laughs, quality time, and emotional security. They can live a life of fulfillment due to being so different in what they bring to the table.
The downfall of this relationship will be impulse and egos, and they may push each other’s buttons without even trying. But, what would the Moon do without the Sun and vice versa? If science proves anything, it’s that these two were meant to be in each other’s orbit.
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Tayler Barakat is a Mystic who has studied Astrology for over a decade. She does intuitive astrology and tarot readings for people all over the world, and her work focuses on healing and empowering individuals. Follow her on Instagram @taylerbarakat_ and check out her website www.listentothevirgo.com.
For Us, By Us: How HBCU Alumni Are Building Legacies Through Entrepreneurship
Homecoming season is here, and alumni are returning to the yard to celebrate with their friends and family at the historically Black colleges and universities (HBCUs) that have changed their lives forever.
No matter where their life journeys have taken them, for HBCU students from near and far, returning to where it all started can invoke feelings of nostalgia, appreciation for the past, and inspiration for the future.
The seeds for these entrepreneurs were planted during their time as students at schools like Spelman, North Carolina A&T, and more, which is why xoNecole caught up with Look Good Live Well’s Ariane Turner, HBCU Buzz’s Luke Lawal and Morehouse Senior Director of Marketing and Comms and Press Secretary Jasmine Gurley to highlight the role their HBCU roots play in their work as entrepreneurs, the legacy they aim to leave behind through the work that they do, and more as a part of Hyundai’s Best In Class initiative.
On Honoring HBCU Roots To Create Something That Is For Us, By Us
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When Ariane Turner launched Look Good, Live Well, she created it with Black and brown people in mind, especially those with sensitive skin more prone to dryness and skin conditions like acne and eczema.
The Florida A&M University graduate launched her business to create something that addressed topical skin care needs and was intentional about its approach without negative terminology.
Turner shared that it is important to steer clear of language often adopted by more prominent brands, such as “banishing breakouts” or “correcting the skin,” because, in reality, Turner says there is nothing wrong with the way that our skin and bodies react to various life changes.
“I think what I have taken with me regarding my HBCU experience and translated to my entrepreneurial experience is the importance of not just networking,” Turner, the founder and CEO of Look Good, Live Well, tellls xoNecole.
“We hear that in business all the time, your network is your net worth, but family, there’s a thing at FAMU that we call FAMU-lee instead of family, and it’s very much a thing. What that taught me is the importance of not just making relationships and not just making that connection, but truly working on deepening them, and so being intentional about connecting with people initially, but staying connected and building and deepening those relationships, and that has served me tremendously in business, whether it’s being able to reach back to other classmates who I went to school with, or just networking in general.”
She adds, “I don’t come from a business background. As soon as I finished school, I continued with my entrepreneurial journey, and so there’s a lot of that traditional business act and the networking, those soft skills that I just don’t have, but I will say that just understanding how to leverage and network community and to build intentional relationships is something that has taken me far and I definitely got those roots while attending FAMU.”
On Solving A Very Specific Need For The Community
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When Luke Lawal Jr. launched HBCU Buzz, his main focus was to represent his community, using the platform to lift as they climbed by creating an outlet dedicated to celebrating the achievements and positive news affecting the 107 historically HBCUs nationwide.
By spotlighting the wonderful things that come from the HBCU community and coupling it with what he learned during his time at Bowie State University, Lawal used that knowledge to propel himself as an entrepreneur while also providing his people with accurate representation across the internet.
“The specific problem in 2011 when I started HBCU Buzz was more so around the fact that mainstream media always depict HBCUs as negative,” Lawal says. “You would only see HBCUs in the mainstream media when someone died, or the university president or someone was stepping down. It was always bad news, but they never shed light on all the wonderful things from our community."
So, I started HBCU Buzz to ensure the world saw the good things that come from our space. And they knew that HBCUs grew some of the brightest people in the world, and just trying to figure out ways to make sure our platform was a pedestal for all the students that come through our institutions.”
“The biggest goal is to continue to solve problems, continue to create brands that solve the problems of our communities, and make sure that our products, our brands, our companies, and institutions are of value and they’re helping our community,” he continues. “That they’re solving problems that propel our space forward.”
On How Being An HBCU Alum Impacts The Way One Shows Up In The World
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Jasmine Gurley is a proud North Carolina Agricultural and Technical State University alum. She is even more delighted with her current role, which enables her to give back to current HBCU students as the Senior Director of Brand Marketing and Communications and official press secretary at Morehouse College.
“It was a formative experience where I really was able to come into my own and say yes to all the opportunities that were presented to me, and because of that, it’s been able to open the doors later in life too,” says Gurley of her experience at North Carolina A&T. “One thing I love about many HBCUs is that we are required to learn way more about African American history than you do in your typical K through 12 or even at the higher ed level."
She adds, “It allowed us to have a better understanding of where we came from, and so for me, because I’m a storyteller, I’m a history person, I’m very sensitive to life in general, being able to listen to the stories and the trials that our ancestors overcame, put the battery pack in my back to say, ‘Oh nothing can stop me. Absolutely nothing can stop me. I know where I came from, so I can overcome something and try anything. And I have an obligation to be my ancestors’ wildest dreams. Simultaneously, I also have a responsibility to help others realize that greatness.
Gurley does not take her position at an HBCU, now as a leader, lightly.
“People think I’m joking when I say I’m living the dream, but I really am,” she notes. “So I wake up every day and know that the work that I do matters, no matter how hard it might be, how frustrating it may be, and challenging it. I know the ripple effect of my work, my team, and what this institution does also matter. The trajectory of Black male experiences, community, history, and then just American advancement just in general.”
On the other hand, through her business, Sankofa Public Relations, Gurley is also on a mission to uplift brands in their quest to help their respective communities. Since its inception in 2017, Sankofa PR has been on a mission to “reach back and reclaim local, national, and global communities by helping those actively working to move” various areas of the world, focusing on pushing things forward for the better.
“Through Sankofa, we’ve worked with all different types of organizational brands and individuals in several different industries, but I would think of them as mission-based,” says Gurley.
“So with that, it’s an opportunity to help people who are trying to do good in the world, and they are passionate about what they’re doing. They just need help with marketing issues, storytelling, and branding, and that’s when my expertise can come into play. Help them get to that moment where they can tell their story through me or another platform, and that’s been super fulfilling.”
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The End Of The Road? Zoë Kravitz And Channing Tatum Reportedly Split
Rumors are circulating that Zoë Kravitz and Channing Tatum's engagement has come to an end. Adding to the intrigue, two hours prior to the news of their split becoming public, Channing celebrated the exciting announcement that he and Zoë would reunite for an upcoming alien invasion movie entitled Alpha Gang.
Some folks are saying that October is now “uncuffing season” as partners won’t have to deal with the weight and expectations that come with this time of year. From matching Halloween costumes to voting to Thanksgiving and Christmas, it seems the new cuffing season has moved to January.
In August 2021, Zoë and Channing were first rumored to be romantically involved after being photographed riding together through the streets of New York City on a BMX bike. The following month, they were seen leaving the Met Gala together, and Tatum confirmed their relationship on Halloween by posting a picture of them wearing a couples costume from Martin Scorsese's iconic 1976 film Taxi Driver on Instagram.
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After collaborating on Zoë's directorial debut, Blink Twice, where Channing played a starring role, their relationship blossomed into a full-out romance. Approximately a year later, the Step Up star popped the question.
Because the streets are always watching, PEOPLE reported that Channing joined Zoë in seeing a production of a play by Blink Twice costar Levon Hawke in New York City's Red Hook neighborhood on Oct. 6. Most recently, Kravitz has been seen in public without her engagement ring, notably during an outing with her Big Little Lies co-star Shailene Woodley.
So the news of the split kinda comes as a surprise as we were just oozing over the couple’s undeniable chemistry during their Blink Twice press run in August. Channing and Zoë openly discussed their relationship and collaborated on multiple videos that went viral.
Even proud papa Lenny Kravitz gave his approval. During an interview with BBC’s Radio 2, he said, "He was raised well. So, you know, he’s got manners. He’s charming. He’s a soulful human being. And so, he’s become part of the family quite quickly. He fits and they're in love. We’re going to have a wedding next year."
As we mourn this breakup, let’s run back some memorable moments from the possibly uncoupled pair.
"Art is our love language."
When asked about future collaborations with her boo during the premiere of Blink Twice on Aug. 23, Zoë shared, "I think it's what we love, and we love talking about it, and experiencing it, and supporting each other.” Channing chimed in saying, “This is what I'll say about creating with someone that you are with or love: I suggest it. If you are thinking about having a kid or if you're thinking about getting married, go find the hardest possible creative project with your partner.”
“I got you forever.”
Channing took to Instagram to share an adoring photo of him holding Zoë. He captioned the photo, “This little sweet. She So tired bro. Every time I wondered if she’d break…. She just kept going and going and going. Always on the dig for truth. She pour’d every single ounce of her into this film. I’m so proud to stand ten toes down for her, this film and everyone in it. forever. Knowing what it took to make it. No one will ever know.”
The last line took us out: “Thank you for finding me and seeing me. I got you forever. Me and you back to back against it all. I’ll never blink. Let’s go. #blinktwice”
GOAT Talk
On Complex’s GOAT Talk, a show where stars are prompted to reveal their favorites of all time, Channing and Zoë disclosed their go-to song for singing in the shower, their beloved ad-lib line from Blink Twice, and their stance on conspiracy theories and their favorite rapper. The moment Channing challenged Zoë’s answer that Catwoman is the best superhero of all time was just too cute.
“The Lie Detector determined…”
The cast of Blink Twice underwent Vanity Fair's well-known lie detector test, facing a barrage of probing questions. Among the inquiries were: Did Channing Tatum and Naomi Watts ever irritate Zoë Kravitz during the filming of Blink Twice? Did Naomi ever pilfer anything from the set? Did Channing's portrayal of Gambit in Deadpool & Wolverine surpass his personal expectations?
Best of all were the moments you saw Zoë and Channing look at each other adoringly and when they would finish each other sentences. “We are equally cool,” Zoë beamed.
Puppy Love
The pair hung out with BuzzFeed and a slew of adorable puppies while chatting about their favorite improvised moment on set, who has the best rizz — which is apparently Channing according to Zoë — and their first impressions of each other. Not only did they binge-watch Love Island together but they also boasted they would win Love Is Blind if they were on the show.
The Pressure
Zoë Kravitz recently sat down with Esquirefor an interview and got real about her thoughts on becoming a parent. She shared that she's always kinda thought motherhood might not be her thing. “For a long time, I felt like there was something wrong with me. I was waiting for this light to go off in my head, and it never did. When you’re younger, you’re like, ‘Well, I can’t have kids. I’m too young! It’d be crazy.’”
Her viewpoint on childbirth and parenthood has evolved as she has matured and witnessed the societal pressure placed on women to reproduce. While she recognizes the immense strength and courage required to carry and raise a child, Kravitz believes that women should not be made to feel obligated to do so.
Zoë continued, “For a lot of people that have children, it is this giant, life-changing event – and I do think there is a certain amount of focus and respect that they should get from their community. There’s a lot of pressure on women to have children, and there’s a feeling that if you don’t, you don’t have purpose here.” The director feels a special connection to her new movie akin to giving birth.
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