America is filled with historical holidays to celebrate everything from the serious and ceremonial to the silly and sentimental. As black people, many of those holidays are painful, bittersweet reminders of our history in this country, but there is one holiday for us that doesn't get nearly the recognition it deserves: Juneteenth.
If you don't exactly know what Juneteenth is (don't feel bad, many others don't know either), here is a quick little lesson on why it's so important and should permanently occupy a place on your holiday calendar.
Juneteenth (June 19) is the commemoration of the abolishment announcement of slavery in Texas and the emancipation of African-American slaves throughout the southern parts of the U.S. Currently, it is a recognized holiday in 45 of the 50 states. Furthermore, Juneteenth is also a celebration of the rich history and culture of African-Americans.
Now that you know what it is, the next thing to do is find out ways you can celebrate this year's Juneteenth in style. Check out our suggestions for fun and memorable ways to celebrate the black experience that is Juneteenth. For more information and celebration ideas, visit Juneteenth.com.
Organize A Block Party
Invite neighborhood residents to attend a block party that not only celebrates Juneteenth, but also encourages community involvement and activism. In addition to having food and entertainment, also feel free to invite local elected officials, community leaders, and guest speakers to attend.
Volunteer In Your Community
Giving back to your community through volunteer service is perhaps the best way to celebrate our ancestors and commemorate Juneteenth. There are endless ways to volunteer, including leading a neighborhood clean-up, raising money for schools in the community, or organizing a donation drive to underprivileged families.
Attend Holiday Celebrations
A quick Google search should provide you with a list of Juneteenth celebrations in your area. This is a great way to get into the holiday if it's your first time and also allows you to make friends in your community. There are parties, performances, exhibits, and more to choose from, so feel free to attend as many as you like.
Educate Others
Spreading the knowledge about a crucial part in our history as African-Americans is one of the best and easiest ways to celebrate Juneteenth. Whether you're educating the youth about Juneteenth's importance or choose to involve everyone, as long as you get the word out, that's all that matters.
Host A Themed Dinner Party
Everyone loves a good dinner party, especially one that surrounds a theme. For your Juneteenth-inspired dinner party, you could serve up a traditional soul food meal and after dinner, go around the table and ask your guests to explain what Juneteenth means to them.
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The pair often says they’re two sides of the same coin. Skylar is an Aquarius. She attended art school, paints, and loves poetry. She’s more than happy to let the couple’s management firm and agency, Kensington Grey, handle their admin work. And, she loves to sleep in. Temi, on the other hand, wakes up early. He’s a Virgo. He loves a to-do list and regularly checks in on the couple’s brand partnerships spreadsheet to make sure everything is on track.
Because his storytelling was steeped in his love of technology, he didn’t always think of himself as a creative person. “Where I [am] the dreamer who wants to pluck things out of the sky and spend all day with my head in the clouds, Temi [is] so good at grounding me and helping me figure out how to make things make sense on paper. We just work together in such a complimentary way,” Skylar says.
It’s been more than six years since Brooklyn-based couple Temi and Skylar started dating, and nearly four since they cemented their working relationship. On TikTok and Instagram, the couple’s travel, fashion, and home content regularly rack up hundreds of thousands of views. They’ve worked with brands such as Coach, Aesop, Away, and Liquid IV, bringing their vibrant perspectives to every campaign they execute. Still, nearly two years since both Temi and Skylar committed to full-time content creation and creative directing, the couple says their romantic connection remains their priority.
“We told each other we would much rather go back to full-time jobs and preserve our relationship than to be full-time freelancers, barely getting a night's rest [and] barely kissing each other because we're so busy shooting,” Skylar says.
Working from home can make it hard to separate work from personal life for any entrepreneur. It can be even more challenging when your business partner is also your lover. Temi and Skylar had already used couples therapy as a tool to help them effectively communicate with one another. When they ran into challenges while working together, their therapist helped them set physical boundaries to help combat the issues.
"We told each other we would much rather go back to full-time jobs and preserve our relationship than to be full-time freelancers, barely getting a night's rest [and] barely kissing each other because we're so busy shooting."
“It actually took us doing very specific physical things to create boundaries between work and play in our relationship,” Skylar says. “So, for instance, we will only have conversations about work when we're out of bed or we're at the table or in the office. Initially, when we started, we had to light a candle to say that, 'Okay, this is a space where we're connecting, we’re not talking about work.' We needed really hard boundaries at the top. And then it became a little bit more organic.”
The boundaries have been crucial to implement, especially because the couple began working together so naturally. When the pair first met, Skylar was NY-based a social strategist for BuzzFeed and was using content creation to drive business to her lingerie company. She was shooting her own content. Temi was working for Microsoft in D.C. He’d recently traded in his DJing equipment for a camera. “I've always loved taking pictures,” he says. “Even when I was a kid, my African mother would wake me up at 3:00 a.m. [during a] party, and be like, 'Come take the family picture.'”
Growing up, Temi says he watched his parents support each other and be the true definition of partners. He knew he wanted the same for his own relationship. But, the couple also wanted to make sure they were being financially responsible. The pair didn’t quit their traditional jobs until they’d saved up two years' worth of their cost of living. And, Temi received his Master of Business Administration from New York University with the knowledge that it could either help him advance in his corporate career or be applicable to his business with Skylar.
Temi and SkylarCj Hart @hartbreakToday, they say their working relationship is more of a “quiet dance.” They still implement some of the boundaries they learned in therapy, but they also lean into their natural strengths and deep love for one another. When we speak, Temi has planned a date for the couple to see Princess Mononoke in 4K IMAX and added it to their Notion so they can factor it into their busy schedules. “I fully plan to date for the rest of my life,” he says.
Skylar says the couple doesn’t just wait for date nights to check in with one another, though. This often happens in the mornings, after Temi has made her peppermint tea and poured himself a cup of coffee. When they ask each other how they slept, she says, it’s not just a “nicety.” It’s a genuine question meant to foster connection.
“A lot of it happens during the day in the midst of work. We'll stop and we'll hug. Or we’ll slow dance in the kitchen,” she says. “Sometimes it's hard to set a whole date night when you have 7,000 things going on. So, we must grasp these moments and check in when we can. And I think it's become so organic to us that I actually didn't even realize how often we do it. But all day long, we're like, 'Are you good? I felt like your energy shifted,' because we're best friends, we just know. We just feel it happen.”
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Featured image by Cj Hart @hartbreak
