

So, while I was prepping to pen this article, I decided to do some surfing around on Al Gore's internet to see how different people define the phrase "comfort food". Some said that it's a food that brings back childhood memories. Some said that it's a food that is automatically high in carbs and sugar. Others said that it's a food that makes you feel good when you're feeling low. Interestingly enough, to me, comfort food is something that sticks to my bones, makes me feel warm and cozy inside and tastes absolutely divine.
For whatever the reason, to me, fall is the perfect season for comfort food. The chill in the air, the overcast, the feel-good Hallmark movies—all of these things just beckon for a home-cooked meal that, well, comforts. And so, in honor of the autumn season's arrival, I decided to offer up 10 dishes that aren't your average run-of-the-meal comfort foods but are ones that taste really good and, as a bonus, have a substantial amount of nutritional value to them too.
(By the way, the recipe for each one is featured underneath each description. Enjoy!)
1. Butternut Squash Macaroni and Cheese
I decided to start this off with a butternut squash dish because, although you can get your hands on this veggie all of the time, it's actually the most delicious between early fall until the winter season is over. Butternut squash is really good for you because it's a good source of protein and fiber, as well as vitamins A and C. It's also got a good amount of various forms of Vitamin B and Vitamin E, potassium, magnesium and manganese. Since butternut squash contains so many antioxidants, it's great at helping to prevent heart disease and the development of cancer cells. Plus, since it's a carotenoid-rich, butternut squash can help with your cognitive health and well-being too.
As far as this particular recipe, while I know that a lot of us roll our eyes whenever "folks" go left on traditional mac 'n cheese recipes, I can personally attest to the fact that adding some butternut squash can make the texture of this particular comfort food meal really smooth. Give it a shot. It just might surprise you.
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2. Sweet Potato Chili
Is it just me or does there seem to be a never-ending fall-related debate about whether sweet potato or pumpkin pie is the most delicious? Personally, I like both. When it comes to sweet potatoes specifically, they are considered to be a superfood and they should be! Sweet potatoes are also a good source of protein and fiber, along with vitamins A and C, manganese, potassium, copper and niacin. Beyond that, sweet potatoes have cancer-fighting properties in them, they help to keep your vision clear, they support you having a strong immune system and, since they're considered to be low to high on the glycemic index scale, sweet potatoes can help to keep your blood sugar levels in check too.
Aside from the fact that a heaping bowl of chili is a wonderful way to warm up on a really chilly day, if you're a vegan, sweet potato chili is not only great-tasting, but the combination of the three different beans (which are also loaded with protein) and sweet potatoes in this particular recipe will provide you a ton of nutrients. It's a chili delight that is sweet, spicy (thanks to the garlic, chili flakes and herbs) and delicious—all at once.
(Recipe)3. Skillet Pot Roast (with Cherries)
I'm not a vegetarian or vegan. I'm totally fine with that. So, if there's one thing that brings me joy, it's a tender slice of pot roast. Whew-whee! Beef is definitely high in protein. Beef also contains the amino acid L-carnitine which reduces oxidative stress and bodily inflammation, and regulates blood sugar levels. Beef is the kind of meat that is also rich in zinc, selenium, phosphorus, potassium, magnesium and iron. The iron in beef is what makes it a food that is beneficial for people who are anemic (or borderline anemic). It's also got carnosine (another amino acid) in it that aids in slowing down the aging process. If you go with this specific pot roast recipe, it includes cherries. They contain properties that help to maintain your body's pH balance, lower hypertension, help to prevent cardiovascular disease, slow down the aging process and, thanks to the melatonin that are in them, cherries make sleeping so much easier too.
By the way, if you'd like a little help in choosing the best kind of beef to get the kind of pot roast that you're craving, check out Kitchn's article, "The Best Cuts of Beef for Pot Roast".
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4. Eggplant Roll-Ups
Did you know that the best time to get a couple of eggplants is between July and October? If you're a vegan or vegetarian, it's another veggie that can get you a pretty good amount of protein and fiber into your system. Eggplant also has manganese and antioxidants in it which makes it the kind of food that contains cancer-fighting properties and aids in controlling your blood sugar while also promoting bone health and aiding with digestion.
Eggplant roll-ups are dope because, if you want to make a pasta-like dish but you'd prefer to avoid the noodles, eggplant (and zucchini for that matter), creates a texture that is extremely similar to noodles. You can cultivate a good alternative without all of the carb drama. Pretty cool, huh?
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5. Smoky Tortilla Soup
Even if soup never crosses your mind any other time of the year, I bet having a cup or bowl of it during the fall season, is something that you do, at least once, on an annual basis. Have you ever wondered what the health benefits of soup are? Soup is filled with nutrients so that your immune system is able to remain in great shape during cold and flu season. Plus, soup can help to keep you well-hydrated during a time of the year when the heat in your house can pull moisture out of the air, which can increase your chances of becoming dehydrated.
This particular soup recipe is really good for you because the tomatoes in it have the antioxidant lycopene in it which fights heart disease and helps to prevent cancer. This soup's vegetable stock is basically like drinking a big ole' multivitamin. Plus, you'll be hard-pressed to find a better all-natural way to fight off potential infections than to eat garlic; this recipe has a good amount of garlic in it as well.
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6. Mushroom Crepes
Another tasty meat alternative is mushrooms. Think about it—whenever you consume some (that have been cooked), don't they taste, well, meaty? When it comes to their health benefits, mushrooms contain antioxidants that fight off free radicals, B vitamins to support your nervous system, copper to build up your blood cells, fiber to keep you regular and potassium to keep your blood pressure in check.
This particular crepe recipe? It's also got spaghetti squash and sage in it. The antioxidants in the squash, along with the Vitamin K in the sage makes this the kind of meal that you truly can feel good about, with every single bite.
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7. Turkey Sausage and Kale Orecchiette
If there's a signature meat for the fall season, it would definitely have to be turkey—you know, due to the Thanksgiving holiday 'n all. Turkey is great on a few levels. It's definitely an awesome source of protein. Turkey also contains Vitamin B, selenium, phosphorus and zinc. The zinc (and tryptophan) in it can help to relax you while turkey's protein can help your body to build and repair tissues. As far as kale goes, it's got off-the-chart levels of antioxidants and vitamins C and K. Kale also has copper, calcium and manganese in it. Eating kale will help to lower your cholesterol levels, put beta-carotene (which is great for your skin and hair) into your system and, it supports bone health and can help to keep you from getting type 2 diabetes as well.
If the combination of turkey sausage and kale sounds awesome but you're wondering what the heck orecchiette is, it's simply a particular shape of pasta. In Italian, orecchiette translates to mean "little ears". Anyway, this is the kind of dish where you can make it appear that you did a ton of work, when it probably will only take you 30 minutes, max, to prepare it. If you want to impress someone, this dish can do it.
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8. West African Peanut Soup
A soup that is actually pretty popular in America is West African soup. If you've never had it before, probably the best way to describe is, it's like eating tomato soup with some peanut butter in it (it might sound weird but it's actually pretty good). Oftentimes, it's served on top of rice. Other health benefits of tomatoes are they've got vitamins A, C and K. They also contain cancer-fighting properties to keep their heart strong. Peanut butter is really good for you thanks to all of the protein, Vitamin E and magnesium that it's got. If you add to that the other ingredients in this soup like collards, ginger, rosemary and thyme—let me just say that if you've never tried West African peanut soup before, don't let the fall get outta here before you do.
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9. Apple Fritters with Spiced Chai Sugar
You'd be hard-pressed to go to your local grocery store and not be able to find apples in the produce section. But did you know that apples are the most delicious between July and November? That's why, I thought I should give a shout-out to an apple treat. Apple fritters are basically a donut that's got apples and cinnamon in it, but the amount of sugar that you choose to put into yours basically determines how "healthy" they are—or aren't.
Anyway, apples are good for you for a myriad of reasons. They're a low-calorie fruit that's got fiber, vitamins C and K and potassium in them. Apples can lower your risk for getting diabetes, promote gut health, help to fight the growth of cancer cells, help to prevent asthma and, they are great at promoting bone density and strength. The particular fritters recipe that I've included also has cinnamon (it contains antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties), ginger (its antibacterial compounds help to soothe sore muscles and ease arthritis-related symptoms), cardamom (it contains antioxidant, diuretic, anti-inflammatory and antibacterial properties) and cloves (which helps to ease digestion while speeding up your metabolism). All of this is good enough reason to enjoy an apple fritter, this fall, in peace.
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10. Pumpkin and Chocolate Bread
If we're gonna talk about fall-themed foods, pumpkin absolutely has to be a part of the conversation. Since pumpkins are typically harvested in September and October, it makes perfect sense why it's basically the autumn season's signature fruit.
This is a fruit that's got a super high amount of Vitamin A and also Vitamin C, potassium, copper, manganese, riboflavin, Vitamin E, and even iron. This makes pumpkin the kind of fruit that can help to protect you from getting chronic diseases, will boost your immunity, and help to keep your skin healthy. If you add dark chocolate to all of this, you'll be adding even more antioxidants into your system; ones that will increase blood circulation, improve your brain function, reduce the risk of heart disease, protect your skin from damaging UV rays and lower your blood pressure too.
I'm telling y'all—don't sleep on a slice of warm pumpkin and chocolate bread that's drizzled with butter while drinking your favorite warm drink. When it comes to the best of the best of comfort foods this fall, it honestly doesn't get much better than this.
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It's kinda wild that, in 2025, my byline will have appeared on this platform for (what?!) seven years. And yeah, when I'm not waxing poetic on here about sex, relationships and then...more sex and relationships, I am working as a certified marriage life coach, helping to birth babies (as a doula) or penning for other places (oftentimes under pen names).
As some of you know, something that I've been "threatening" to do for a few years now is write another book. Welp, October 2024 was the month that I "gave birth" to my third one: 'Inside of Me 2.0: My Story. With a 20-Year Lens'. It's fitting considering I hit a milestone during the same year.
Beyond that, Pumas and lip gloss are still my faves along with sweatshirts and tees that have a pro-Black message on them. I've also started really getting into big ass unique handbags and I'm always gonna have a signature scent that ain't nobody's business but my own.
As far as where to find me, I continue to be MIA on the social media front and I honestly don't know if that will ever change. Still, if you need to hit me up about something *that has nothing to do with pitching on the site (I'm gonna start ignoring those emails because...boundaries)*, hit me up at missnosipho@gmail.com. I'll do what I can. ;)
'He Said, She Said': Love Stories Put To The Test At A Weekend For Love
At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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I’ve gotta say that, for the most part, my friends are pretty damn chill. There is one (major) exception, though — and it’s an odd one. Even after all these years and countless times of me giving them the same answer, if there is a time when they think they are my mama, it’s when they see an email come through at an odd hour of the night. Then, all of a sudden, here they come asking me when do I get sleep if I’m emailing at (say) three in the morning.
Again, the answer never changes because, if there is one thing that Shellie Reneé Warren is gonna get, it’s 6-8 (sometimes nine) hours of sleep. However, since my chronotype (check out “Ever Wonder What Personality Traits Make Someone A 'Morning Person'?”) means that I like/prefer to write in the wee hours of the morning, sometimes I will sleep for the night for five hours and take a nap in the day. And y’all, that is just fine with me because I am well aware of the fact that napping does everything from give me more energy, heighten my alertness and even make me more creative to decrease stress levels, strengthen immunity, and reduce my chances of experiencing a heart attack or stroke.
My problem is I will oftentimes go “overboard” with my daytime zzz’s. What I mean by that is, in order to get the most out of a nap, they say thatyou shouldn’t sleep for longer than 25 minutes or so; otherwise, you could wake up feeling sluggish (I don’t but…). Also, it can make resting, soundly, at night a bit of a struggle.
So, what are you saying, Shellie? We should get quickies in? Yeah. And it’s funny that the word “quickie” would come up because just like a sex quickie can do wonders for you (and it can — check out “12 Super Solid Reasons To Have A Quickie Every Single Day”), it’s a full-circle moment when I say that something that can improve the quality of your sex life is to have a power nap (a nap that lasts between 10-30 minutes).
Wanna know how the two things correlate? Honestly, it’s no secret that sleep and sex work together to optimize both (check out “6 Fascinating Ways Sex And Sleep Definitely Go Hand In Hand”). Today, though, we’re going to tap into how a nap, specifically, can have you partaking in some of the best sex that you’ve experienced in a minute. I’ll explain.
Naps Reduce Stress
If you’re feeling super stressed out right now, you are not alone. There is plenty of data out here that says that most of us are stressed for at least a couple of reasons at a time — and that can impact your sexual health on a few levels. For one thing, it can bring about feelings of depression and/or anxiety. Stress can also throw your hormone levels off (including your cycle) which can weaken your libido. Stress can make you want to put distance between you and your partner (yes, literally).
Stress can also make it challenging to get aroused or to have an orgasm. And just what can help to decrease stress? Taking a nap. Since sleep has a way of helping you to “get off of the clock” and relax a bit, that can lower your stress levels and “reset” your body so that you are calmer — and that, in turn, can do wonders for your sex drive and ultimately your sex life.
Naps Improve Your Mood
There is one person in my life, and fairly 80 percent of the time, she’s in a super good mood. Oh, but let that girl go without sleep, and…who is this woman? LOL. There’s research behind why this happens. When a person is sleep-deprived, it messes with their brain chemicals, and that can amplify emotions like anger, restlessness and sadness. In fact, one study revealed that people who had their sleep disrupted throughout the night, they ended up having their positive outlook on life reduced by about 30 percent.
And geeze, who wants to have sex when they’re not feeling very good? Anyway, since serotonin is a neurotransmitter that helps to regulate your moods, your sleep patterns, and your libido and sleep is what helps to keep it in balance — by taking a nap, not only can it help you to feel better, it can also increase your desire for sex (it can also build up your endurance which is also…sexually beneficial).
Naps Increase Your Focus and Concentration
Something that some of my clients bring up is how, when it comes to having sex, sometimes the flesh is willing while the spirit is weak because, although the desire for intimacy is there, so much is going on that they aren’t able to get still enough to focus on experiencing copulation with their partner. This also tracks because, when you don’t have enough rest, your brain finds itself not working in harmony and that can make it hard to do everything from approaching life with a sense of flexibility to making necessary decisions.
Certain data also reveal that a lack of rest can cause you to have a really poor attention span and not process things in context (the more you know). So, if you really want to get some yet it’s hard for you to focus long enough to make it happen, ask your bae to lie down with you and take a nap. Between the sleep and the snuggling (check out “Fall's Coming: 8 Wonderful Health Benefits Of Cuddling”) — you may wake up with your mind and body totally on the same page. #wink
Naps Can Make You Feel Better About Your Body
Even if, overall, you feel really good about your body, I think that we all have moments when we feel less attractive than others — and who wants to have sex when they don’t really feel…very sexy? Well, something else that sleep, in general, can do is increase your confidence in your body.
For one thing, if you want to lose a few pounds, sleep can actually make that happen by helping your body metabolize the glucose (sugar) that’s in it so that you can better manage your appetite. Other studies go on to share that since sleep deprivation can impact one’s mental health and emotional stability in a negative way, of course, getting enough rest would increase body positivity.
Shoot, science even goes so far as to say that insomnia can cause people to have an elevated level of dissatisfaction when it comes to their body image. Don’t take their word for it, though. Look in the mirror before a nap. Then look in a mirror after waking up from me. Do you feel better? I’d be surprised if you don’t.
Makes Your Brain Bigger…Which Could Make Your Orgasms Better
I saved the best for last by design. Now if you’re wondering how in the world a nap can improve (and possibly increase) your orgasms — oh, there is a method to the madness…trust. For starters, the saying that your biggest sex organ is your brain? That isn’t a myth. Long story less long, the brain is what houses your central nervous system and that is what controls how men and women sexually function (yes, literally).
And since the brain also releases feel-good chemicals like dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin during sex and brain activity significantly increases in women during sexual activity (especially right before she orgasms) — well, would it trip you out to know that when you take a nap, your brain actually expands? A bigger brain (that’s healthy) can potentially intensify your sexual experiences (and your climaxes) — and who doesn’t want that to go down?
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Like I said earlier, I never have to be convinced to get a nap in. However, if your sex life has been a bit stagnant lately, you’ve been feeling a little sluggish and you’re not sure what to do — I’m hoping that a nap can get you right.
There’s enough science to prove that it can. All you need to do is give it a shot.
Now where’s your pillow and sleep mask, chile?
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