How Esther Wallace Uses Her Clothing Brand Playa Society To Change The Game Of Women’s Basketball
Growing up, Esther Wallace, founder of Playa Society, took the title of the tallest girl among her peers. Naturally, winning the genetic lottery in stature brought about suggestions of becoming a basketball player, but Wallace had other aspirations in mind. “I always saw myself as an artist and wanted to go to fashion design school, I just didn't have that exposure to build the interest,” she tells xoNecole.
As early as elementary school, Wallace was pulled toward fashion and design, with her sketchbooks in hand at all times. Drawing influence from hip-hop culture and iconic figures like Missy Elliott and red-carpet events, it wasn’t long before Wallace would find a way to merge her natural gifts as an artist and athlete and bring the two worlds together.
“Since I was so fixated on design and fashion, I just remember the differences in ordering our team gear for the year; the men’s catalog always had better stuff,” she recalls. “And that's what I started to take that exploration and be more exposed to the idea of how to solve some of these discrepancies.”
Women's sports face many inequalities, from unequal media coverage, to lower pay and fewer opportunities for women in leadership roles. For Wallace, this fact, coupled with her personal experiences as an athlete has since inspired her to design a t-shirt with a stylist statement.
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Her “Female Athlete” t-shirt made waves after dropping in 2017. The tee, which features the word "female” crossed out and the phrase "teammates not by gender" became an instant hero product of the brand. “I remember designing it and it just felt like a statement that needed to be said,” she tells xoNecole. “It was more so just creating a conversation and starting a movement around the concept of equality for women in sports and from there, I was able to build the brand around it.”
The world of sports, fashion, and culture has always formed a harmonious relationship. With tunnel walks being an opportunity for players to showcase their personal style, sports figures taking up social causes, and sports marketing being a form of storytelling, Wallace understands the power of using clothes to make a statement.
“It's definitely about using apparel or design as a platform for storytelling,” she says. “I always want to try and captivate as much of that energy throughout the women's basketball community as possible and pour it into the design process.”
"I always want to try and captivate as much of that energy throughout the women's basketball community as possible and pour it into the design process."
Esther Wallace, Playa Society CEO + Designer
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As a brand, Playa Society focuses on celebrating and highlighting major moments within women’s basketball, from rising players to WNBA legends, and momentous championships, to uplift and honor the community. “There's always so many layers to the design process, between the message and the design. So I’m continuing to dig through those layers and find ways to piece it all together so that it's always putting the women of the league at the forefront.”
Esther Wallace, Playa Society CEO + Designer
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Today, the WNBA has entered a new era, with standout players like A'ja Wilson, Angel Reese, Skylar Diggins, Alyssa Thomas, and more bringing record-breaking viewership to the game along with soldout arenas. Amidst the controversy and spectacle, this momentum has brought well-deserved attention to the sport that Wallace says is “overdue."
“I think that there are a lot of untold stories just amongst the women in the league,” she says, “I don’t think people realized how exciting, skilled, and talented these players are. I'm excited that a lot of these players are getting so much more well-deserved exposure because I do believe that once the culture starts to embrace these athletes, that's how the game and the league are going to thrive. It's a really exciting time.”
"I'm excited that a lot of these players are getting so much more well-deserved exposure because I do believe that once the culture starts to embrace these athletes, that's how the game and the league are going to thrive."
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Any athlete will tell you that having a player’s mindset is essential to success both on and off the court. For Wallace, incorporating her on-court intentions into her entrepreneurial endeavors has been the secret sauce to her success. “Everything that I do and how I navigate always goes back to basketball. I'm always operating under that pressure — basketball has taught me about being poise and prepared,” she says. “What tends to hold people back is second-guessing and self-doubt, but cut through all of that noise. It's a constant game of continuing the path and trusting your instincts because none of this happens overnight.”
The great women’s basketball renaissance is here and with advocates like Wallace championing the sport, it isn’t going anywhere anytime soon.
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Aley Arion is a writer and digital storyteller from the South, currently living in sunny Los Angeles. Her site, yagirlaley.com, serves as a digital diary to document personal essays, cultural commentary, and her insights into the Black Millennial experience. Follow her at @yagirlaley on all platforms!
Reset Your Relationship: How To Start 2025 Strong With Your Partner
As the calendar turns and a new year unfolds, many of us are laser-focused on our career goals, fitness resolutions, and vision boards that outline the journey to our best selves. But amidst all the planning and self-improvement, have you made room for another important part of your life? Your relationship.
It's easy for couples to fall into a routine, going through the motions and letting their connection sit on autopilot. While comfort is natural in a long-term relationship, it’s important to remember: that what you don’t nurture, eventually fades. So, why not make 2025 the year you reset your relationship? Here’s how to start the year with a renewed bond, reigniting the spark that brought you together.
Step 1: Schedule Your Reset Meeting
The first step to hitting the reset button is a State of the Union meeting with your partner. This is your chance to take a pulse on the relationship, discuss what's working, and identify areas that need attention. It’s all about creating space to reflect, without distractions.
Grab a pen and paper (or open a shared note on your phone) and come prepared to share your top 2-3 desires for your relationship.
What do you both want to feel more of in 2025? Maybe it’s feeling more appreciated, or perhaps you want to reignite the passion you had when you first started dating. Whatever it is, get clear about it, and make sure both of you are on the same page.
This isn’t just about listing your own wants, it’s also about discussing ways to nurture each other’s needs. Relationship goals should be focused on fostering deeper intimacy, trust, and mutual respect. Use this time to check in, not only with each other but with your individual feelings and expectations. Set the foundation for a fulfilling year ahead.
Step 2: Set A Date (Or Multiple!)
Having the meeting is only the first step. Now, it’s time to take action. One of the simplest ways to breathe new life into a relationship is by reintroducing consistent, intentional time spent together. For many couples, life gets busy, and date nights fall by the wayside. But dating doesn’t stop when you say "I do"—in fact, it’s even more essential.
During your reset meeting, lock in a regular date night that works for both of your schedules. This could be a weekly dinner date or an every-other-week adventure—whatever keeps things fresh. The goal is consistency. It’s easy to push date nights aside when life gets hectic, but if you set a specific date each week or month, you’re making your relationship a priority.
If you’re unsure what to do for your date nights, don’t worry! The key is creating new experiences together. This is what sparks excitement and brings you closer as a couple. Whether it’s cooking a new recipe together, trying a dance class, or exploring a nearby town, it’s about creating shared memories that build your connection.
Step 3: Find an Accountability Partner
Just like you might have a personal trainer to help you crush your fitness goals, an accountability partner for your relationship can do wonders for keeping both of you on track. Consider hiring a marriage coach or therapist—someone who can meet you where you are and guide you in strengthening your relationship.
When selecting a professional, it’s important to choose someone who truly wants the best for your marriage and can provide actionable advice.
Don’t be afraid to set high standards for your relationship, and seek guidance on how to keep it thriving for the long haul. In your reset meeting, discuss your commitment to growth, and be honest about areas where you may need support.
Marriage isn’t a set-it-and-forget-it endeavor—it’s an ongoing process. Regular check-ins with a professional can help keep your relationship in tip-top shape and “divorce-proof” by addressing issues before they become insurmountable.
Step 4: Try Something New Together
Stale routines can easily make a relationship feel monotonous. Spice things up by trying something new! Couples that explore new activities and create new memories together have stronger, more fulfilling bonds.
My husband and I host one of the top luxury marriage retreats, A Weekend For Love, designed to help couples experience new things together. From couples' workshops to outdoor adventures, the retreat provides a platform to rediscover each other and reconnect on a deeper level.
The element of surprise can reignite your connection. It’s exciting, fresh, and shows your partner that you’re committed to growing together. This doesn’t have to be a huge commitment—it could be as simple as trying a new hobby or planning an impromptu weekend getaway.
Your Relationship Should Be A Priority
As you start the year with personal goals in mind, don’t forget the importance of nurturing your relationship. It’s easy to get caught up in work, fitness, and family obligations, but your bond with your partner deserves to be at the top of your list. Resetting your relationship offers an opportunity to reignite that spark and remind each other why you fell in love in the first place.
In 2025, make a commitment to prioritize your partnership, to nurture it daily, and to invest in its growth. Take time to celebrate each other’s victories, support one another’s dreams, and build a foundation of love and respect. When you start the year with a clear focus on your relationship, you’re setting it up for success.
So, before you start mapping out your new workout plan or work goals, do yourself a favor: put your relationship at the top of that list. Your love story deserves a fresh start, too.
Happy New Year, and here’s to a love-filled 2025!
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WNBA star Angel Reese stuns on and off the court, and now she’s spilling her beauty and skincare secrets with us. The 22-year-old gave some insight into her beauty and skincare routine while speaking to Vogue, including her game day routine.
“My grandma used to always put mascara on my eyes when I was younger, and I used to go on the basketball court; that’s how I got the name 'Bayou Barbie' ‘cause I always had my nails, lashes, hair done,” she explained.
Below, Angel shares the skincare products that make her skin glow and her go-to makeup looks.
Check out her routines below.
Skincare
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Angel starts with La Roche-Posay Hydrating Gentle Cleanser. “I love skincare. Makes me feel good, makes me feel cleanse, especially after a long day because I’m always on the go,” she said. “I play sports, so my face is always drenched with sweat, and I always gotta keep it clean.”
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Angel uses two moisturizers. She uses Fenty Skin Hydra Vizor Invisible Moisturizer SPF 30 first and follows it up with Cetaphil Soothing Gel Cream with Aloe.
"You have to use the thinnest layer and then the thickest layer," she said. "I learned these tips because one time I posted a skincare routine and they were like, you need to run that back. And they taught me you need to do thin then thick and then I could see the complete difference with my skin."
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She keeps Laniege Lip Balm with her at all times, including during games.
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One-Size Setting Spray is her go-to for keeping her makeup fresh on the court. “I usually spray my beauty blender with my setting spray,” she said. “People usually wet the beauty blender under the water, but why not set it with this.”
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She rounds out her beauty routine with mascara, brows, and her lip combo using Rare Beauty Kind Words Lip Liner and Covergirl Clean Fresh Yummy Gloss. But before closing, she made sure to give flowers to the WNBA stars before her who were also known for getting glammed on and off the court.
“I gotta give kudos to the girls who were wearing makeup before. Lisa Leslie, Skylar Diggins, Candace Parker. Everybody already had their edges and their lashes, lipstick on," she said. "Tina Thompson; she used to wear a full red lip on her lips during the game, but that’s something I could probably never do.”
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