
Ella Mai Went From Singing On IG To Being The New Face of Contemporary R&B

Ella Mai just released a visual for her revamped 2017 single "Boo'd Up" and proved that she is the new face of contemporary R&B.
The 23-year-old artist developed her digital footprint and became a viral phenomenon by posting cover videos that got her a few nods from major players in the industry and led her to be discovered by DJ Mustard. The producer became interested in her after hearing her cover of 2Pac's "Keep Ya Head Up" and sent Ella Mai a direct message that would change her life.
She told the LA Times:
"I had to do a double take at my phone. He's asking me what's my situation and at that point I had no situation. I was singing in my bedroom, literally. I worked and went to school -- I didn't have management, or anything."
The singer, named after legendary jazz legend Ella Fitzgerald, was raised in Southwest London and was enrolled in a performing arts school before she was abruptly uprooted from her comfort zone when she moved to New York where her single mom had secured a teaching job.
"It was such a culture shock for me, being plucked from this diverse neighborhood in London into Jamaica Queens. I'm in this new environment and I had an English accent," she remembered. "All the girls hated me. I didn't sing, I didn't want anymore attention. It was really frustrating."
After graduation, Ella returned to London and enrolled in music classes at a local college until she was selected to perform on the X Factor as a part of a since disbanded girl group called Arize. The group's fame was short lived, and after they split Ella decided it was time to take her songwriting more seriously.
The following year, the songstress recorded a four track EP on Soundcloud and used her platform on social media to grow her brand. She told Fader in 2016:
"I decided, 'Okay, I go to school for music, my friends know I can sing, but what am I really doing to put myself out there?' At the time "679" by Fetty Wap was a really popular song. So I was like, let me put my own little spin on it. I wouldn't have guessed all of this would have come from that video and then all the videos following up after that."
Since her collaboration with DJ Mustard, Ella Mai's been busy making fans of some of the biggest names in the industry (including Chris Brown, Khalid and Halle Berry) and getting ready to release her debut solo album that she said has helped her get to know herself better than ever before.
"We're pretty close to finishing. You can hear the growth from my EP's into this project. Content-wise, it's a bit more mature. It's still me and, like the EP's, still about love and relationships. There are definitely some collaborations but I can't share those just yet."
Her music is a breath of fresh air for millennial women of color who are unapologetically angsty and unashamed of their vulnerability who waited so long to hear their voices reflected in mainstream music. Her unwavering honesty is demonstrated in songs like Naked, which is a testament to self-love and empowerment. She told VIBE:
"Even if I haven't experienced it, there's someone around me that has. I'm a 23-year-old girl. Most of our friends have been through something,I had one lady tell me she was getting a divorce and my music helped her, it's pretty cool to have that interaction. I'm doing something right."
Ella Mai hopes that her music can offer an alternative narrative to heartbroken millennial women. Artists like Ella Mai, Kehlani, and Sza offer a new genre of R&B that own their resurgence and assert their confidence in spite of their vulnerabilities, and it's pretty f*cking liberating to watch.
"I could never have imagined that so early in my career that I'd be ticking off boxes that I've dreamed about since I was a little girl," says Mai. "I definitely feel like I still have a lot of hard work to do. But I'm ready to really show people what I'm about."
Her newest video features cameos from Khalid and Kamaiyah and although we still don't know what the title of her project will be, we are definitely ready for Ella Mai to heat up the summer. To watch the full video, check it out below:
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Eva Marcille On Starring In 'Jason’s Lyric Live' & Being An Audacious Black Woman
Eva Marcille has taken her talents to the stage. The model-turned-actress is starring in her first play, Jason’s Lyric Live alongside Allen Payne, K. Michelle, Treach, and others.
The play, produced by Je’Caryous Johnson, is an adaptation of the film, which starred Allen Payne as Jason and Jada Pinkett Smith as Lyric. Allen reprised his role as Jason for the play and Eva plays Lyric.
While speaking to xoNecole, Eva shares that she’s a lot like the beloved 1994 character in many ways. “Lyric is so me. She's the odd flower. A flower nonetheless, but definitely not a peony,” she tells us.
“She's not the average flower you see presented, and so she reminds me of myself. I'm a sunflower, beautiful, but different. And what I loved about her character then, and even more so now, is that she was very sure of herself.
"Sure of what she wanted in life and okay to sacrifice her moments right now, to get what she knew she deserved later. And that is me. I'm not an instant gratification kind of a person. I am a long game. I'm not a sprinter, I'm a marathon.
America first fell in love with Eva when she graced our screens on cycle 3 of America’s Next Top Model in 2004, which she emerged as the winner. Since then, she's ventured into different avenues, from acting on various TV series like House of Payne to starring on Real Housewives of Atlanta.
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Eva praises her castmates and the play’s producer, Je’Caryous for her positive experience. “You know what? Je’Caryous fuels my audacity car daily, ‘cause I consider myself an extremely audacious woman, and I believe in what I know, even if no one else knows it, because God gave it to me. So I know what I know. That is who Je’Caryous is.”
But the mom of three isn’t the only one in the family who enjoys acting. Eva reveals her daughter Marley has also caught the acting bug.
“It is the most adorable thing you can ever see. She’s got a part in her school play. She's in her chorus, and she loves it,” she says. “I don't know if she loves it, because it's like, mommy does it, so maybe I should do it, but there is something about her.”
Overall, Eva hopes that her contribution to the role and the play as a whole serves as motivation for others to reach for the stars.
“I want them to walk out with hope. I want them to re-vision their dreams. Whatever they were. Whatever they are. To re-see them and then have that thing inside of them say, ‘You know what? I'm going to do that. Whatever dream you put on the back burner, go pick it up.
"Whatever dream you've accomplished, make a new dream, but continue to reach for the stars. Continue to reach for what is beyond what people say we can do, especially as [a] Black collective but especially as Black women. When it comes to us and who we are and what we accept and what we're worth, it's not about having seen it before. It's about knowing that I deserve it.”
This interview has been edited for length and clarity.
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The first time I heard about burn journaling was during my interview with Dreka Gates. She shared a self-care practice a holistic doctor recommended involving writing “whatever is pissing me off” and then burning the paper afterwards. According to the model, burning the page neutralizes the negative energy.
This practice piqued my interest, so I decided to do some research. I ran across a few articles about the practice and what exactly it entails. However, I soon remembered that I actually practiced burn journaling over a year ago and again last year.
The first time I did it, I was among a group of ladies and we were encouraged to write down our feelings in our journals. Afterwards, we huddled around and one by one burned our pages with some ladies even revealing what they wrote. It was a beautiful moment and a great way to support each other.
The second time I did burn journaling, I was by myself. I was reading Calling In The One and one of the practices involved writing down the things I wanted to let go of and burning it. I had Cleo Sol’s “Know That You Are Loved” playing in the background on repeat while I burned the pages in my apartment bathroom.
What Does Burn Journaling Do?
Based on my experience and others' explanations, burn journaling is a cathartic practice. The act of burning serves as an emotional release of past traumas, old thoughts, and negative feelings. It’s also a way to say goodbye and/ or forgive.
Types of Burn Journaling
There are different examples of burn journaling: Burning journals after writing, burning letters and burning lists.
Burn Journals
As stated before, you can write in a journal and burn it afterwards. It’s up to you if you burn it page by page or wait until you fill the journal up and burn it altogether. There are journals you can buy for the sole purpose of burning them afterwards.
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Burn Lists
This technique involves writing a list of things you want to let go of and then burning it. Burning the list symbolizes the release of those things.
Burn Letters
Another example are burn letters. For this technique, you write a letter to someone that you either want to forgive or let go of, but instead of sending it to them, you burn it.
Safety Precautions
If you do decide to try this practice, make sure to be safe. Use a fireproof bowl for burning and never leave it unattended. Alternatively, you can shred the pages.
If you’re in Atlanta and want to try burn journaling, meet me this Sunday for Burn Journaling & Walk.
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