It’s the season of gratitude, and this is the perfect time to gain some new affirmations before the year ends.
Gratitude in itself activates the brain’s reward pathways, releasing dopamine and serotonin, and increasing your overall mood and feelings of happiness. Practicing gratitude in your everyday life can do wonders for your soul, and there will be some affirmations that align with you more specifically than others. Taking care of your mental and emotional health should always be the priority in your life, and as the year comes to an end it’s time to define the words you want to speak and live in through some new gratitude affirmations.
A good way to figure out if an affirmation is right for you is to speak it out loud and pay attention to how your body and heart feel when you're saying it. Resonance often physically manifests as goosebumps and as a feeling like you have known this information all along or have heard the words before. Connecting more to this higher part of you that wants to be heard and seen, can do wonders for your overall well-being in life. A good gratitude affirmation can change your perspective, create space for yourself to feel better, and overall help you see the gifts in your life that you may have missed before.
Read for your sun and moon sign below for your gratitude affirmations right now.
Aries
“With every breath I take, I am bringing more and more gratitude into my life.”
“I am grateful for the present moment.”
“I am creating a life that feels good and I am in charge of my happiness.”
Aries is straight to the point and needs a gratitude affirmation as such. When it comes to the perfect affirmation for an Aries Sun or Aries Moon, you want to look at what is going to make them feel empowered but also help ground this fiery sign. Aries are always on the go and need affirmations that are going to help balance their active energy.
Taurus
“I trust that what's meant for me is already mine.”
“I am eternally grateful for all of the blessings I have in my life.”
“I express deep appreciation for the small steps I achieve each day.”
Tauruses are masters of the chill mode, yet can get setbacks with their stubbornness to move. Taurus does well with an affirmation that inspires them and helps them feel passionate about their life. When it comes to gratitude, Tauruses have a lot to be grateful for however, it can be missed by the focus on what other things they want in their life. The perfect gratitude affirmation for Taurus helps them identify what truly matters in life.
Gemini
“I am safe and grateful for the present moment.”
“With a sense of gratitude, I see the world in a new light. Each day is an opportunity and a gift.”
“The more I show my gratitude, the more good things I receive to be thankful for.”
Gemini is a sign that is always on the go, fueling their curious soul. They are the social butterflies of the Zodiac and need an affirmation that can help ground all of their active energy. Geminis thrive when they have some sort of stability in their life as well as freedom, and they need time to reflect often on how things are going. Gratitude for Gemini comes through by having a good balance in all areas of their life.
Cancer
“I am grateful for the opportunities in my life, and the opportunities that are on the way to me right now.”
“I am grateful for the abundance and the love I effortlessly attract.”
“I am grateful for the presence of love and support in my life.”
Cancers are often thinking of the things they are grateful for, and typically have a good attitude towards this area of their life. They are emotional souls, ruled by the 4th house of stability and gratitude, and know the importance of a grateful heart. This water sign, however, can do well with more active and self-empowering energy and needs a gratitude affirmation that reminds them that they are also the gift in this world.
Leo
“I am grateful for the love that surrounds me. I am free to be my authentic self.”
“I am grateful to others for the kindness they show me. I am filled with praise and gratitude.”
“I am grateful for all the lessons I learned, and I'm ready to move forward now.”
Leos are ruled by the heart and are more emotional souls than many people realize. This fire sign is self-empowered but soft on the inside, and they need gratitude affirmations that will reach them in this heart space. The perfect affirmations for Leos are ones that align with their passion for life and also their passion for love, connection, and reciprocity.
Virgo
“I am grateful for my body, for all that I am, and for all that I have.”
“I am open to things working out for me. I am open to receiving abundance.
"I am open to connecting with my highest self.”
“Every day, I'm going to be more mindful of the small blessings I should be thankful for.”
Virgo is a sign that is grounded, practical, and intuitive. Yet, they are also a sign that can be in their head a lot, and tend to be prone to worrying. Virgos do well with gratitude affirmations that can bring them back to the gifts of the present moment, and that help them connect to their body more. This is a sign that needs an affirmation that can help balance their heart and their mind.
Libra
“I am grateful for everything I have been through because it has led me to where I am today.”
“I am so grateful for how loved I am and how much people care about me.”
“My family and friends support me, and I am grateful for their love.”
Libras are a more mental sign and they spend a lot of time in their headspace. The perfect gratitude affirmation allows them to see things from a bigger perspective and helps remind them of all they have to be grateful for. Being ruled by Venus, the planet of love, a good gratitude affirmation for them will also involve their relationships and the harmony they are always striving for here.
Scorpio
“I’m extremely grateful for my ability to be aware of the thoughts that serve me and the thoughts that do not serve me.”
“My heart is open and receptive to giving and receiving love. I am a magnet for positive, loving experiences.”
“I am grateful for the process, not just the destination.”
Scorpio is a sign that tends to see things in black and white. A great gratitude affirmation for Scorpio will help them find greater balance in their life, and also emotionally regulate. This is an emotional soul who benefits from learning more about their emotions and finding gratitude in all the experiences they move through, both good and bad.
Sagittarius
“I am happy and grateful for everything I have and receive daily.”
“I am grateful for my dreams and I know I have the power to manifest them.”
“I’m grateful for my strength and for my optimism in life.”
Sagittarius is the free-spirit, adventurous sign of the Zodiac. The perfect gratitude affirmation for this sign encompasses all that Sagittarius strives for, but also one that can help them feel safe within the present moment as well. Sagittarius is a futuristic thinker and needs a good gratitude affirmation that reminds them that the true gifts and possibilities are within the now rather than the later.
Capricorn
“I’m thankful for the smart choices that I make and I release all the pressure I put on myself.”
“Life gives me abundant blessings to be grateful for, and I know that I am worthy of them.”
“The more I pay attention to everything in life that is working in my favor, the happier I am and the better my life gets.”
Capricorns are ambitious and hard-working souls, but they are more prone to pessimism than most as well. The perfect gratitude affirmation for this earth sign, helps them believe in the seemingly impossible and helps them feel empowered in the things they are striving for. This sign tends to be successful in whatever they put their mind to, and they need a gratitude affirmation that is going to remind them of that and help them be proud of themselves and their accomplishments more.
Aquarius
“I am grateful for the community I live in.”
“I am grateful for who I am and what I know.”
“I am grateful for the inspiration in my life right now.”
Aquariuses are master manifesters and they know that the key to manifestation is gratitude. This sign can thrive more, however, when they are focused on the present moment rather than what they can create for the future. This is a fixed sign, after all, and they can get stuck in certain mental patterns and thinking that don’t serve them. When looking at gratitude affirmations, Aquarius needs something that is going to highlight the hope in their life.
Pisces
“I am grateful for my sense of gratitude. I know it is the way to joy, peace, and the life of my dreams.”
“All I have right now is this moment is enough. For that, I am grateful.”
“I am grateful for my heart, and my ability to love.”
Pisces is a dreamy soul that is often wandering through the fantasies of life. This optimism and mental expansion serve them well when it comes to manifesting their desires, but it can also be difficult for this sign to feel grounded in life. When it comes to gratitude, this energy comes from the present moment and your feet planted firmly in the ground. Pisces thrive with a gratitude affirmation that can help them feel more safe and secure in the present.
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