Ever since my scoliosis surgery in 1999, my back hasn't been the same.
For years, I've endured extremely debilitating back pain. After seeing a different specialist and trying physical therapy, my last resort was the pain doctor. Based on my age, she explained three different options available to me. Two were in the form of a shot, meaning I would get pumped with steroids for a few months at a time. The third choice was to take a narcotic to ease the pain. Those options weren't the best for me. With any steroid, there is a possibility that the side effects won't be in your favor.
The majority of the time, weight gain is an issue. And of course, with any narcotic, there is a slim chance that you could become addicted. In the past, I've allowed my desperation to get the better of me. So, I explained to the doctor that I was not 100% confident in the plan and that I needed time to think about it. This is something that I would have to endure for the rest of my life.
The pain I was in would eventually turn into chronic illness later on in life.
On my way home, I decided that I wanted to use the injections as a last resort and opted on a fourth option: I wanted to try the natural route. My goal was to try acupuncture, yoga, hydrotherapy, and lastly, marijuana (I live in California where it's "legal"). People who know me know that I suffer from the pain I wouldn't wish on my enemy. Not only do I still have a slight curve in my lower spine from scoliosis, I now have a pinched nerve, arthritis, and a deteriorating disc. I am constantly bombarded with inflammation in the lower half of my body. It's challenging to get out of bed, walk long distances, and sit for long periods. I'd never felt this frustrated in regards to my health.
Fast forward to now, I've been taking CBD capsules for the past seven months. And it has been one of the best decisions I've ever made in my life. I feel like I have a new lease on life. Instead of taking a pain pill from my doctor every day, I can just take a capsule. The great thing about taking CBD in whatever form you choose, you can take CBD "as needed". You can still function and complete your day-to-day tasks without fear of side effects while alleviating every day aches and pains.
Women of color have been getting the short end of the stick when it comes to dealing with pain. Somehow, we aren't believed and are left to suffer in silence. Women with endometriosis, fibroids, back pain such as myself, and arthritis should definitely be introducing CBD into their lives.
I am in no way medically or scientifically trained in CBD. But my hope is to inspire and encourage to incorporate CBD in your daily regimen. Here's why.
What Is CBD?
Shutterstock
According to ProjectCBD.Org, cannabidiol or, in other words, CBD "is a naturally occurring compound found in the resinous flower of cannabis." With the correct scientific compound combination, you can break the marijuana plant down to extract the CBD only. The science of CBD makes sure it covers the endocannabinoid system, which is "a complex cell-signaling system identified in the early 1990s (healthline.com)."
In addition to helping relieve chronic pain, CBD is said to have a host of benefits that range from providing depression and anxiety relief to reducing problems with acne.
Different Ways to Take CBD
Shutterstock
Smoking isn't the only way to ingest CBD. Cannabis companies have made it increasingly easy and convenient to consume. Below are some of the ways.
Patches
You apply directly to the painful area, and they usually work for 24 hours at a time and enter directly into the bloodstream. These patches are equivalent to the menthol ones you would place on a sore muscle. I would advise if you are a beginner to use this method first. The average price for these are $8.00-$20.00.
CBD Vaping
The act of using an e-cigarette is called "vaping". Inhaling goes directly into the bloodstream to target problem areas. Vaping has gotten a bad rap throughout the press for reported lung injury in its users. If this is your method of choice, I would advise you to speak with an expert who can educate you on future health issues. The average price for the vape pen is $20-$30 and for the vape pen oil $25-$28.
CBD Edibles
From personal experience, this isn't my favorite. They infuse the oil to make brownies, lollipops, cookies, and gummies. The average price for these is $10-$99.
CBD Capsules
The most convenient way to take CBD. Each capsule contains at least 5-25 milligrams. It may not have the same impact as the other options based on the fact that it has to pass through the digestive tract and then the bloodstream. The acid in your stomach removes 50% of its effect.
Let’s make things inbox official! Sign up for the xoNecole newsletter for daily love, wellness, career, and exclusive content delivered straight to your inbox.
Featured image by Shutterstock
Writer, Empath, Listener, Self Improver, and a motivational speaker to her homegirls Teisha LeShea currently resides in California who loves to add fifteen million items to her Amazon cart. She is passionate about wellness, spiritual improvement, leveling up, and setting up twice a month therapy appointments. She writes with you in mind. Her listicle and personal stories will inspire you to dig deep within yourself to be a better you. You can follow her on Instagram @teisha.leshea and & @tl_teisha.leshea
Exclusive: Melanie Fiona On Making High-Vibrational Music & Saying Yes To Partnership
Melanie Fiona is back! After taking a little more than a decade-long hiatus, she has officially made her return to music and blessed us with two singles, “Say Yes” and “I Choose You.” While both singles are very different from each other, they both reflect who she is today and the type of music she wants to make. In our conversation, the mom of two expressed what she learned during her time away.
“It's interesting, even when I said it is like coming back, I don't ever feel like I really left because I was always still performing. I've still been public. It's not like I went into being this recluse person or version of myself, but the thing that I really learned in this process is that I think things take time,” Melanie says in a xoNecole exclusive.
“I think often we're so caught up in it, being on the timing of demand or popularity, or, like, striking while the iron is hot and the thing that I've learned is that everything is on God's time. That's it. Every time I thought I would have been ready, or, like, things were taking too long, I had to reship some things, personally, professionally, in my life. I also gave myself permission to make a living, not just make a living, but make a life for myself.”
Making a life for herself included getting married to Grammy-nominated songwriter Jared Cotter, starting a family, and embracing new landscapes, such as podcasting as a co-host of The Mama’s Den podcast. She also began doing more spiritual work and self-care practices like meditation, sound healing, Reiki, acupuncture, and boundary setting, which allowed her to get in touch with her inner voice.
“I wasn't putting out music, and I wasn't experiencing a number one record, but I was being a number one mom,” she says.
“I was experiencing things that were allowing me to heal and get in touch with myself so that I could make new music from a space of joy and freedom, and excitement again because I definitely feel like I did lose some excitement because of just politics and industry and what it can do to your mental health and even your physical health. So giving myself the space to really just say, ‘Hey, it's okay. Everything's right on time.’”
The joy and excitement are felt in one of two new singles, “I Choose You,” which is more of a lovers rock vibe, a tribute to Melanie’s Caribbean roots. While the Grammy award-winner is known for ballads like “It Kills Me” and “Fool For You,” she is becoming more intentional about the music she makes, calling it high-vibrational music. She says her music is a “reflection of my life,” as it captures every facet, from hanging out with friends to riding around in her car.
“Say Yes” has the classic R&B vibe Melanie is known for. However, both songs are inspired by her relationship. Melanie and Jared got married in December 2020, and the Toronto-bred artist dished on their relationship. Fun fact: he is featured in the “Say Yes” music video.
“When we first started dating, I had come into that relationship post a lot of self-work. I had gotten out of a long-term relationship, I had a year and a half to date and be by myself and do a lot of work on myself alone. And when we met, I remember feeling like this has to be my person because I feel it,” she says.
“And so when we went into that relationship, and we started dating, I was very clear. I was like, I know what I want. I'm very clear on what I need, and I'm not going to withhold my truth about myself in this process because of pride or fear of rejection. I know you love me, but I'm coming with my heart in my hand to let you know that if we're gonna get there, we have to put fear aside and say yes. So that was kind of like my open letter to him, which is why the video is us having a conversation.”
Melanie also shares that saying yes to her partner has empowered her in many ways, including motherhood and showing up for herself. Her new EP, also titled Say Yes, will be available at the top of 2025.
Check out the full interview below.
Let’s make things inbox official! Sign up for the xoNecole newsletter for love, wellness, career, and exclusive content delivered straight to your inbox.
Feature image by Franco Zulueta
There's something about snuggling up in your favorite blanket and watching a comfort show or movie on Netflix, and what better time to do just that than in December? As the weather outside gets cooler, staying in becomes more of the norm. Thus, Netflix and Chill is a go-to. Luckily, Netflix has released new Black films and series on their popular streaming platform.
From Tyler Perry's historical drama The Six Triple Eight, starring Kerry Washington, to the Will Packer-produced comedy starring Marsai Martin, Regina Hall, and Issa Rae, Little, this season is looking up.
See the full list below.
Little (12/1)
Regina Hall's character is a bossy tech mogul who has everyone scared of her, including her assistant, played by Issa Rae. However, when she transforms into her younger self (Marsai Martin), she learns how to be more kind to others.
Daddy Day Care (12/1)
Eddie Murphy stars in this film as a father who decides to open a daycare after losing his job.
30 For 30 Collection (12/2)
30 For 30 is an ESPN docu-series highlighting some of sports' legendary figures and moments. Some of the episodes include Winning Time: Reggie Miller Vs. The New York Knicks and Celtics/ Lakers: The Best of Enemies.
Jamie Foxx: What Had Happened Was (12/10)
In this special, the multi-talented Jamie Foxx returns to stand-up to give an unforgettable performance.
Blood, Sweat & Heels S2 (12/13)
The short-lived Bravo reality TV series documented the lives of a group of girlfriends making it in NYC. The show starred model-turned-podcaster Melyssa Ford, author Demetria Lucas, and the late TV host Daisy Lewellyn.
The Equalizer S1-3 (12/16)
The hit CBS show starring Queen Latifah is now available on Netflix. Watch the beloved actress kick ass and take names in this popular drama.
The Six Triple Eight (12/20)
The new Tyler Perry film starring Kerry Washington is a true story about the first and only Women’s Army Corps unit of color during World War II.
Christmas Game Day Ravens Vs. Texans (12/25)
While many will tune in to watch the Baltimore Ravens vs. Houston Texans game, others will tune in to watch Beyoncé perform during halftime.
Michelle Buteau: A Buteau-ful Mind At Radio City Music Hall (12/31)
Comedian Michelle Buteau's comedy special will focus on her life with twins, going viral, and much more.
Evil S3 (12/31)
While Evil was unfortunately canceled by CBS, viewers can rewatch the series on Netflix, with season three premiering December 31st.
Let’s make things inbox official! Sign up for the xoNecole newsletter for love, wellness, career, and exclusive content delivered straight to your inbox.
Feature image screenshot/YouTube