

No matter our size, most of us want to get rid of stubborn belly fat. Whether you're a 6 or a size 26, we seem to be just fine with our voluptuous breasts and big butt, but when it comes to that belly, it's a common enemy for many of us.
Don't get me wrong, we can rock any part of our body with two snaps and confidence like none other. But for me, I know I have issues indulging in the main culprits, while not really knowing how ingredients like protein can actually be a benefit. If you're on the journey of giving your belly fat the boot, check out some methods that could be easier than you think. (A bonus is that this will help you have a healthier lifestyle overall.)
13 Tips To Burn Belly Fat
Sugar-Free Life
So you don't have to completely give up sugar, but we all know it's one of the main enemies to that flat stomach some of us want to achieve. The breakdown is that sugar includes fructose which is also connected to many conditions like obesity, fatty liver disease and even heart disease. Keep this in mind even for sugars that are considered healthy like honey.
Time Out On Trans Fat
Trans fat is sneaky but it definitely makes a difference when it comes to trying to get rid of belly fat once and for all. Some of the biggest culprits for trans fat are packaged and processed foods. Not only do they slow down your journey to a flat belly, but they also have a connection to heart disease and inflammation.
Blame It On The Alcohol
From wine to getting lit on a girls night, alcohol can help make fun times even more fun, but it's definitely not your friend if you're trying to get rid of your belly fat. While it's okay in moderation, drinking any form of alcohol daily can lead to obesity, meaning your body will store even more fat around your waist area.
Make Fish Your Favorite Dish
…At least once a week. Fish like salmon and anchovies are some of the best options. They are not only super healthy but also have lots of protein (which is another plus on this list) and omega-3 fats. It also kicks visceral fat's butt. Taking in at least 2-3 servings a week will get your belly fat loss on the right track.
Burpees Please
I think there's a wide consensus that burpees is arguably the most painful exercise on the planet. But there's also a unanimous decision that they give our belly fat a run for its money. The exercise done in multiple reps can do wonders for your belly fat and your entire body. Just get ready to feel the burn.
Stress Less
Food groups aren't the only thing that can impact your belly fat. Apparently, stress plays a major factor too. Stress causes our adrenal glands to create cortisol, which is a stress hormone. As that gets higher, we not only crave more food, but it causes our bodies to store more fat in the abdomen section. Just one more reason to stop stressin', sis.
Cardio For The Win
It's no secret cardio has quite the impact on our bodies, especially our belly fat that seems like it's never going away. With the right type of cardio, you'll definitely start to see not only your weight go down, but your belly get smaller as well.
Crunch Time
There have been mixed reports on whether crunches actually help you or hurt when it comes to losing belly fat. But if done correctly, they can definitely get you closer to your slim belly goals. The key is to breathe in when you raise your torso from the floor and breathe out once you reach your peak, then repeat. Twists and side crunches as well as bicycle exercises can also fight love handles.
Go With Green Tea
Green tea is more than just a cute order at Starbucks. It's also a great way to burn your belly fat. It includes ingredients that easily up your metabolism like caffeine and epigallocatechin gallate (EGCG), which is an antioxidant. Don't sleep on green tea mixed with exercise. That's the dynamic duo right there.
Fill Up On Fiber
Fiber doesn't just make you feel full (lowering your calorie intake), it helps burn that belly fat slowly but surely. So it's a win on all sides. Foods that contain lots of fiber are brussels sprouts, avocados, oatmeal and blackberries.
Cut The Carbs
While foods containing protein and fiber are some of the biggest belly fat fighters, carbohydrates definitely have the reverse impact. Studies say it's best to stick to less than 50 grams of carbs a day, especially for those who might be at risk of being diagnosed with type 2 diabetes. But you don't have to steer clear of carbs altogether. Sometimes it's just the refined carbs that are the biggest issue while whole grains can be a healthier option.
Protein Is A Pro
Protein has lots of ways to benefit our physique. Like fiber, it actually makes us feel fuller, causing us to take in less calories. Plus, protein has the ability to boost your metabolism, so you keep your muscle when your weight starts to go down slowly but surely. Food with lots of protein include dairy, fish, eggs, beans and of course meat.
Apple Cider Vinegar Is The Key
It tastes soooo gross! But your belly will be thanking you for it. Drinking apple cider vinegar not only cuts back your blood sugar but also lowers abdominal fat storage. The typical suggestion is a tablespoon a day. If you go this route, don't forget to add in water so the enamel on your teeth don't erode. Yeah, it's that serious.
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At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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Love Is The Muse: How Skylar And Temi Built A Creative Life Together
When Temitope Ibisanmi DM’d the word “muse” to Skylar Marshai, he knew he was shooting his romantic shot. He didn’t realize, however, that he was connecting with his future business and creative partner, too.
“I was the boyfriend,” Temi says. “Everybody out there knows, you’re the cameraman at that point.”
Skylar sees things differently. At the time, she was shooting content on her iPhone. Temi came into the picture with a new perspective, an understanding of tech, and, eventually, a camera. “He doesn't give himself enough credit,” Skylar says. “He wasn't just my tripod. He wasn't just standing behind the camera and going ‘click.’ He was giving advice. He was giving me insight to how I could look at things from a different perspective. And I was like, 'Oh, he’s an artist.' I think it was maybe a heartbeat of that kind of energy of like, ‘Baby, can you take this picture?’ And it turned so quickly into, we're partners. We can work together in a way where we're advancing each other's creative thinking.”
The pair often says they’re two sides of the same coin. Skylar is an Aquarius. She attended art school, paints, and loves poetry. She’s more than happy to let the couple’s management firm and agency, Kensington Grey, handle their admin work. And, she loves to sleep in. Temi, on the other hand, wakes up early. He’s a Virgo. He loves a to-do list and regularly checks in on the couple’s brand partnerships spreadsheet to make sure everything is on track.
Because his storytelling was steeped in his love of technology, he didn’t always think of himself as a creative person. “Where I [am] the dreamer who wants to pluck things out of the sky and spend all day with my head in the clouds, Temi [is] so good at grounding me and helping me figure out how to make things make sense on paper. We just work together in such a complimentary way,” Skylar says.
It’s been more than six years since Brooklyn-based couple Temi and Skylar started dating, and nearly four since they cemented their working relationship. On TikTok and Instagram, the couple’s travel, fashion, and home content regularly rack up hundreds of thousands of views. They’ve worked with brands such as Coach, Aesop, Away, and Liquid IV, bringing their vibrant perspectives to every campaign they execute. Still, nearly two years since both Temi and Skylar committed to full-time content creation and creative directing, the couple says their romantic connection remains their priority.
“We told each other we would much rather go back to full-time jobs and preserve our relationship than to be full-time freelancers, barely getting a night's rest [and] barely kissing each other because we're so busy shooting,” Skylar says.
Working from home can make it hard to separate work from personal life for any entrepreneur. It can be even more challenging when your business partner is also your lover. Temi and Skylar had already used couples therapy as a tool to help them effectively communicate with one another. When they ran into challenges while working together, their therapist helped them set physical boundaries to help combat the issues.
"We told each other we would much rather go back to full-time jobs and preserve our relationship than to be full-time freelancers, barely getting a night's rest [and] barely kissing each other because we're so busy shooting."
“It actually took us doing very specific physical things to create boundaries between work and play in our relationship,” Skylar says. “So, for instance, we will only have conversations about work when we're out of bed or we're at the table or in the office. Initially, when we started, we had to light a candle to say that, 'Okay, this is a space where we're connecting, we’re not talking about work.' We needed really hard boundaries at the top. And then it became a little bit more organic.”
The boundaries have been crucial to implement, especially because the couple began working together so naturally. When the pair first met, Skylar was NY-based a social strategist for BuzzFeed and was using content creation to drive business to her lingerie company. She was shooting her own content. Temi was working for Microsoft in D.C. He’d recently traded in his DJing equipment for a camera. “I've always loved taking pictures,” he says. “Even when I was a kid, my African mother would wake me up at 3:00 a.m. [during a] party, and be like, 'Come take the family picture.'”
Growing up, Temi says he watched his parents support each other and be the true definition of partners. He knew he wanted the same for his own relationship. But, the couple also wanted to make sure they were being financially responsible. The pair didn’t quit their traditional jobs until they’d saved up two years' worth of their cost of living. And, Temi received his Master of Business Administration from New York University with the knowledge that it could either help him advance in his corporate career or be applicable to his business with Skylar.
Today, they say their working relationship is more of a “quiet dance.” They still implement some of the boundaries they learned in therapy, but they also lean into their natural strengths and deep love for one another. When we speak, Temi has planned a date for the couple to see Princess Mononoke in 4K IMAX and added it to their Notion so they can factor it into their busy schedules. “I fully plan to date for the rest of my life,” he says.
Skylar says the couple doesn’t just wait for date nights to check in with one another, though. This often happens in the mornings, after Temi has made her peppermint tea and poured himself a cup of coffee. When they ask each other how they slept, she says, it’s not just a “nicety.” It’s a genuine question meant to foster connection.
“A lot of it happens during the day in the midst of work. We'll stop and we'll hug. Or we’ll slow dance in the kitchen,” she says. “Sometimes it's hard to set a whole date night when you have 7,000 things going on. So, we must grasp these moments and check in when we can. And I think it's become so organic to us that I actually didn't even realize how often we do it. But all day long, we're like, 'Are you good? I felt like your energy shifted,' because we're best friends, we just know. We just feel it happen.”
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