

Having a case of the blahs at work from time to time is one thing, but a consistent feeling of demotivation or sluggishness could be a sign you're either headed to burnout or are already there. And if you're bored at work, you're apparently not alone: Research has found that Gen Z and millennials are the most susceptible to experience burnout, with 48% of those ages 18 to 29 and 40% of professionals 30-plus affected---and 46% being women.
So what do you do if you're feeling bored at work, in a complete rut, and headed toward being a hot professional mess? Try a few of these tips:
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1. Get clear on what's triggering those feelings.
I've been a journalist for more than 20 years, and I can't lie, there have been times when the work is tedious or just doesn't motivate me to push for more. I've found that a major trigger for me is when I feel like my creativity is being stifled (whether by company culture, unnecessary red tape to get approvals or pursue stories, or toxic environments.) I'm not one to quiet quit, as I think that's a waste of my time and quite debilitating to my mental health, so when those feelings of boredom and burnout would set in, I'd sit down and get clear on my triggers. I'd then try to figure out solutions (i.e., volunteer for more challenging or creative projects, try out other coverage areas within a company, or quit altogether to pursue a different route that further nourishes the writer and editor in me.)
For you, the triggers could be you're dealing with a micromanaging or a careless boss, doing work that you're just no longer passionate about, or you're in an industry that's just not growing at a pace that matches your career development goals.
Whatever's feeding the feelings of boredom must be written down and dealt with. Get honest with yourself, even if you have to just do a brain dump, take a deep breath, and come back to unpack the feelings later.
It's also a good idea to get help from a coach, therapist, or mentor. Boredom doesn't necessarily mean you no longer want to pursue the career you're in. You just might need to make a few shifts in how you see work, how you operate within a company, or advocate for changes in your department.
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2. Take action to address the triggers of boredom and burnout.
And this doesn't necessarily mean just quitting a job. It means evaluating all courses of action to combat the boredom. Maybe your job is just a money-maker to fund a side hustle or future business that you should transfer mental energy into planning for. Maybe you can request a transfer to a different department or location that requires more creative skills, pushes you to use that problem-solving savvy, provides a much-needed change of scenery, or offers hands-on work that gets you out of the office.
Maybe there's a service project outside of work that you can throw your passions into. Boredom doesn't always mean your job or company is terrible.
But if it is, you need to go heavy on the exit planning. What are your career dreams or goals? What are your current financial responsibilities? What does your quality of life look like? What are the dealbreakers when it comes to company culture or job duties? What can you do to reach your dreams while taking care of yourself and/or your family? Map out a plan so that you can have something positive to focus on versus being bored. (Again, tap into a coach, counselor, or other trusted sources to help you answer these questions and take some of the pressure off of figuring out things yourself. Sis, we're not super-human, and help is available.)
If it's a deeper issue, such as something related to mental or physical health--as sometimes feelings of demotivation can be linked to depression or a physical ailment---work with your healthcare provider to get to the bottom of things. Find support among your family, friends, church, sorority, or other networks so that you can navigate through solutions and emotionally sustain the transitions you're going through.
3. Do things that tap into joy and play whether at work or not.
If you can make your meetings more fun, take your team outdoors for breakout sessions, or even coordinate fun team-building activities (like sports activities, happy hours, or game nights) with your peers at work, do it. If it's against company policy or if your work life just ain't that type of party, schedule something joyful to do during your day and treat it like an important appointment.
If your schedule at work is too packed for all of that, reevaluate how you're spending your day, and find out what might be inefficiently draining your time. Even if it's as little as a 30-minute dance session, a 15-minute walk listening to your favorite upbeat playlist, or a quiet puzzle-completion session, make the time to do something that makes you smile and tap into the kid in you.
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Also, when you tap into a bit of fun, it can help reignite your creative juices, boost ideas and dreams, and really help you to kickstart a path out of boredom. You'll be able to free your mind to figure out new initiatives, new ways of thinking about your job or your career, and how you can approach working with purpose and fulfillment. You can offer yourself grace, take things one step--one day--at a time, and really get to the core of what makes you happy in the work that you do.
We all experience boredom on our career paths, especially when you spend five, 10, and 20 years building, but with a bit of reflection, deliberate action, humility, and outreach, you can beat those feelings to reach your ultimate life and career.
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From '106 & Park' To Prime Time, Rocsi Diaz Is Still That Girl
Rocsi Diaz is no stranger to the camera. From her iconic run on 106 & Park to interviewing Hollywood heavyweights on Entertainment Tonight, she’s been at the center of culture for years. Now, she’s back in the hosting chair alongside none other than Deion “Coach Prime” Sanders for We Got Time Today, a fresh talk show exclusive to Tubi.
The show is exactly what you’d expect when you put a media pro and a sports legend together—a mix of real talk, unfiltered moments, and guest interviews that feel like family kickbacks. As the duo wraps up their first season, Rocsi sat down with xoNecole to talk about teaming up with Deion, the wildest moments on set, and why streaming platforms like Tubi are shaking up the talk show world.
Scoring the Gig & Clicking Instantly with Deion
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Deion Sanders had been dreaming of hosting a talk show, and when Tubi came calling, it was only right he made it happen. But before he found the perfect co-host, he held auditions with different women for the spot.
Lucky for us, Rocsi threw her hat in the ring, and the connection was instant. “You just can’t buy chemistry like we have,” she tells us. “We are legit like big brother, little sister—fighting, cracking jokes, telling each other off. When you watch the show, it’s like watching family.”
Mixing News, Culture & Sports—Minus the Snooze
With We Got Time Today, Rocsi and Deion cover everything from the latest headlines to celebrity tea and, of course, sports. But instead of stiff, rehearsed segments, the show keeps it loose and unpredictable.
“We’re not breaking the mold—it’s not rocket science,” Rocsi jokes. “We just bring our own flair, our authenticity, and our personalities to it. Deion has firsthand experience in sports, so when we talk about athletes, he brings a different perspective.”
And the best part? Unlike traditional talk shows that rush through quick interviews, We Got Time Today actually takes its time. “A lot of shows might give you one or two segments with a guest,” Rocsi says. “With us, we actually sit down and have real-life conversations.”
Her Top Guests (So Far!)
From music icons to relationship experts, the show has already had some unforgettable guests—but a few stand out for Rocsi.
“Ice Cube was our first guest, and he’s just legendary,” she says. “Kirk Franklin had us cracking up when he broke into a full choir freestyle for our Christmas special. And anytime we get Dr. Bryant on to put Deion in the hot seat? That’s my favorite!”
And of course, there’s Nick Cannon. “Nick was amazing,” she adds. “You already know he’s going to bring the energy and say something wild.”
Tag-Team Hosting with Deion: The Inside Scoop
While Deion Sanders is best known for his football greatness, Rocsi says he’s also one of the funniest people she’s ever worked with.
“He’s goofy—like, really goofy,” she laughs. “A lot of people didn’t know that side of him, but now they do. He can crack a joke, and if you’re too sensitive, good luck, because he will go in. But the best part? I throw it right back at him! Sometimes we just look at each other like, ‘Okay, that was a good one.’”
But beyond the laughs, she admires his insane work ethic. “Watching him juggle everything he does is just super admirable,” she says.
How "We Got Time Today" Brings That "106 & Park" Energy
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For those wondering if We Got Time Today feels like 106 & Park 2.0, Rocsi says it’s a whole different vibe.
“The only comparison I’d make is that it’s a destination for the culture,” she explains. “It’s a platform where our people can come, feel safe, and have real conversations. But other than that, this is Deion’s world—we’re just having fun in it.”
The Talk Show Shake-Up: Why This Show Hits Different
Unlike traditional networks, We Got Time Today lives exclusively on Tubi, proving that streaming platforms are changing how we watch talk shows.
“Tubi is giving more people opportunities and making content more accessible,” Rocsi says. “Deion is a huge Tubi fan—he literally loves Black cinema—so it just made sense for him. And honestly? He’s got me watching it too!”
Real Ones Only: Women Holding Each Other Down
Rocsi credits her best friend, Chantelle, for always keeping her grounded. “She kept pouring into me, reminding me of who I am,” she shares. Even Deion Sanders makes sure to give her flowers, often calling her “the hostess with the most.”
In the industry, she’s built lasting bonds with women like Julissa Bermundez, Angie Martinez, and Angela Yee. “Julissa and I still kick it—her house is basically Sephora, so I just shop there,” she jokes. She also cherishes her friendships with Melyssa Ford and Robin Roberts, who have offered unwavering support. “Robin has always been there for me,” Rocsi says, reflecting on the wisdom she’s gained from the legendary journalist.
With the show’s first season wrapping up, Rocsi is grateful for the experience and excited for what’s next. “We’re having a good time, and the audience can feel that,” she says.
And if you haven’t tuned in yet? Well, Rocsi and Deion got time—so you might as well make some too.
Catch We Got Time Today now streaming on Tubi!
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Lenny Kravitz’s Paris Retreat Is More Than A Home — It’s A Tribute To His Late Mother
Lenny Kravitz’s impeccable style is evident in his meticulous curation of outfits and his thoughtful design choices for his homes.
The rock star recently gave a tour of his Parisian home to Agriculture Digest (AD), which he affectionately calls Hotel de Roxie, named after his late mother, the actress Roxie Roker.
Lenny quickly explained why he named his home after The Jeffersons star. “It was her dream to come live in Paris,” he explained. “She wanted to retire after doing 11 seasons of The Jeffersons and she never got to do it. So I’m doing it for both of us.”
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The “American Woman” artist, Lenny, revealed that he had been residing in the house for 22 years. During this time, he has amassed a collection of unique pieces and crafted custom furniture that adorns every corner of the home.
From African artwork to Swarovski crystal chandeliers, Lenny’s home is a true spectacle. “This house continuously pays tribute to my ancestors,” he said.
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Most rooms in the house feature photographs of prominent Black figures, such as the renowned photographer Gordon Parks and legendary boxer Muhammad Ali. The petit salon, which he refers to as the Roxie room, is adorned with his mother's photos.
“I found a bunch of photographs my father had taken of my mother in the late ‘60s and got them framed by the same framer that does a lot of framing for the Louvre," he said. “I just wanted to have a room that was surrounded by her image.”
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He shared that one of the first pieces he designed under his company, Kravitz Design, was the Swarovski crystal chandelier in his grand salon. He often finds many of his unique pieces by browsing the local flea market and small boutiques.
When it comes to his bedroom, the “Fly Away” artist takes a minimalistic approach. Focusing more on creating a calming vibe. He finds comfort in the Moroccan rugs that cover the floor, occasionally even sleeping on them.
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The father of one ended his tour in the basement, which was designed to be a club. Check out the full tour below.
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