

It's getting hot outside and it's the perfect time to take off all of your clothes with your boo of choice and get kinky as f*ck. Whether you're into BDSM or are just in the market for a new dildo, these Black-owned businesses have everything you need to turn up the heat in your bedroom and add some spice to your sex life.
From a new pair of rose quartz handcuffs from Plz Be Careful to the smartphone-controlled vibrator you didn't know you needed, here are 12 Black-owned sex shops and boutiques that you can shop right now:
1.Bedroom Kandi
Founded by Kandi Burruss, Bedroom Kandi is one of many brainchilds the multi-entrepreneur has spawned. Since its 2011 launch, the line of body-safe intimacy toys offers something for everyone, from her signature Kandi Kisses to her Helping Hand.
2.Plz Be Careful
We heard you like to dress up, but what about putting a little kink into it? For those of you who won't to expand your lingerie horizons, Plz Be Careful is the gender fluid clothing line of your perverted dreams. Founded by @moongoddexx69, the eco-centric brand creates custom "slutgear and armor."
3.Organic Loven
Organic Loven is a sexual wellness haven founded by erotic educator Taylor Parks. The curator of intimate products believes that in order to tap into true pleasure from your sex toy explorations, you must do so with high quality, eco-friendly, and body-safe sex toys. In addition to an array of products in their online shop, Organic Loven is also the name of the only adult subscription box to do the same.
4.Lumberjill Leisurecrafts
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Don't knock it till you try it. Richard "Dick" Carver has revamped what a personal massager looks like with his signature wooden dildos. The shop owner hand crafts wooden dildos, paddles, plugs, as well as customizable orders. Long, thick, and powerful are understatements for the functional artwork this shop provides.
5.b condoms
When for the culture becomes for the protection, that's where this black-owned condom company comes into play. B condoms are an organic, vegan, and odorless brand of condoms that touches on some of the pain points of other condoms out there on the market; including but not limited to the fact that they have the biggest condom in the USA with their 60mm Platinum XL condom.
6.Anya Lust
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For this shop, it's the lust for us. Anya Lust is known for selling high-quality luxury lingerie. But the brand takes it a step further by providing a small selection of sexual wellness and pleasure tools. This includes the crystal wand (pictured above), yoni eggs, a vibrating massager, and much more.
7.LyLyth Erotica
If you're looking to truly add some spice to the bedroom, look no further than LyLyth Erotica. The black-owned sex boutique is all about giving its consumers the tools needed to fulfill their deepest desires and explore their sexual boundaries. With handcrafted sex toys and a cream-colored cuffs and leather restraints, prepare to indulge a kink or two with LyLyth as your guide.
8.New York Toy Collective
New York Toy Collective was founded in 2012 by co-founders Chelsea and Parker. Their supply of high-quality intimacy products and toys not only emphasize pleasure, but also all forms of gender affirmation and expression. Due to the tech-savvy nature of the co-founders, NYTC also touts being the first and only sex toy company that harnesses 3D technology to allow for the customization of sex toys for consumers who wish to have sex toys that look like their own bodies.
9.Ardentley
Though Ardentley is a sexual wellness company and resource first, it is also a distributor of body-safe sex toys. As a believer in all things passion, its founder Tatiyanna instills confidence in others to find pleasure in themselves and for themselves through blogs and writing. Her carefully curated selection of cock rings, strokers, vibrators and suckers help too. We're just saying.
10.Hoelistic Shop
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They honestly had me at "hoelistic." Founded by Sadea Bryant, the Hoelistic Shop wants to serve your inner hoe holistically by way of organic and body-safe products for every body, but especially black women.
11.Kolby Brianne Leather
Based in Connecticut, Kolby Brianne makes custom-sized handcrafted leather pieces through Kolby Brianne Leather. Made to order, Kolby creates her pieces with ritual and intention and does so for all body shapes and sizes. The end result are personalized items that can be worn for work and play.
12.Seduction By Lace
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A one-stop shop for your seduction needs, Seduction By Lace aims to give everyone the keys to the sexual pleasure kingdom. The owner Lace offers a collection of lingerie, toys like nipple suckers for self-pleasure in her Pleasure Collection, and a bevy of toys that speaks to your inner freak in the intentionally curated Bondage Collection.
13.Feelmore Adult
Unlike a lot of the black-owned sex brands on this list, Feelmore has an online store but also has the distinction of having a physical store as well. The Oakland based sex store founded by Nenna Joiner has an extensive inventory for any sex flavor you might have a taste for. From fisting oil and lubricant and anal training kits to restraints and dual stimulating vibrators, Feelmore is truly where it's at. Plus, their sex toy Uber Eats delivery option is icing on the proverbial cake.
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Taylor "Pretty" Honore is a spiritually centered and equally provocative rapper from Baton Rouge, Louisiana with a love for people and storytelling. You can probably find me planting herbs in your local community garden, blasting "Back That Thang Up" from my mini speaker. Let's get to know each other: @prettyhonore.
'He Said, She Said': Love Stories Put To The Test At A Weekend For Love
At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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Celebrate International Women's Day With Wellness, Empowerment & More
International Women’s Day, celebrated on Saturday, March 8th, presents an excellent opportunity to honor and celebrate women. As March marks Women’s History Month, there are numerous chances throughout the month to pay tribute to the remarkable contributions of women.
Both International Women's Day and Women's History Month serve as reminders of the progress made toward gender equality and the work still left to do.
They inspire ongoing advocacy for women's rights, fostering discussions on issues such as workplace discrimination, healthcare access, and representation in leadership. By celebrating women's contributions and amplifying their voices, these observances help pave the way for a more inclusive and equitable future.
Here are four ways to celebrate International Women's Day and Women's History Month.
Attend a Women History Month Event
This month, there are numerous events happening, particularly for International Women’s Day. One such event is organized by Media Girls Network, which will be held over a multi-day period starting on Thursday. The entire event is dedicated to celebrating women.
On Friday, the organization will honor prominent women in business and entertainment, including the OMG Girlz, celebrity restauranteur Gocha Hawkins, and more.
On Saturday, guests can indulge in a day of wellness and self-care, featuring a fitness class, massages, a journaling workshop, and other activities. For more information about these events, visit www.mediagirlsontour.com.
Support a Woman-Owned Business
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Reports indicate that women constitute 39.1% of business owners, and this percentage is steadily rising. In light of this, let’s celebrate and support women-owned businesses this month.
Here are a few ways to do so: shop at their establishments, leave positive reviews, follow and engage with them on social media, collaborate with them, or contribute to their crowdfunding efforts.
Support Women's Rights Groups
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Since President Trump took office, we’ve witnessed an unprecedented number of rights being reversed, including DEI programs. Women have been particularly concerned about his decision regarding abortion and reproductive rights. Recently, he dismissed the Idaho Emergency Abortion case, which was a legal battle to ensure Idahoans had access to emergency abortion care.
Writing in her Substack blog, Abortion, Everyday, journalist and abortion rights advocate, Jessica Valenti, said, “By dropping this case, the Trump administration is sending a clear message that anti-abortion states don’t have to adhere to [the Emergency Medical Treatment and Labor Act] by giving pregnant patients life-saving care.”
Instead of waiting on Trump's next move regarding women's rights, support women's rights organizations and charities like In Our Own Voice Action Fund and Planned Parenthood.
Empower Others
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Use your voice to raise awareness about the challenges women encounter. This can be achieved through social media platforms or by speaking at local rallies and events. By leading by example, you can inspire others to get involved and contribute to the support.
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