Your girl is choosing to sit this cuffing season out but her kitty is always craving to be stroked, hunny. But one thing's for sure, when I finish vetting and testing my future lucky suitor, I'm not trying to make it to the damn bedroom! I want that dramatic-movie-scene kind of sex, that we-using-protection-but-you-still-trying-to-impregnate-me kind of sex, and that I-got-your-cheesy-shrimp-and-grit-ready-let's-eat-before-round-two kind of sex. Feel me? That's where standing sex positions come into play.
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What better way to enjoy dating (even when you are committed) than having an arsenal of sex positions up your sleeve to show your lover you can be spontaneous after all that spending, wining, and dining? If you are looking for new ways to turn up the heat in and out of the bedroom, then look no further.
1. Standing Ovation
You sexy sadist, it's time to tell your partner to bow down. In the kitchen, in the shower, in the parking lot however you want it, any-time and any place. This position gives them access to every part of your body and can go both ways.
How to: Instruct your partner to get on their knees in front of you and perform oral right then and there. For some extra pleasure, use this position somewhere that both of you have access to your reflection so that you can watch yourselves enjoy the act.
2. Stand And Deliver
Now this one is straightforward! Quite literally! Great for those who want to feel the impact, or just really don't want to be seen in public (I ain't judging you, boo).
How to: Stand in front of your partner and face the opposite direction, bending forward at your waistline while allowing your partner to enter you from behind. Make sure you guide their hand to your clitoris for some extra stimulation. If you are in a submissive mood, grab the cuffs/hand tie
3. X Marks The Spot
Yoga and pilates aren't the only physical activities that are best done on flat surfaces, give up a little of your control by crossing your legs, making it nearly impossible to run away from that thang.
How to: Lay on a flat surface with your legs crossed and have your partner enter you while they hold your legs up in the air or against your chest. If you really want to enjoy this position's added benefit of vaginal tightness, wrap your hands around your partner's hips and push them further into you.
4. The Wheelbarrow
If you are up for a good laugh with your partner, give this position a try. What's the worst that can happen? The laughing leading to your legs behind your head? The Wheelbarrow position is a win-win situation.
How to: The receiver in the position should start with both hands on the ground while their partner can slip in between the receiver's legs and support them by holding their legs and thighs. The main goal is to get the receiver's body off the ground while thrusting. Your abs are going to hurt the next day from the effort or the giggling, but the orgasm will be well worth the effort.
5. The Frisk
The only body searches we like are in the bedroom, and what better way to scream 'arrest me officer' than with your hands against the wall moaning with pleasure? This is the perfect position for the woman that loves to throw back all the energy that their partner is giving to them.
How to: Put your hands against the wall, bend slightly forward and have you and your partner stand feet-width apart. Let your partner enter you from behind and enjoy the pleasure this position brings to your g-spot. The Frisk position is great for small places and for women who like their hair pulled, ass spanked, and dirty talk directly in their ear.
Now go ahead and enjoy yourself, you naughty girl!
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