Sex
There are a ton of reasons why your sex life is on life support, however the best thing to remember is that most issues inside the bedroom can be fixed with a little practice and know-how. Whether it's your busy schedule, lack of sex drive, or missing self-confidence, having a weak sex game is cause for concern. To get things back on track, first make sure that there is nothing physically wrong by visiting a doctor. Once you're cleared, you can indulge in the fun process of bringing the spark back in between the sheets.
Sex should be enjoyable, so don't get to wrapped up in your head about things, and just relax and let nature take its course. To help you out, we've compiled a list of tips to take your sex life from weak to wow in no time. Get ready…to get it in!
Make A List Of Fantasies And Take Turns Acting Them Out
You'd be surprised how sharing your fantasies with someone else, in this case your sexual partner, can open the door for a whole new world of sexual freedom and enhanced pleasure. Simply start by writing down your sexual fantasies and then pick one fantasy per week, or per month, and act them out with your partner. Your bedroom will never be the same.
▲Masturbate In Front Of Your Partner
This is a simple and, in our opinion, always effective way to spice things up in the bedroom. There is something so sexually liberating and incredibly hot about masturbating in front of your partner. You're looking at them intensely in their eyes while exploring the most intimate parts of yourself as you bring yourself to the ultimate climax. If things get really hot, you can have your partner join in.
▲Watch An Adult Movie You Both Like And Mimic It
Now, we know there are more than a few problems with porn, specifically as it relates to the sometimes degrading images of women through the male gaze. However, if you search hard enough, you can find erotica that is both pleasing to men and women. Once you find some you like, take your viewing a step further and do what you see onscreen. This could open you up to trying new positions, being touched in new places, and embracing your sexuality in a way you've never done before.
▲Increase The Dirty Talk With Phone Sex Throughout The Day
Anticipation can often be just as hot as the real thing. If you spend your whole day talking dirty on the phone via phone sex or sexting, by the time you and your partner actually see each other, you'll be practically about to explode. Sometimes letting the sex simmer is better than taking it all in right away.
▲Take A Sex Class, Solo Or Together
For those of you who seek a more technical approach to heating up your sex life, perhaps enlisting in a sex class could help. If you're single, you can take the class solo, but if you're in a relationship, taking one with your partner can be fun, sexy, and informative. You're never too old to learn a few new tricks.
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▲Incorporate Sex Toys
If you use sex toys regularly when you're alone, up the ante and incorporate them into your sexual activity with another person. If you've never used them at all, this is the perfect opportunity to get things started. Just select your toy(s) of choice, lay back, and enjoy a steamy session full of pleasure.
Related: So Your Man's Not Feeling Your Sex Toys, Here's How to Change That
▲Dress Like You’re Ready For Action
Creating a sexy, unforgettable visual is sometimes all it takes to not only get you feeling sexy, but also to drive your partner absolutely crazy. Whether it's sexy lingerie, your favorite revealing dress, or simply going without panties, dressing like you're ready to get it in can have spectacular results.
▲Embrace Your Inner Stripper
You don't have to be a great dancer or have a perfect body, all you really need is attitude to embrace your inner stripper and get your bedroom poppin'. Make a playlist of songs that make you feel your sexiest, put on something that shows what you're working with, and give your partner a show that's made for them to enjoy. Your partner will be making it rain in no time…but not with dollar bills.
▲Slow Down
These days everyone is in such a hurry to do everything, when taking your time to enjoy is much better. In terms of spicing things up, you want to make sure you enjoy every moment of your sex, so slow down and take it all in. Increase the foreplay, kiss, talk, and nibble between sessions, whatever you need to do to make it last, do it.
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