Whodini posed a question that still remains unanswered for many, "Friends. How Many of Us Have Them?"

Well, let me answer that by saying I have been blessed to have the same group of friends since elementary and middle school. They've grown to be more than friends. They are my sisters. We've been through everything, from puppy love to graduations to weddings to parenting, and I wouldn't change a thing.

I've learned a lot from them over the years. I laugh my way through even the toughest circumstances simply from a silly action or comment made by one of my hilarious sista-friends. I've learned what it truly means to give myself more credit. I don't always admit it, but I believe I would've lost myself along the way if it weren't for my friends. Friends are there when it matters most. Believe it or not, some friends will have your back more than your own kin. Sad, but true. I'd like to think friendships are your own personal judgment-free zone in which you can confide in, cry to, be authentically you, encourage, and enjoy life with.

One thing's for certain, within every group of friends, there are at least five different types of friends that we all have (and need). Some friends may even be all of these types in one.

The Down-To-Ride Friend

She's the friend who will put a whole new perspective on "ride or die," the friend who is down for everything. This can be a good and bad thing, but in my case, it's always been more positive than anything else. Think of her as the one who always has your back in a time of need. This friend is the friend who's ready to pull a drive-by mission when you need to stalk that not-so-ex-boyfriend of yours.

She's ready to back you up even though in the back of her mind she's probably questioning your current life decisions. She is literally down to ride even if that means an hour's commute just to grab a bite from your favorite spot. She's ready, willing, and able with no questions asked. Loyalty is an understatement.

The Funny Friend

Laugh, it's good for you. If you need a more humorous approach to life, this friend is sure to do just that. She's always there to provide comedic relief, which is perfect for those awkward moments. She is also the epitome of black girl joy. This friend may not always be the first one you call, but they are the perfect one to call to brighten your mood or when you simply need a good laugh.

The Brutally Honest Friend

You have to respect honesty, right? We all have that one friend who tells us the truth (and nothing but), even when it hurts. They will be the first to tell you how ridiculous your outfit looks. They know how much you love him, but also know that you need to ditch the zero and get a hero. If you're contemplating quitting a job, consulting with them first isn't a bad idea as they will be honest, whether it's what you want to hear or not.

The Risk-Taking Friend

You know that crazy thing you've been longing to do? This friend is the one you call to join the fun. Ready to skydive? Call her. Contemplating walking on the wild side? She will gladly walk with you. Thinking of taking a road trip in inclement weather? She will brave the storm with you. She's similar to the down-to-ride friend, but she usually isn't down to do things that will result in either of you being embarrassed after all is said and done. So call on her when you're up for taking a little risk and you'll be sure to reap the reward.

The Life Coach Friend

We all have that friend who struggles just like the rest of us, yet for some reason seems to have it all together. This friend is the one to confide in. She is the one to encourage and motivate you, no matter how many lemons may be thrown your way. After one thought-provoking conversation with this friend, you're left with a sense of urgency to accomplish those goals, push through that break up, finish that degree, or simply smile more because you're deserving of doing so and she reminded you that you were.

True friends are hard to come by. Some people go an entire lifetime without having a group of friends, let alone one that's true. Appreciate the friends you do have. Know that no two people are alike, but for good reason. After all, what's life without a little variety?

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