

Black love looks good on all of us. We wear it well, our many variations of brown and black skin welcomes the glow. The sad reality is that we don't see it as often as we'd like to in our day-to-day lives, and we certainly don't get enough of the good stuff represented in the media -- especially in the age of reality TV where the limits of black love are tested for a little more airtime.
However, that's not to say there are absolutely no representations of black love in the media and when they're good, they're great. "Great" meaning we find ourselves transferring our own hopes, wishes, and dreams onto these characters. You know in that way some of us feel so closely invested in Ghost and Tasha's marriage that we hate Angie and thus remind Lela Loren of it every chance we get? But in a less stressful way than that. I have no clue what that means about us and the way many of us become attached to fictional couples on TV, but I like to think it's because we believe some elements of these relationships are admirable and thus attainable.
Because I'm not just talking about any couples, here are 10 black married couples on TV that make us love love even more.
James & Florida, Good Times
James and Florida Evans were a power couple. Yep, I said what I said. No, they didn't have a dime to their name but they were both team players, always striving to provide the best for their family while maintaining intimacy. I'm not only talking about intimacy that takes place in the bedroom, although that was implied from time to time as well. James and Florida showed us the importance of hugging, talking and sharing, submission, and so much more. The couple made time with one another despite circumstances being less than ideal and being the parents of three adolescents. Not to mention, when one of them were in low spirits, the other was always there to lift them up.
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'He Said, She Said': Love Stories Put To The Test At A Weekend For Love
At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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Destination dupes are the latest travel trend that involves visiting lesser-known, affordable places that offer a similar experience to popular destinations. One of the benefits of traveling to a destination dupe is that travelers get to discover a hidden gem, avoid crowds, and save money in the process.
There are many similar destinations around the world to choose from, so check out our list of the seven top destination dupes below.
Discover Amsterdam In Aruba
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Aruba has a massive Dutch influence, which can be found in its architecture, charming streets, and culture. Couple that with water activities such as snorkeling or scuba diving, and you have a vacation to remember. The Aruba Marriott Resort & Stellaris Casino is the perfect spot to immerse yourself in all that the island has to offer.
Find Costa Rican Wildlife In Mexico
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Costa Rica may be known for its tropical wildlife, but Playa del Carmen offers the same experience with less flight time. The Mexican town is located on the coastline of Riviera Maya and the Sandos Caracol Eco Resort, is a great place to take in the wildlife scenery, like spider monkeys, coatis, howler monkeys, all different kinds of birds, marine wildlife in its riverways and so much more.
Trade In The Greek Islands For This Caribbean Island
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Experience Greece in the Caribbean when you visit South Andros island in the Bahamas. It’s one of the larger islands and has the world’s third-largest barrier reef. However, it’s still relatively less crowded than other vacation hot spots. Check into Caerula Mar Club for a relaxing stay.
Can't Make It To Venice? Discover The "Venice of America"
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Fort Lauderdale is often referred to as “Venice of America” thanks to its 165 miles of beautiful, tropical navigable waterways and riverwalk. The city is also known for its award-winning art museums, small shops, delicious dining, and the beautiful string lights in the streets of Las Olas. Check out Hyatt Centric Las Olas located near galleries and fine dining or W Fort Lauderdale for sweeping views of the Atlantic and Intracoastal.
Explore Spanish Culture Without The Passport
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If you’re looking for a Spanish destination with no passport required, than look no further than Puerto Rico. The beautiful island has a Spanish influence that can be found in the food, architecture and culture. By staying at Hyatt Regency Grand Reserve Puerto Rico in Rio Grande, travelers can get a taste of the island’s beauty in their backyard. The expansive resort is set on the famed sandy shores of PR and framed against the backdrop of the El Yunque rainforest.
Uncover The Best Wine Without The High Price
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Who needs Bordeaux, France when California wine country is a short flight away? Discover Napa Valley and all it has to offer, including the best vino and picturesque views of sprawling vineyards and rolling hills. The Meritage Resort & Spa is a premier vineyard property that offers world-class luxury with exceptional hospitality. Guests can choose from on-site tasting rooms, elevated dining options, a locally sourced artisanal market, relaxing spa and more.
Take In Coastal Views Without The Crowds
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If you want Amalfi Coast without the crowds, then explore Turkey’s Datça Peninsula (aka the Turkish Riviera). Travelers will be surrounded by stunning views of volcanic mountain ranges, neighboring Greek islands, and crystal-clear waters. D Maris Bay is a luxurious, secluded resort with five private beaches, several indoor and outdoor pools, an array of water excursions, and world-renowned dining.
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