31-Year-Old Virgin JimDre Westbrook Doesn't Want You To Settle For "Netflix & Chill"
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JimDre Westbrook Is A 33-Year-Old Virgin And Worth The Wait

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  1. Noemi Nieves says:

    Now THAT, is a MAN ladies…

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    1. Noemi Nieves says:

      That’s the type of man that needs to be in the *marriage goals* category. I really hope he finds a woman his caliber because I could definitely see these thot ass woman going after something they think they can destroy…. But unfortunately this man is being led by God himself, so you won’t have that privilege sweetie!!!

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  2. Adrienne says:

    I’m 22 & still a virgin. Sometimes I’m anxious to give it up, but everytime it doesn’t work out w/ a guy, I’m thankful that I didn’t give into temptation.

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  3. AWil says:

    Im a male and a 26 year old virgin. Its my own choosing and I love it. I love the man that I have become and still growing into. Wouldnt trade it for the world.

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  4. Alana Marie says:

    This is absolutely dope reading this from a man’s perspective! Especially in a society where women are given lectures on keeping their legs closed and men are given lectures on how to put on a condom. When Christ is your foundation, it’s a GAME CHANGER! I had a child at 19 and at the age of 21, I remained abstinent for three years and it is extremely hard. I used to view it as “how long can I go without” but if you remind yourself that only God can change your desires if that is something you truly want, it gets a little easier. I don’t regret losing my virginity at all. That is a part of my story. My Addy Paddy wouldn’t be here. But through life and experiences, I am pleased with where I am and how God has continued to work in my life.
    It’s def possible though.

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  5. KikiFitz says:

    This is so inspiring for me. I congratulate him for not giving in to temptation. I have recommitted myself to the Lord God as well, and am encouraged that there are men out here who are willing to do the same. It is refreshing to see, as we so often see a sex-crazed world. Kudos to him! I hope the Lord sends him a beautiful God-fearing woman to be alongside him in this adventure that we call life.

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  6. Kat says:

    This was a nice read. You never really hear about men who are virgins and to know that he has been committed to making his “debut” with his wife since 14, is very sweet. I’m 28 year old virgin and boy does it get a wee bit difficult but this was inspirational.

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  7. NaughtyBunny says:

    Exactly what I needed. This single girl life was getting exhausting and the number of guys telling that I may end of single if I don’t lower some of standards were starting to get to me, did I mention my business isn’t where I want it to be yet every one I know is “balling on Ig” but more than anything, now I know that am not crazy, that am not “too uptight” am just not ready to commit to something that am not sure of. God help us all

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    1. Vulani says:

      Your on the right track.

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  8. Nikole Lakes says:

    Is something wrong with being a virgin we exist

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  9. Terilisha says:

    If I could go back knowing what I know now I’d definitely still be a virgin

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  10. Titi says:

    I love this, I’m 20 and a virgin but ever since I was younger I’ve always said I wanted to wait until marriage to have sex and I don’t see anything wrong with waiting and wanting to have sex with just one person for the rest of your life. Everything in our society is so oversexualized from food to just hanging out, you can’t even go out with someone without them expecting something in return which is sad. I hope I’m as strong in my journey as he is in his 👏🏾👏🏾

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  11. Ruthie Johnson says:

    Congrats bro. I am a,42 year old virgin. I am excited waiting for my husband who is on his way.
    💍 💑 💒

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  12. Shantel says:

    Great piece! I’ve abstained from sex for 6 yrs, but now I’ve made a vow of celibacy in relationship with my God. It’s a blessing to know that there are people on that path in today’s society. My God continue to bless your steps.

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  13. I wish I could go back sometimes

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  14. Men with morals = most attractive. But for those who do have sexual activities there’s a new condom out called Netflix & Chill: http://www.examiner.com/article/the-new-condom-millennials-are-raving-about

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  15. Renee says:

    I’m 26 and a virgin. I’m waiting for marriage. It’s my choice and I want to do that. I was tempted to give it up but then said thank God. That would’ve been stupid. Now this here is a man. I like that fact that in the article he said just because in a virgin and a Christian I don’t think I’m better than anyone. Perfect because most Christians are very hypocritical.

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  16. WOW. now this is rare! I commend him for waiting. Seems like nowadays men don’t have any self control and all they want from a relationship is the sexual aspect of it. So its nice to see someone who is waiting for ‘the one’.

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  17. Bonita says:

    I love it. People always try to pick at flaws (his tattoos) but this is a great moral to have. He seems humble. I’m not mad. And maybe he just did not find the right woman yet!

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  18. Dai Shanell says:

    31?? And here I thought 25 was old! Kudos to him

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  19. Taj Charmed says:

    I just don’t get the whole “staying a Virgin thing” My sex life & drive has increased since being in my 30s and i experience a deeper intimacy with my partner but Kudos, To each they’re own

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  20. Stacey says:

    I really commend him on his choice to wait. But I think we should be commending any guy that waits not just black ones because lets face it. He is 31, fine as hell, fit as hell. He can probably get who ever he wants within reason. I kinda smell that he will be with a white woman soon, which is fine but I am not an advocate for black women constantly supporting black men when we don’t get the same in return.

    Was there a post on here about the book “The Wait”, I am obsessed with that book and the message it touts. Love it. It basically says have standards and to take those standards even further with faith and knowledge that settling for sex in multiple relationships will not yield 100% of what God can do for you.

    Megan Good said in an interview that before she started dating her husband, she thought he was the type of guy that she couldn’t get or wouldn’t like her. I think a lot of us feel like that but if that is the case don’t settle for less than you desire.

    I’ve been celibate for over a year and really like it. Dated 2 guys, but it didn’t work out. I just kept thinking, imagine if I had slept with them! No more. I was previously thinking that I am waiting until I meet the right now but now I am decided that I am waiting until marriage! I still have doubts but am improving my outlook daily by feeding my soul with positive messages.

    Kudo’s to this brother but we need appreciate all me of all colors that commit to waiting and/or are virgins.

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  21. Nnenna says:

    Go figure! No comments on this one.

    I myself have recommitted myself to God and chosen to treat my body as the temple that it is. It’s refreshing to see a guy standing out from the crowd.

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  22. His first time will be explosive

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  23. Nash Wanjau says:

    Rare & precious. Wonder what other virtues he has 🙂

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  24. Nina says:

    I’m not an advocate of promiscuity but seriously, you’re in your 30s! What the heck are you waiting for? There is no reason for anyone to deprive themselves of sex. Virginity should not be applauded, just as promiscuity shouldn’t. I believe in both men and women being sexually empowered and making smart choices when it comes to sex. That is all.

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  25. teeeceee says:

    good for him… well he aint the cutest or the tallest fella, so you make the right decision son.

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  26. Adeea Rogers says:

    Virgin shaming is as hurtful, damaging and disrespectful as virgin shaming. Stop it!

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  27. I would date a 30 year old virgin man. If he can resist and wait for his wife, then he is possibly more likely to be faithful.
    He won’t have diseases or children.
    And you never know what sex will be like for the first time with anyone you sleep with. You can just hope.
    If he is a loving husband, then he will learn and grow with you and learn what to do, and that experience of finding out your pleasure together for the first time is exhilarating!
    I’d date him.

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    1. You couldn`t be more right. I’m speaking from experience. A man like that makes love to you. His heart is involved and you can`t go wrong with that.

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    2. or he get that taste and start to wonder what others feel like. curiosity killed the cat.sometimes its good that men have their whore days early so they know for a fact its all the same

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  28. It’s not that there aren`t men out there that don`t care ab97ut banging a pretty face. It’s just that too many woman are looking for the guys who keep sleeping around WHILE at the same time paying no mind to the virgins and men with different mentality.

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  29. I’m actually surprised about the mixed feelings associated with this young man who decided to wait, in honoring God, to have sex until he becomes wedded. I know it may leave some apprehension in regards to his “skills” in bed although I know “skills” are not weightier than the actual quality of the relationship. Not to mention the fact that he has been faithful to Jesus on that level speaks volumes about his character. Let’s consider looking beyond the physical which can easily be improved and look at the admirable traits of what is a great husband in the making. ‍♀️

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  30. Niceone, man and virgin 🙂

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  31. Dee says:

    I absolutely LOVE this!!! This is so refreshing. We need more men (and women) like this. God bless you, JimDre!

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  32. Ugh whats his Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Snapchat please??!!!

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  33. Taj Charmed says:

    It’s hard to believe at the age of 14 one could be committed to being a virgin w/o exploring any type of “sexual gratification”. Love his dedication!! But at 30+, having a lover that gives you mind blowing sex, I could only imagine what sex is would be like with a newbie….:

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  34. Tia Murphy says:

    I should have waited…. but noooo 19 in college boyfriend blah. .. God bless him

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  35. Ama Phd says:

    He is gonna b SOOOOOOOO happy when he does

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  36. Good for him but i prefer an experienced man.

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  37. Erika Smith says:

    I married a virgin once….. divorced him too lol

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  38. More power to his convictions, but his expectations must be unrealistic. There are many many single women who meet realistic expectations. Let me add, awesome women! For this man to be out of high school, I’m thinking graduated college (didn’t read entire article), no kids, obviously going to the gym and with morals in his 30s, what’s he waiting for? #Foolery.

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  39. That’s awesome.

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  40. Vicki Rodriguez says:

    You are a great example and blessing to countless others. I’m so encouraged. I’ve been in a relationship with the Lord for over 30 years and I know God gives only the best, HIS BEST, to those who wait on Him. Continue to “….Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart….” Psalm 37:4

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  41. Mrs.Ramey says:

    Beautiful💞💞💞💞

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  42. LaTasha says:

    Beautiful. I’ve be abstinent for 16 years so I guess i’m a born again virgin..lol. This is such a beautiful story. It’s good to know men like this exist. All we see is the bad boy and womanizer. It’s good to know there are fine men who save themselves for the right one. Now let me find him on social media 😂😂

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  43. Che says:

    I want to have Sex w mines!!

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  44. Te says:

    This article is breath taking ! He’s so humble ! I know this Will help me !

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  45. J.Cole fan says:

    Wow what a beautiful story.

    S/N Necole whatever happened to Breeangle aka J.Cole’s wife? I miss your old commenters.😖🙇

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  46. I regret not staying a virgin I wish I had just to see the difference of what sex would me to mean once I lost it I was too young to understand what sex was all about when I lost mine

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  47. I’m available if he’s looking lol

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  48. Iesha Myhand says:

    well isn’t this something. This was a good read very inspiring and uplifting.

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  49. Who named this man JimDre?? Who??

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  50. I have had the pleasure of working under his father as a teacher whose name is Jimmy. I don’t know where the Dre came from, but please believe these aren’t the “ghetto” parents that you’re probably imagining. Mr. Westbrook is the most dedicated, professional, and caring administrator’s that I havr worked for. He has also given service in the drug rehabilitation sector, so please, reserve your judgements.

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  51. Why is his sexual statues important? At 31 he shouldn’t want “Netflix &Chill”. He’ll find the right person when the time is right. Now if he should be wanting to do a few trial runs, I’m here to lend a hand!!!

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  52. Yvette says:

    Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr hold up since when is having a Tattoo un-Christian?? Jesus please come back hahahahaha

    In the name of Jesus (Devon Franklin’s voice) please GPS me to where it says that in the bible.

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  53. Nope. I don’t want a 30+ year-old virgin man. When I take my clothes off, he had better know what the hell he is doing.

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    1. It’s not rocket science. He’s going to please his wife thoroughly because he’ll have his heart in it instead of playing porno.

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    2. Have you ever had sex with a virgin?…I have. I know what I’m talking about from experience. Are you talking from experience? If so, that’s unfortunate for you but from my experience he’s the best I’ve ever had….Like I said there are plenty of guys who have had sex with multiple woman and can`t please a woman. Experience isn`t a guaranteed time of satisfaction. I never had to “train” nobody. Not even sure why women feel they need to do that.

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    3. Right! I got no time at this point to be teaching anybody.

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    4. Wys!! That’s very noble of him butttt…yeah, no…can’t do it.

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    5. people are not born knowing how to have sex. It is learned with experience. If you just want a man to hop up and down on you, this man can probably accomplish that. However, he will not understand the finer nuances of how to please a woman.

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  54. Yvonne Bryan says:

    Experience is the best teacher .

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  55. Jené Curtis says:

    @Yvonne Orji… here ya go!! #matchmaker

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    1. xoNecole.com says:

      They’re friends too!

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  56. Rare yet so beautiful in Gods eye.

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  57. Daisy Taylor says:

    I can help him out with all of that

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  58. If he loves you. You love him. He’s concerned about pleasing you before him, what is there to know you think he wouldn`t know….Plenty of people have sex and still don`t know how to please a woman.

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  59. Neicey Penn says:

    He should be with Insecure “Molly” Yvonne Orji shes over 30 and a virgin!

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  60. Choosing to have sex as an adult is not settling. Waiting till you get married/ if you do end up married, doesn’t mean mean you’re with the right person. Just take responsibility for your actions and know what you’re getting into in both situations. I’m not a Virgin and I don’t want a man who is one.

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    1. Whatever you might assume about being with a virgin please erase it from your mind if it’s negative. People speak oof what they do now know of as if they do way too much. I asked God for a virgin. He delivered. And he’s the best I’ve ever had. This proves that whatever these women think they know, they don`t. When you involved your heart in ANYTHING you do in life, the outcome is pleasurable. This is why these girls aren`t worthy of a man with such discipline and principles. If you’re are a virgin for a specific reason then you can find someone else just like you and that common reason that you guys share is actually a plus under the sheets. (Ofcourse this is my opinion)

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      1. Zawadi says:

        Thank you! There is so much virgin shaming out here – even for women. I know a few and they never reveal it because even the women roll their eyes and look at you like ‘what are you waiting for?’

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  61. #dreamy This guy is everything! He knows the word, he is a Kappa, he loves and honors God… he can call me anytime!

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  62. Tarsha WC says:

    Virginity is novel until u hold out for someone who is incapable of fulfilling your sexual desires..

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  63. NICOLE says:

    I’m happy for him..I just kinda side eye all the “perfect” people who can never find a mate. Wondering if it’s him.? Wondering if he is waiting for perfection, or lacking in some other area? I just can’t see a man who has it going on being UNABLE to find someone of substance, but you never know.

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  64. DNN says:

    This is definitely an inspiring story. And goes to how not all Men are dogs.

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  65. Is he related to those Westbrook sisters

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    1. Mone Rivera says:

      Honestly who
      Knows , you know those “Westbrook sisters” one got famous cause she’s pretty on Instagram so they call her an Instagram model smh . But apparently she put her whole family onto views too, so now they’re like the “first social media family” I just can’t ! Lmaoo

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  66. H Ace Wall says:

    Oh man I feel for the women who has to deflower that. Patience and boredom.

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  67. Larry h says:

    And when he get on he gone leave yo ass for a white girl. Get down girl yea go head get down

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  68. That’s a beautiful thing but being a “virgin” isn’t even related to sex, it’s a misconception passed down to plant a seed a shame. Being a virgin is means a renewing of the mind. Most people are too immature mentally and psychology to understand the power of sex.

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    1. I only spoke the honest truth connected to the divine creator vs the mind of man which has been blinded by ignorance, power and control. The sexual creative force is the strongest in the world. You see how Beyoncé uses it. It’s a tool that must me cultivated for maximum effect otherwise destructive chaos is created. Our ancestors knew this Sistars. Don’t take anything at face value, research then ask for confirmation on it from the divine.

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    2. Dai Shanell says:

      Im appreciating this different perspective

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  69. Lori Levit says:

    Why do virgins feel the need to profess their sexual status? It’s a personal choice and certainly doesn’t make someone better than someone who chooses differently.

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    1. I agree!! What’s the big deal?? I really don’t get….. I’m a virgin. Ok, I don’t smoke cigarettes, drink alcohol or do drugs…….. Really, who cares??

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  70. Here we go again. People proclaiming to be a Christian yet covered in tattoos. SMh. True Christians don’t go around labeling themselves as such. Just live a life you deem as moral and stop throwing around the word “Christian”!

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