This Latina Actress Is Tired of Being Told She Isn't "Black Enough" & Explains Why Zoe Saldana Shouldn't Play Nina Simone
Actress and comedienne Aida Rodriguez is funny as hell.
The Puerto Rican/Dominican "Last Comic Standing"alum rarely holds her tongue about subjects that tick her off, especially when it comes to being a single parent and working in Hollywood. But there's something else that she's been very vocal about lately, and that's leaving Latina women out of conversations about race and racism.
Don't get it twisted: she's of the African diaspora, and she will read you your rights for thinking otherwise in a hot, stinking minute. She's appeared on the OWN TV show Light Girls addressing the same issues, which is why what she had to say about Zoe Saldana playing Nina Simone engaging.
The funny girl took to Facebook to discuss the not-so-funny subject matter, where she began the conversation by breaking down why Latinas have the right to talk about race, while also telling several of her followers to have a seat if they think that she's not "black enough" to discuss these things.
*Warning: Make sure your wigs are secured, because she's going to snatch them.
Let me explain something to you: I am a Puerto Rican/Dominican woman. I am a DIASPORA negro. My grandmother, great-great grandmother, great-great-great grandmother, have all been affected by slavery because guess what: They had those in Puerto Rico and the Dominican Republic too. And I don't appreciate you telling me trying to put me in my place, because obviously you've let the system put you in your place. I know who I am, you don't know who you are, you need to find out. You don't have to be here either.
Whew!
She went on to discuss why it was wrong of Zoe to play Nina in her new feature film, where she said that there were plenty of African American women who could have played the role without tarnishing Nina's legacy.
I'm Puerto Rican/Dominican just like Zoe. And I'm going to say this at the risk of being shunned by some of my Hollywood friends, but I just don't think it's cool...some people are making the argument that she's a black woman. She is, but she's not African American. She is Puerto Rican and Dominican. And when I say that I say, yes, we were affected by slavery, and we've been effected by the same things, but we also have a country to go back to if we don't want to be here, we have our own language, we have a flag, we have our own food...We are not a displaced people. Yet we are people of color, but we are not African American. Our experiences is not rooted in that of the American experience. Also, let's be real: this woman [Nina] fought against colorism. What a slap in the face to put a woman that you have to put a prosthetic nose, and color black, when there are so many black women who could play the role.
Aida went off! She was snatching wigs like Aretha Franklin feeling the Holy Ghost in concert.
If anything, I'm glad that she addressed these issues, and she definitely hit the nail on the head in all of her points.
What a lot of people forget is that of the 11 million people who survived the Middle Passage during the Trans-Atlantic Slave Trade, only 450,000 of those Africans made it to the U.S. The Latin Post broke down the numbers following the airing of Henry Louis Gates' PBS documentary "Black in Latin America,"
Five million went to Brazil, several million were taken to Venezuela and hundreds of thousands where spread among many other nations. Brazil became the second "blackest" nation in the world, second only to Nigeria. Brazil, then, underwent mass "whitening," receiving 5,435,735 immigrants from Europe and the Middle East. The conscious policy was instituted in each nation Professor Gates visited except for Haiti. And the goal was to blend or bury African roots, creating racial heritage that was "blackish," at best.
What's even worse is that Latinos have also experienced the erasure of their culture just by living in the United States, which is why they belong in these conversations to begin with. The Latin Post reported that less than three percent of Latinos identify racially as black, even though many of them statistically have African ancestry. They also said,
The Census Bureau doesn't reflect this because it works to erase diversity in order to better slot the entire raza [race] into one group. But, racial visibility is also important. Exposing the histories and backgrounds of individual group creates recognition when it comes to faith, race, language and nationalities. Multiculturalism must be honored, not ignored.
Take a look at Aida's full video below where she talks about Hollywood actors not allowing their privilege to shun the same people who made them famous.
ItGirl 100 Honors Black Women Who Create Culture & Put On For Their Cities
As they say, create the change you want to see in this world, besties. That’s why xoNecole linked up with Hyundai for the inaugural ItGirl 100 List, a celebration of 100 Genzennial women who aren’t afraid to pull up their own seats to the table. Across regions and industries, these women embody the essence of discovering self-value through purpose, honey! They're fierce, they’re ultra-creative, and we know they make their cities proud.
VIEW THE FULL ITGIRL 100 LIST HERE.
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THE ITGIRL MEMO
I. An ItGirl puts on for her city and masters her self-worth through purpose.
II. An ItGirl celebrates all the things that make her unique.
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IV. An ItGirl leads by example, inspiring others through her actions and integrity.
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How A Stay At Switzerland's Luxurious 7132 Hotel Reminded Me To Live The Life I Deserve
Sometimes, as women—especially as single Black women—we simply need to be reminded that we are deserving of living a life we dream of. Even if that means creating it for ourselves. I recently set out on a weeklong trip to Switzerland, a trip I’ve been wanting to take for years, and near the end of my visit, I had an epiphany.
“DeAnna, this is the life you deserve,” I thought to myself as I took in the gorgeous bathroom in my suite at the famous 7132 Hotel and Thermal Spa. It was one of the most luxurious hotels (and bathrooms) I had ever stayed in—and that’s saying a lot for someone who often travels for work.
To help you better understand why this was such a mental awakening for me, I first need to give a bit of my backstory. I’m in my late thirties. I’m an attorneyand a journalist. I own a home and have traveled the world extensively. Essentially, I’ve done everything in life I set out to do. However, when it comes to dating, I struggle. Not because there is anything wrong with me per se, but because my career and “lifestyle” often create problems in my romantic relationships.
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I’ve been told everything from, ‘I can’t continue to date you because you seem to choose your career over wanting to settle down and have kids’ by a man after only the second date to ‘Maybe if you just sat down somewhere for a while, I’d actually wife you’ by someone who has honestly never proven themselves to be the settle down type. And these are only a handful of the things I’ve been told over the years.
It’s been frustrating, to say the least, and there have even been seasons where I purposely dimmed my light in hopes that my career wouldn’t push away potential suitors. I know what you’re thinking, “Girl, why would you even consider that? If they’re for you, it won’t matter what you do.” Hey, don’t judge me, but also, I one hundred percent agree.
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That’s why this recent moment in Switzerland was right on time. When I first walked into the hotel to check in, I was blown away by the surrounding beauty. It was a five-star property with one of the world’s most famous thermal bathhouses. Yet, it was something about seeing that 90% of the hotel’s guests were couples, that forced me to sit back for a bit of introspection—while soaking in the thermal spa, of course.
As I went through the mental conversation, there was a battle of sorts. On one hand, I knew that being able to partake in experiences like the one I was having at that moment was important to me. I knew that, at times I actually love being able to dabble in the finer things—after all, I’ve worked hard to be able to afford them. On the other hand, and sadly, I knew that sometimes being a single Black woman that publicly showcases her “luxurious” habits can intimidate men and even scare them off from pursuing you under the guise of them feeling like they “can’t do anything for you, because you have everything.”
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So, what is a girl to do?
Do I minimize/hide the life and experiences that I have? Do I play down the hard work I’ve put in to get where I am professionally? Or, do I risk being single in exchange for being able to have said life, without backlash?
Luckily, the joy that I felt while being at this property won. There was something about taking a full day to simply pamper myself at the bathhouse and in my in-room steam shower and soaker tub, indulging in cuisine from a 2-star Michelin restaurant and doing all of this while surrounded by an amazing group of Black women that reminded me—this is certainly the life I was meant to live and that I deserve. Even if it means that right now, I’ll just have to provide it for myself until the right partner comes along. And honestly, I’m okay with that.
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