So Your Man’s Not Feeling Your Sex Toys, Here’s How to Change That | xoNECOLE

So Your Man’s Not Feeling Your Sex Toys, Here’s How to Change That

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  1. I don’t think guys understand how much of an enhancement sex toys are in the bedroom. There is a toy called We Vibe were it’s inserted vaginally and it gives clitoral and gspot simulation. And it can be worn during intercourse, so guys get a treat too. I find the best way to ease men into anything is to bring in sensation tools like heated edible massage oils, chilling lubes, or tenga eggs which has different textures and can be used for solo play for guys and incorporated during oral sex. FYI I host fun parties lol.

    1. I have the wevibe! The Bluetooth feature means it can be controlled remotely. It’s an awesome way to spice up your sex life with your partner. Love that shit

  2. Jas says:

    I was having sex with my boyfriend a few weeks ago and my vibrator came on under my pillow. I was so embarrassed but surprisingly he was like let me use it on you. I was shocked because my exes would hate that I had a vibrator when I had them. I always thought all men hated vibrators but I guess it’s more men out there that are willing to use them on their ladies than I thought.

    1. That’s my favorite kind of man! And hey, that ended up being a great ice breaker to introducing it into your sex life with your man. I was surprised to see that too but I see a recurring pattern in what happens when we are using it on ourselves. They just need the right motivation 😉

  3. K. Nichole says:

    I love this! Definitely a discussion women should be comfortable having.

    My ex used to joke that I was like flying an airplane… Needing so many buttons pushed and levers pulled 😂😂😂. He was great alone, but I’m greedy so toys definitely helped him out especially for an all nighter 😉

  4. I like to bring them in Bc I know it turns him on and I think it’s kinda funny that men don’t know what’s going on with the new fancy toys lol but it’s weird if he brings his own… Red flag! Lol

  5. If he is not into toys…fine, I will use them when he is not around. But nothing will be thrown away!

  6. Oenz says:

    It’s better starting off with a discreet vibrator, such as a bullet or cock ring instead of a sex toy that looks like a phallus, then work your way up from there. Also introducing silly sex toys, such a die, cuffs, boa feathers, whips, blindfolds etc. etc.

    As women, it is better off if we introduce sex toys that are pleasurable for men, which will only give them grounds for reciprocity. There should be no troubles unless dealing with a selfish lover, and who needs that?

  7. I use a modern massager from B Swish which my boyfriend bought for me 4 months ago. So instead of boring sex we’re having, now we are really enjoying the pleasure of it.


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