If someone were to offer you pills that were said to lower your chances of postpartum depression, would you take them? Sure, right? But would you still agree to the pills if it came out of an organ in your uterus?
NPR.org reports that as many as 1 in every 7 women experience postpartum depression (PPD), with symptoms of feeling guilty or a disconnect towards her newborn, severe irritability, sleep deprivation, and loss of appetite, to name a few. According to The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, women who become pregnant as an adolescent, have pregnancy and/or birth complications, or give birth to a baby born with defects and disabilities, have a higher risk of experiencing PPD. But don't be fooled. Women who had healthy pregnancies can also feel depressed after the arrival of a newborn. So, I pose the question again: would you look into those pills that could reduce that possibility?
Placenta, yes, “afterbirth," is a temporary organ that develops in the uterus of pregnant women, providing oxygen and delivering vital nutrients to developing babies. It also allows waste elimination and produces hormones like, oxytocin and progesterone. Human placentophagy, or the consumption of placenta, is a practice that dates back to the 16th century in China, used in medicine, elixirs, and to cure lactation and infertility issues. Eating your own placenta also replenishes those nutrients lost during pregnancy. In recent years, it began to trend here in America, thanks to celeb-mommies, Alicia Silverstone, RHOA's Kim Zolciak, Tamera Mowry-Housley, and Mad Men's January Jones who said that it increased their milk production, heightened their mood and lowered their chances of postpartum depression.
Alicia Silverstone's husband calls her encapsulated placenta, “happy pills."
Someone gifted me my placenta in the form of a pill. They encapsulated it. I thought 'That's harmless. I'll try it.' And I have to tell you that I really loved it. I've got the point that my husband said 'Did you have your happy pills today?' And I was really sad when they were gone. It really helped me.
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Zolciak gets her fix through a smoothie, Tamera drinks hers (and shared with her sis, Tia), and JJ takes hers like a natural supplement. There are recipes that exist if you're trying to get fancy with it, too. Earlier this year Kourtney Kardashian jumped on board after she gave birth to son, Reign, and shared her experience on Instagram, calling them “life-changing." Of course, her little sister Kim followed suit and uploaded a pic of her own pills after Saint's arrival. In a post on her site, Mrs. West talks about her fight against postpartum depression the second time around with the assistance of her placenta.
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So, I'm really not this holistic person or someone who would have ever considered eating my placenta...And when I say 'eat my placenta,' I mean that I'm having it freeze-dried and made into a pill form–not actually fry it like a steak and eat it (which some people do, BTW).I heard so many stories when I was pregnant with North of moms who never ate their placenta with their first baby and then had postpartum depression, but then when they took the pills with their second baby, they did not suffer from depression! So I thought, why not try it?...What do I have to lose? I really didn't want the baby blues and thought I can't go wrong with taking a pill made of my own hormones-made by me, for me. I started researching and read about so many moms who felt this same way and said the overall healing process was so much easier. Every time I take a pill, I feel a surge of energy and feel really healthy and good. I totally recommend it for anyone considering it!
Jennifer Mayer, founder of Brooklyn Placenta Services and birth doula, tells the New York Daily Newsabout the growing interest amongst women who are interested in encapsulating their placenta. Mayer typically makes roughly 80-130 pills on average for each of her clients and has cooked up more than 600-700 placenta in a span of her five years in the business, leaving her job as a massage therapist and picking up the side hustle full-time.
She briefly talks about her own experience and the process of encapsulation:
It doesn't taste like anything in capsule form. I slice it, dehydrate it and fill it into a capsule about the size of a vitamin, and place the pills in a blue glass bottle. If anything, it might smell a little metallic. You know, like blood.So far the science on eating placenta is mostly anecdotal; women sharing their personal experiences of it helping with their baby blues. My clients say it increases their energy. Taking a capsule gives them a boost equal to a cup of coffee or a green juice — which, if you have a newborn, is pretty awesome. And there are studies from the turn of the century that show dehydrated placenta did increase milk supply in breastfeeding moms.
There must be magic in the placenta, but if you ask doctors, they aren't buying it. Many believe that, while celebrities publicly advocate for it, there isn't any scientifically based evidence that confirms there are benefits to eating your own afterbirth in any form. After placentophagia became a hot topic back in 2012 from January Jones' comment, many medical specialists weighed in.
Neuroscientist Mark KristaltoldNewYork Magazine, “It's a New Age phenomenon. Every ten or twenty years, people say, 'We should do this because it's natural and animals do it.' But it's not based on science. It's a fad."
Claudia Booker, a home birth midwife and a placenta encapsulator believes there are advantages to consuming your own placenta, but doesn't agree in the belief that it's a remedy for PPD.
“These placenta pills can tell your hormonal system not to create the tremendous drop in estrogen after birth that causes some women to be weepy or feel down. It slows down that rapid estrogen decline...I do not believe that consuming your placenta in capsule form or any form is a treatment for clinically diagnosed postpartum depression, which is a medical condition that should be treated by a healthcare provider. This is more about the new mommy orientation stage, when you wonder if you'll ever sleep again and if life is always going to be like this."
While I've never taken placenta pills after having my children (and probably never will), I don't knock those who choose to indulge. I applaud any woman choosing to do what she feels is best for her body and baby. Healthy mommies do make happier homes.
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They each have had their fair share of unlearning to do after going through rough patches that eventually started them on their financial wellness journeys. During our interview, Dasha and Natalia debunked myths about debt and broke down the many things that helped them on their way. One of those myths is that debt is bad. While using credit cards to make purchases on things you can’t afford and will be unable to pay back isn’t a good method, leveraging debt is, especially when building wealth.
Leveraging Debt
Dasha fell into debt after going through a divorce. While she was always told not to depend on credit cards, it became her only way of survival. However, after going through that experience, she continues to share her story and provide tips on how to get out of consumer debt and use credit cards to your advantage.
“This is something that I've talked to my audience about as just a simple way to decide on leveraging debt, using debt in a way that is going to make you more money. So being in debt, whether it's you know, credit cards to pay for a class or a certification or you need to get financing for a car, like using debt in a way that is going to help you make more money in the long run,” she says.
“So then, as you make more money, you will want to be able to pay off, you know, the debt that you took on, and on top of that, your income as a whole would have increased. So that's one way to leverage debt to build wealth or money by taking care of things or expenses that you need that could catapult your career, help make, you know, income even it's like investing in like a small business that you want to do.”
“This is something that I've talked to my audience about as just a simple way to decide on leveraging debt, using debt in a way that is going to make you more money. So being in debt, whether it's you know, credit cards to pay for a class or a certification or you need to get financing for a car, like using debt in a way that is going to help you make more money in the long run.”
Research
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Debt specialist Natalia recommends that people put the same amount of effort into researching credit cards and debt as they do everything else. She explains by sharing something someone told her. “I used to do more research on a pair of shoes or you know, Amazon shopping like I go straight to the reviews and people do that without even thinking about it,” she says.
“You put a lot more effort into researching the things that you want when you're making a purchase; you can do the same exact thing with like Dasha said, is this credit card the right credit card for me? I drive a lot, so I should have a gas card, right, versus a points card because that doesn't transfer the gas, right? So, you should look at every single aspect of your life. And when you're getting to a point of using it (credit) as a tool, make sure it fits your lifestyle and do as much research as you would, you know, a new car or a wedding dress or whatever those important things are that you've done a lot of research in. You should do the same thing with your debt situation.”
Shift Your Mindset
“It was realizing what I was doing was not the right way. Because I was sticking to what I was told. And I was in a predicament, right? And there were some social pressures, right? You're supposed to do certain things as a woman,” she explains. “You're supposed to get married, have kids, and all these things, and I was following this traditional Caribbean path. That without all the right tools to understand what I needed to make that successful. So it was realizing, you know, if I keep going this way, it's only gonna get worse. So I have to do something different.
“And it was that moment that I decided just like Dasha said, to not be ashamed of it, not to hide it. I made a pact with myself. It was actually 12 years ago; it popped up on my Facebook memories where it said I'm gonna change my life this year. And I just focused on that any way that I could. I made mistakes along the way, but I learned that you know, you learn from mistakes. You can't do everything perfect. And over that year, I decided to change my life."
When she began working for NDR, she learned more about financial literacy, which further enhanced her journey. She also found out that she wasn’t alone and a lot of women are or have been in similar situations. She was no longer blaming herself for having debt and was finally letting go of the shame around it.
“It was realizing what I was doing was not the right way. Because I was sticking to what I was told. And I was in a predicament, right? And there were some social pressures, right? You're supposed to do certain things as a woman.”
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“That's actually when I started with NDR is when I decided to make that shift, right. And one of the myths I had to get over was it was my fault. It was not my fault. There are so many reasons that people end up in debt,” she says. “It could be medical, it could be a divorce, like Dasha. It could be, you know, just not having the financial education.
“At the time, it was not taught in schools, right? I just barely had a macroeconomics and a microeconomics class in college and it was only because I was in accounting that I knew how to balance a checkbook. So, it's one of those things where I just really had to let go the the shame of it, just like Dasha said, and move on, right, and take control and be confident or at least learn how to be confident as I got more knowledge.”
Finding Safe Spaces
As Dasha was learning more about financial literacy, she relied on community, particularly online. The self-proclaimed financial activist created The Broke Black Girl, which started off as a Facebook group and now has become a popular online destination that shares tips on saving, investing, building wealth, and much more.
“For me, when it came to shifting my mindset, it was finding community online, finding places that validated me. At the beginning, I had to create my own space because I didn't easily come across some that approach debt or just money as a whole in an empathetic way in an understanding, meeting you where you are type way, which is what led me to create The Broke Black Girl,” she explains.
“But then as you grow and you learn, and you find more resources, you find more communities, and I also mentioned like resources like NDR that understands that debt is not a morally wrong thing, it's not something that you should feel ashamed, excluded from having certain conversations about money and getting the help."
“But then as you grow and you learn, and you find more resources, you find more communities, and I also mentioned like resources like NDR that understands that debt is not a morally wrong thing, it's not something that you should feel ashamed, excluded from having certain conversations about money and getting the help."
She continues, “So, for me, when it came to the shift in my mindset, it was really finding communities and resources, and organizations that validated my experience. So before I could even start with any tools or tips, I needed someone to validate that I wasn't crazy, that I was making this up, and I think that was a huge play in me learning to look at debt and just money different as a whole.”
Natalia and Dasha are passionate about educating others on financial literacy. Through NDR and their personal efforts, they are hoping to make a positive impact in the lives of others and help them avoid the same mistakes they made. For more information about NDR, visit nationaldebtrelief.com.
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