Intensify His Pleasure With The Help Of These Sex Toys
Over here at xoNecole, we are all about prioritizing female pleasure, be it in the boardroom or the bedroom. It's the reason why articles like "Self-Pleasure Changed How I Experience Sex"and "I Tried Masturbating For 7 Days As An Act Of Self-Care" exist on our platform. By extension, we are also big fans of the male pleasure principle (peep "You Can Take Your Man's Orgasm To A Whole 'Nother Level" as an example). The bodies we've been given are truly an artform and the way they can be stroked and strummed like instruments on the journey to ecstasy is a wonder in and of itself.
As both a giver and receiver of sexual acts, I find myself constantly on the hunt for different ways to elevate the pleasure felt, as a couple and as a soloist. Lately, my fixation of choice has been on hand jobs and how to make it a more intense experience for my partner. It's no secret, most men will tell you that when it comes to hand jobs, their preferred hand putting in the work is their own. Poll any warm-blooded male on which job they prefer your help in performing in the bedroom, and chances are the "hand" variety is the absolute last thing on their mind (well below "blow" and "tit", my loves).
I liken it to how I mostly feel about fingering. No matter the touch, the instruction, or care, no one can touch me the way I touch myself. To be fair, we are all masters of our own sensual experiences, so it's no surprise that self-pleasure can provide electricity in different ways than partner sex can (different, not necessarily better just different). However, to help kick things up a notch in the approach to hand jobs, masturbation sleeves, or male pleasure sleeves, are stepping in with the assist!
What Is A Masturbation Sleeve & How Does It Work?
For those of you who aren't familiar with masturbation sleeves, they are male sex toys that are usually made out of silicone, Elastomer, or cyber skin. No matter the material, they usually have a "sleeve-like" appearance intended to envelop an erect penis. With the help of your lube of choice, it's heralded for being ideal when it comes to intensifying his pleasure. Although the sleeve can be used during masturbation, it can also come in handy (no pun intended) with hand jobs, as well as blowjobs, adding another layer of pleasure to sex acts, during both solo and couple play.
Ready to elevate your hand and your head game? In addition to masturbation sleeves, here are the best sex toys to take his pleasure to the next level.
The Best Sex Toys For His Pleasure
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ItGirl 100 Honors Black Women Who Create Culture & Put On For Their Cities
As they say, create the change you want to see in this world, besties. That’s why xoNecole linked up with Hyundai for the inaugural ItGirl 100 List, a celebration of 100 Genzennial women who aren’t afraid to pull up their own seats to the table. Across regions and industries, these women embody the essence of discovering self-value through purpose, honey! They're fierce, they’re ultra-creative, and we know they make their cities proud.
VIEW THE FULL ITGIRL 100 LIST HERE.
Don’t forget to also check out the ItGirl Directory, featuring 50 Black-woman-owned marketing and branding agencies, photographers and videographers, publicists, and more.
THE ITGIRL MEMO
I. An ItGirl puts on for her city and masters her self-worth through purpose.
II. An ItGirl celebrates all the things that make her unique.
III. An ItGirl empowers others to become the best versions of themselves.
IV. An ItGirl leads by example, inspiring others through her actions and integrity.
V. An ItGirl paves the way for authenticity and diversity in all aspects of life.
VI. An ItGirl uses the power of her voice to advocate for positive change in the world.
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Rihanna Talks Shedding Expectations And Finding Balance As A Mother
Since becoming a mother in 2022, Rihanna has defined parenthood by her terms and hopes to pass that sense of autonomy on to her children.
For Vogue China’s April cover story, Rihanna shared her perspective on raising her two sons with A$AP Rocky, and how she hopes to preserve her children’s uniqueness, devoid of societal expectations.
"The most beautiful thing...is that [children] come into the world with their own individuality and sincerity, without any logic or conformity,” she told the publication. “Which usually makes you feel that you must fit into a certain group."
The “Work” artist, known for her trendsetting style and captivating persona, expressed her desire to support children in fully embracing their individuality and encouraging them to be whoever they want to be. "It's really beautiful to see and I want to continue to help them navigate that and make sure that they know they can be whoever they want to be,” she says.
She continues, “They should embrace it completely, because it's beautiful, and it's unique. I love them just that way."
From shattering music charts to shaking up the beauty industry, Rihanna has forged a path that has since created the “dream” life we see today. One that she says has made her parents proud of.
“I’m living my dream,” she continued. “My parents were very proud of that because they just wanted me to be happy and successful. So, I think the key thing is to find some kind of balance. Yes, balance is important. Do this and you get the best of both worlds. You can write your own life the way you want, and it will be beautiful. Sometimes, you just need to let go of everyone’s expectations and start living your own story.”
Rihanna, who shares sons, RZA, 23 months, and Riot, 8 months, with rapper A$AP Rocky, recently shared her vision for expanding her family in the future in Interview Magazine.
When stylist Mel Ottenberg asked about the number of additional children she hoped to have, Rihanna replied, "As many as God wants me to have.”
"I don't know what God wants, but I would go for more than two. I would try for my girl,” she adds. “But of course, if it's another boy, it's another boy."
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