6 Things To Do With Your Tax Refund
As if it isn't bad enough that 76% of Americans are living paycheck to paycheck, there are a lot of people sitting around waiting for their tax refunds to hit their direct deposit so they can buy all of these things that they probably couldn't otherwise afford.
Those of us who have a problem with spending money before we get it have probably already calculated down to the penny what we're going to spend our tax refunds on.
This year, I will not be one of those people. I have bigger things in mind besides a shopping spree or big ticket item purchase.
I'm pretty new to this tax refund thing (three years to be exact), but I've learned from the mistakes of the people around me who I've watched blow tax refund checks and of course my own experience blowing money fast. Unfortunately, many of us are never formally educated about this tax refund business and just learn from what we see. Most people see their tax refunds as “free money" from the government but it absolutely is not. Your tax refund is nothing more than the excess amount of your money that you paid to the federal government throughout the year. Keyword, YOUR money.
Let's make this tax refund season the one that helps shape our financial futures instead of a trial period of the “lavish life". Here are some of the things that I plan on doing with my tax refund check this time around:
Paying down credit card debt
Whether you have one credit card or 10, owing folk's money is NOT cute. The first thing I'm doing with my tax refund money is paying off a good portion of my credit card balances. Some experts say to start with the card that has the highest interest rate, but considering the rates on my cards are relatively close to one another, I will be starting with the card with the least amount of debt. When that balance is zero, I'm on to the next.
Paying some bills in advance
People come and go, but bills, my dear, are here to stay. Of course you could wait to pay your bills on their respective due dates as you usually would, but what harm is there in getting a head start on next month? And the month after? None whatsoever. Making some advance payments on some bills can ease some of that “first of the month" blues.
Putting some coins to the side
I've gotten into the habit of always having some emergency money stashed away somewhere because quite frankly, sh*t happens--like my MacBook wanting to give up on me every few months or so (yes, I'm in my feelings). You never know what the future holds, so just in case something crazy happens, make sure you have the money to take care of it without being broke afterwards. I definitely will be dropping some coins into my savings for the rainy days.
Investing in your work/career
Whether it's a business that you want to start or career move that you're looking to make in the near future, things that usually bring you money take some sort of monetary investment. Simply put, it takes money to make money. Investing in something now that can secure you a bomb financial future is a sure win.
Revamping your work space (especially if you work from home)
As a writer, I do a lot of work from home whether I'm writing for my own site or freelancing for another publication. In the last few months of my writing career, I've been slowly adding things to my home workspace to make me work more productively. Now, I can take care of the things that are more for aesthetics than productivity, like a new bookshelf and wall decor. FUN!
A treat of your choice
I'd be doing a disservice if I sat here and acted like tax refund checks were all work and absolutely no play. Haha, imagine that! Some people like their money where they can see it, like in their closet in the form of clothes. I'm more of an experience kind of gal. I'm not going to use my whole tax refund check to fund a big lavish vacation but I will put a few dollars to the side as my vacation spending money for when I go away in March. Treat yourself as long as it isn't going to put you right back at square one.
Now that you guys have gotten to see where my head is at, I'd love for you all to share some of the responsible (another keyword) ways that you plan on spending your tax refund check. That's if your spending it at all of course!
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ItGirl 100 Honors Black Women Who Create Culture & Put On For Their Cities
As they say, create the change you want to see in this world, besties. That’s why xoNecole linked up with Hyundai for the inaugural ItGirl 100 List, a celebration of 100 Genzennial women who aren’t afraid to pull up their own seats to the table. Across regions and industries, these women embody the essence of discovering self-value through purpose, honey! They're fierce, they’re ultra-creative, and we know they make their cities proud.
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THE ITGIRL MEMO
I. An ItGirl puts on for her city and masters her self-worth through purpose.
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IV. An ItGirl leads by example, inspiring others through her actions and integrity.
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How A Stay At Switzerland's Luxurious 7132 Hotel Reminded Me To Live The Life I Deserve
Sometimes, as women—especially as single Black women—we simply need to be reminded that we are deserving of living a life we dream of. Even if that means creating it for ourselves. I recently set out on a weeklong trip to Switzerland, a trip I’ve been wanting to take for years, and near the end of my visit, I had an epiphany.
“DeAnna, this is the life you deserve,” I thought to myself as I took in the gorgeous bathroom in my suite at the famous 7132 Hotel and Thermal Spa. It was one of the most luxurious hotels (and bathrooms) I had ever stayed in—and that’s saying a lot for someone who often travels for work.
To help you better understand why this was such a mental awakening for me, I first need to give a bit of my backstory. I’m in my late thirties. I’m an attorneyand a journalist. I own a home and have traveled the world extensively. Essentially, I’ve done everything in life I set out to do. However, when it comes to dating, I struggle. Not because there is anything wrong with me per se, but because my career and “lifestyle” often create problems in my romantic relationships.
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I’ve been told everything from, ‘I can’t continue to date you because you seem to choose your career over wanting to settle down and have kids’ by a man after only the second date to ‘Maybe if you just sat down somewhere for a while, I’d actually wife you’ by someone who has honestly never proven themselves to be the settle down type. And these are only a handful of the things I’ve been told over the years.
It’s been frustrating, to say the least, and there have even been seasons where I purposely dimmed my light in hopes that my career wouldn’t push away potential suitors. I know what you’re thinking, “Girl, why would you even consider that? If they’re for you, it won’t matter what you do.” Hey, don’t judge me, but also, I one hundred percent agree.
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That’s why this recent moment in Switzerland was right on time. When I first walked into the hotel to check in, I was blown away by the surrounding beauty. It was a five-star property with one of the world’s most famous thermal bathhouses. Yet, it was something about seeing that 90% of the hotel’s guests were couples, that forced me to sit back for a bit of introspection—while soaking in the thermal spa, of course.
As I went through the mental conversation, there was a battle of sorts. On one hand, I knew that being able to partake in experiences like the one I was having at that moment was important to me. I knew that, at times I actually love being able to dabble in the finer things—after all, I’ve worked hard to be able to afford them. On the other hand, and sadly, I knew that sometimes being a single Black woman that publicly showcases her “luxurious” habits can intimidate men and even scare them off from pursuing you under the guise of them feeling like they “can’t do anything for you, because you have everything.”
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So, what is a girl to do?
Do I minimize/hide the life and experiences that I have? Do I play down the hard work I’ve put in to get where I am professionally? Or, do I risk being single in exchange for being able to have said life, without backlash?
Luckily, the joy that I felt while being at this property won. There was something about taking a full day to simply pamper myself at the bathhouse and in my in-room steam shower and soaker tub, indulging in cuisine from a 2-star Michelin restaurant and doing all of this while surrounded by an amazing group of Black women that reminded me—this is certainly the life I was meant to live and that I deserve. Even if it means that right now, I’ll just have to provide it for myself until the right partner comes along. And honestly, I’m okay with that.
Restaurant at 7132 hotel
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