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Your Best Girlfriend Just May Be Your Soulmate

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  1. Anya Michelle says:

    Your “soulmate” can come from many different unexpected places in life; mine is a German Shepherd named Biker 🙂

    And you could have more than one in your life too. Even though, the whole soulmate thing is SUCH a girlthing lol, but oh well

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    1. Lol I definitely agree! I just thought it was important to note that it’s not exclusive to a life partner in the romantic sense. I’ve never thought about a pet being a soulmate but come to think of it, I had a cat who I felt that way about. Thank you for reading!

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  2. Tegan Brown says:

    that’s my best friend

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  3. Neezy says:

    This can apply to both sexes as I am a woman with not just one but two best friends who are men (who barely even know each other just of each other) that I cannot live without (yes, straight men and women can be JUST friends!). I’ve come to believe that they are both indeed my soulmates in the form of friendship as everything mentioned here applies to each friendship respectively. The one thing I don’t agree with is the suggestion that your bff is all the soulmate you need… Um, nah. Lol. Intimate relationships should also feel this way imo. Without that kind of connection it’s just not solid. I will add that intimate soulmates may run their course, but friendship soulmates are more likely to last a lifetime.

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  4. Ambria Edwards says:

    I can definitely definitely definitely relate to this post. Me and my best friend have always said that we were so nice. For some odd of reason we can talk for hours and hours and hours and it just makes sense. We are definitely wanted the same where the same person but so different at the same exact time. There so much I don’t think I could have gotten through without her and probably sometimes voice versa. But this article definitely validated that what we knew this whole time exist. I only wish that every female could experience the bond of having a friend that close because it’s definitely a huge feeling

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    1. It’s an incredible feeling. And I don’t think everyone experiences their best friends them same way, but for those who do, that bond and connection is indescribable and the value of her existence is multiplied. It’s something I wish for everyone too because yes it is huge. Thanks for reading!

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  5. It’s so good to see so many people feel this is true, I used to say it all the time.. hilarious that ppl assume soulmates are ONLY true if you are sexually involved with another being… lol. Perception is everything.

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  6. Pink says:

    omg. this is a great piece and I totally agree. I’ve been best friends w my homegirl for 10 years and she has been a true ride or die. she’s the type of person that made me wanted to be a better friend and I learned so much by how she treated me. we are very different as ppl but we also mirror each other as well and I’m a firm believer in synchonicity. everything fell into place. even having kids in the same year. I’m blessed to have a bestie like her to share my path in life

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  7. Ashley says:

    LOVE this article. I met my bestfriend in kindergarten and I’m now in college. We have a long way to go but I’ve never had to question her loyalty to our friendship. Throughout every trial and tribulation she’s been there to back me up and support me. Very thankful for her!!! She’s honestly the best friend anyone could ask for. Good friends are rare, hold on to them!

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  8. Word. We laugh at and like the same stuff. On the same level

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  9. ❤️❤️❤️

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  10. Lenise Reese says:

    that’s my Bestfran, thats my Bestfran!

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  11. im your favorite

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  12. Lmaooooo.. hey that’s what’s friends are for! Keep smiling! !

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  13. Joyia Mack says:

    Keep shining…

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  14. Awwwwwww this is so true!

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  15. We are kindred spirits.. but soulmates…a little too deep..what

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  16. roseinweeds says:

    heeyyy u left out the chicks who dont hv a female friend like this bt a male friend! and i mean a TRUE male (brotha frm another mother never slept with) friend! i do…and he embodies all these things….we do for each other. these r people who come thru in the clutch, know when to back off n knw when to step up! they r ur “halves”…parts of u that u need n God sent to u!

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  17. Stephany Cruz says:

    For me this article showed me that I have found my soulmate and even though its not my best friend, she doesn’t fall short either. She does mean the world to me and its hard to admit it because at first we bumped heads alot. But as the years went by we started to exept our differences and learned from each other. She is the big sister I always wanted but never had. I love her to the moon and back.

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  18. HoneyButter says:

    I hope one day I can have a female friend thats the real deal. All of my former friends spent too much time trying to change me. If it wasnt that it was throwing knives in my back with their eyes, envy and little snide remarks passed off as joking. I have yet to meet a person who will just let me be me. She has to be out there somewhere. I always wanted a living single type group of friends. My fave sitcom to this day btw. Sheridan you are lucky to have had an amazing friendship. I love to read your blog post. One of the best writers xo necole has. Keep up the good work.

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  19. Danielle Richardson says:

    I love this article. My bestie and I have been hip and hip since day one. Our friendship is tested by distance right now but we are inseparable. Not were, are could be BUT WE ARE INSEPARABLE!!. SHE IS ABSOLUTELY MY SOULMATE! I love her to death, wish no harm her way, and I will always have her back. We are each others mirror! We do not judge each other. We are not spiteful to each other and do definitely do not lie to each other. We are each others Diaries. We are each others soulmates.

    I love you Mae!

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  20. I don’t really agree with this. I think my best friends and I are kindred spirits but not soulmates.

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    1. Its real. Rare but real. My BFF and I were unseperable from day 1

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    2. I’m inseparable from my BFF as well but I still don’t consider her my soulmate.

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